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He even took his computer on their honeymoon. Why didn't the husband want to have sex?

1. Premarital sex 2. Wedding preparation 3. Honeymoon 4. Work-life balance 5. Long-distance relationship
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He even took his computer on their honeymoon. Why didn't the husband want to have sex? By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024

We've been dating for 4.5 years, I'm 28 and he's 29. The first two years, he always wanted to, and I actually wanted to too, but I had a mysterious obsession in my heart that I couldn't accept premarital sex, so I kept refusing, and he respected that I kept holding back.

Now our wedding room is still being decorated, we have already received our marriage certificate, and the hotel we booked for our honeymoon was amazing, so I thought it would be fine, but he refused... I was a little surprised when he asked me, "Are you here? !

! He said he would wait until the house was decorated before coming home, which made me feel so awkward Σ(|||▽||| ) What's going on... What's wrong with the hotel!

And he works very hard at Too1. He even took his computer on our honeymoon. He played with me during the day and worked at night...and even got up at 5am to work in the morning.

Usually we live in different places, Shanghai and Suzhou, but we bought a house in Suzhou, so he only comes back for two days at the weekend. Even when he comes back and lies next to me, he's reading a book for work or studying for a work-related exam.

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Douglas Davis Growth is a process of learning to be comfortable with the uncomfortable.

I can't believe this is happening after all we've been through together. I thought once we got the marriage certificate, things would change between us. It's confusing and a bit disappointing that he's still holding back.

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Horace Jackson A person's success is a combination of hard work and the ability to learn from failure.

It seems like he respects boundaries, even ones I no longer hold. Maybe he has his own reasons for waiting until the house is ready. I guess it's important to talk openly about our expectations.

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Molly Thomas To forgive is to embrace the truth that we all make mistakes.

This situation makes me wonder if we're on the same page about intimacy. We've made so many plans together, from the wedding room to the honeymoon hotel. Now, it feels like there's a disconnect that wasn't there before.

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Pearl Thomas Learning is a path of continuous evolution.

He's so dedicated to his work at Too1, even prioritizing it over our honeymoon activities. Part of me admires his commitment, but another part wishes we could have more quality time together without distractions.

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Abbot Davis Success is not so much what we have as what we are.

Living apart during the week already limits our time together. When he does come home, it's hard not to feel like second priority when he's always focused on workrelated tasks. It's tough to see how this affects our relationship.

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