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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
Hello! I'm so happy you asked for help. I really hope my sharing can give you some support and help.
It's totally normal for an 18-year-old boy to want to eat whatever he likes. But, he should also be mature enough to express his preferences for things and people in a more appropriate way.
I'd love to hear your thoughts on this!
From a psychoanalytic perspective, the desire to eat the people and things you love is actually a manifestation of your unsatisfied oral phase needs, similar to the cigarette or alcohol addiction that many people develop as adults. That is to say, if this desire and need of yours does not cause harm to yourself or others, then you don't need to worry too much about it, because it is more of an unconscious regressionary self-defense mechanism.
From what you've told me, it seems like you might be having some trouble accepting your own feelings. It's totally normal to feel a bit shy about loving things and people in this way. We all have our own unique ways of showing love, and it's okay if yours looks a little different from what you see around you.
The first step to making a change is to accept things as they are. It's okay to love and appreciate the people and things you care about.
It's totally normal to want to be in control of your partner's affections. It's a sign of a lack of inner security when you feel this way. It's natural to feel this way when your partner is around other guys. It's human nature to want to be the only one in your partner's life and to have complete control. But, of course, this isn't possible. We all need support and nourishment from other relationships.
I think you're right!
So, you not only have to see the person you love as more than just the object of your affection, but also as an independent life entity who will then have her own life and her own social relationships. You choose to accept her, then you need to accept all of her.
Hi, I'm Lily, the little ear of the Q&A Museum. The world and I love you!
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This sounds like a very intense and metaphorical way to express feelings. It's important to communicate openly with partners about how you feel without using such extreme language.
Your emotions seem really strong, and it's crucial to find healthier ways to express them. Maybe talking to someone, like a counselor, could help you articulate your feelings better.
It seems like you're feeling possessive and jealous. Relationships require trust; it might be helpful to work on feeling secure in yourself and the relationship.
Understanding that your date is an individual who can interact with others is part of being in a relationship. Learning to manage jealousy is important for personal growth.
It's not healthy to feel this way or to make others feel like they are owned. Consider reflecting on these feelings and why they arise so intensely for you.