Have been dating my boyfriend for two months, but he's ignored me since the second month. What's going on?

Hello! I'd like to extend a warm hug from afar to you.

It is possible to perceive the sense of grievance, helplessness, and powerlessness that arises from your desperate longing to be accepted, understood, listened to, and supported.

From your description, it seems that your boyfriend's indifferent attitude has led you to feel misunderstood, unaccepted, disrespected, and unheard. It's understandable that you might feel hesitant to approach the subject directly with him, especially given the nature of his behavior. However, it's important to communicate your feelings and expectations in a way that is honest and respectful, so that he can understand the impact of his actions and make any necessary adjustments.

It's important to remember that how he treats you is something you cannot decide or control. However, you can decide and control how you treat yourself. This is an important distinction. In a relationship, the way you treat yourself will largely guide and suggest the way others respond to you. This is something to keep in mind. It's possible that the way others treat you may be partly due to what you have taught them.

It might be helpful to try to understand what lies behind your desperate desire to be accepted, understood, and supported. Is it because you feel worthy of love and good enough, or because you feel rejected, worthless, and not good enough? Could it be that you are struggling to accept yourself as you are?

If so, you might consider trying to learn to accept yourself better and develop self-confidence. It may be helpful to be able to see your own shortcomings and deficiencies, as well as your own bright spots and strengths.

You deserve to be treated well by yourself and others. Perhaps if you can try to learn to respect your body and mind's true feelings and respond to yourself in a timely and appropriate manner, you will not blindly rely on others due to your own extreme sense of deprivation. What do you think?

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Please be reassured that your feelings of anxiety, tension, and doubt are normal. My name is Jia Jia.

Firstly, it appears that your relationship with your current boyfriend is in a state of imbalance, whereby you are taking the initiative and he is not. This is the situation commonly described as a woman having to pursue a man to gain his attention.

I would like you to provide a summary of how you communicated with him during the first month, how he behaved, and how he felt about you. Please also indicate when he suddenly ceased paying attention to you.

It would be beneficial to identify any significant events or disagreements that have occurred. This will assist in the resolution of any outstanding issues.

Secondly, excessive enthusiasm is not a favourable trait. As the old adage goes, if you are too eager, you will ultimately be the one who suffers the consequences. Even if you have a strong affinity for someone, if they are too eager and overwhelming, it will create an uncomfortable situation for others, and they will likely withdraw.

Furthermore, the relationship is still in its infancy, and there may be some underlying issues that need to be addressed. There could be a number of contributing factors, and it's possible that the male partner may not have articulated his expectations accurately from the outset.

It is important to carefully consider the reasons behind your desire to firmly grasp anything with a clenched fist, only to find yourself grasping nothing.

Third, maintaining an appropriate distance can foster a sense of beauty and love. It is not advisable to become overly invested in a romantic relationship. Once in love, it is common to become fixated on the other person.

It is also important to consider your own needs and feelings. Do you require the company of a romantic partner? Or are there other factors at play?

What about professional development? What about work responsibilities?

What about family and friends? There are many other valuable pursuits outside of romantic relationships.

It would be beneficial for us all to take some time to reflect on the past and create a comprehensive summary.

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