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Fall in love with the character in the comic, and whenever you think of him in real life, you'll break down and cry.

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Fall in love with the character in the comic, and whenever you think of him in real life, you'll break down and cry. By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024

I fell in love with Huo Yuhao in the Douluo Dalu. At first, it was just because the comics were updated so slowly. Then I gradually discovered that no matter how many times I read the chapter that had only been updated 300-odd episodes, I still wasn't bored. I would even feel flustered because of Huo Yuhao's every move. When he succeeded, I would feel excited. When he was with the heroine, I would be very happy and blessed. I love Huo Yuhao so much that I want to get him, but I also hope that he and the heroine will be together. But when I learned that Huo Yuhao actually had a love child, I felt heartbroken for the heroine, and it was as if I had lost something. This feeling was like it was happening to me. Even though I know that Huo Yuhao and the heroine are living well together, I really want to get Huo Yuhao. Just thinking that we are people from different worlds and will never see Huo Yuhao again makes me really feel bad. I am constantly plagued by this emotion. Because I suffer from severe depression and anxiety, I even think about him when I'm daydreaming, and I suddenly burst into tears, as if my partner had cheated on me. I don't know why. This emotion is even harder to bear than depression.

Herminia Lee Herminia Lee A total of 3592 people have been helped

Hello! I can see that you are head over heels for the character in the manga. It's so great that you dream about him all the time! Whenever you think about him in real life, it's totally understandable that you break down and cry. It's sad that you're from different worlds and that you'll never be able to meet, but there's still hope!

✍️I see that the questioner says that he has severe depressive and anxious moods, and recently his moods have often broken down due to anime characters, and he is going crazy. I suggest that the questioner go to the psychiatric department as soon as possible for a consultation, so that the doctor can assess the severity and prescribe treatment. Emotional problems can be relieved. I am excited to see the questioner solve his emotional problems and become emotionally stable enough to solve your predicament!

✍️I see that you have developed a strong connection with the comic book character Huo Yuhao. Empathy is a fascinating psychological concept that allows you to transfer your emotions towards a specific person to an object. Huo Yuhao represents the image of your perfect other half within. His character design perfectly aligns with your psychological expectations of a spiritual pillar.

✍️It may be that in reality, there is no one who can understand you, so you place your spiritual and emotional hopes in anime characters. You hope to be with the character in your ideal world and satisfy your inner emotional needs. And why not? It's a wonderful thing to have such exciting hopes!

I highly recommend that you get out there and experience the real world! Go outside, take in the sights, and embrace what the real world has to offer. You're absolutely right — you and Huo Yuhao are from two different worlds. He's a virtual character in two-dimensional space, while you're a real person in three-dimensional space.

✍️If you want to find a close partner, you can only find it in reality. And the people in reality are just like you, imperfect but real. It's a wonderful thing! You can read the book "Every Kind of Loneliness Has a Companion" to find out more.

We all long to be loved and to escape loneliness. We hope that the questioner will actively treat their illness, promote physical and mental recovery, become aware of their needs in reality, learn to love and accept themselves, and when they have a stable self within, they will no longer seek spiritual dependence from the outside world or the virtual world.

I'm sure you'll get rid of your troubles soon! I wish you the best of luck!

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Hazel Hazel A total of 6814 people have been helped

Dear Questioner, I perceive you to be a person who has experienced a profound romantic attachment. This attachment has brought you both blessings and challenges. On the one hand, it has led to the formation of a romantic couple. On the other hand, it has resulted in the pain of an illegitimate child and the distress of being unable to meet the other person in person. These experiences are common among individuals who have fallen in love. Best regards, [Your Name]

Huo Yuhao must be a highly admirable individual to have earned your respect. After his interaction with the female protagonist, you not only remained calm but also expressed positive sentiments towards him. This demonstrates an understanding of the concept of "love as a form of completion," where one is more willing to see the other person happy than to lose the relationship.

You are keen to arrange another meeting, but the distance between you is considerable. The situation is undoubtedly painful, particularly given the long-term nature of your relationship.

Upon learning of his secret child, it is akin to discovering infidelity on the part of your partner. The investment of time, energy, and trust you have made in the relationship has been rewarded with betrayal, which is a regrettable outcome.

While it may be a two-dimensional love, it is nevertheless genuine. I can see from it your yearning for pure love and your passionate attitude towards life, as well as a sense of justice and morality. At the same time, in your devotion to the world of comics, I also sense a certain distance between you and the real world.

While the world of comics is more straightforward and idealized than reality, we can only observe it; we cannot actively engage with it. Our intense desire is conveyed across the screen, but the other party is unaware. Regardless, if you want to cry, it is acceptable to do so openly. Suppressing your emotions will not help the situation.

After expressing your emotions, you may wish to consider refocusing your attention on the practicalities of the situation. It is possible to derive comfort from the warmth of human connection and to embrace a courageous approach to the challenges ahead. Regardless of the outcome, you have the opportunity to take the reins as the protagonist in your own life. You can choose to love or to hate, to persevere or to give up, and to make decisions that align with your values and goals.

Naturally, it is my hope that the kind-hearted questioner will not have unrealistic expectations of the real world and will not be disappointed in the end. I provide two tips in the hope that they will be useful to the questioner when facing difficulties:

It is advisable to set realistic expectations.

In the real world, individuals have their own independent thoughts, and circumstances often do not align with our expectations. There may even be attempts to influence our thoughts. By maintaining low expectations and managing disappointments, we can remain calm and progress.

2. Maintain a positive outlook.

The beauty of the real world is that there is always something positive to be found, whether it is a kind act, a flower, or even a passing cat. Regardless of the circumstances, maintaining hope will lead to opportunities for growth and advancement.

My name is Yangta, and I hope I have been able to provide you with the information you were seeking.

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Abigail Davis Time is a ladder, and we climb it one rung at a time.

I can totally relate to your feelings about Huo Yuhao. Fictional characters can really get under our skin, can't they? It's like he became more than just a character to you.

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Branson Miller Life is a long lesson in humility.

Huo Yuhao has this magnetic pull that makes us invest so much emotionally. I also felt a pang when I read about his love child. It's almost as if we're living through the story with him.

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Ralph Thomas A successful person views failure as a chance to prove their mettle and move towards success.

It sounds like you've created a deep connection with Huo Yuhao. Sometimes, it's hard to separate fiction from reality, especially when a character resonates with us on such a profound level.

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Ethan Thomas In for a penny, in for a pound; be honest, be true.

Your dedication to Huo Yuhao is truly touching. It's amazing how stories and characters can affect us so deeply. Maybe talking about these feelings can help ease the pain a little bit.

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Mary Miller There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.

The emotional journey with Huo Yuhao must have been intense for you. It's okay to feel this way; stories have power over us because they tap into real emotions. Have you tried discussing this with others who also enjoy Douluo Dalu?

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