How to get over a breakup

Hello, host! I'm thrilled to answer your question. It's packed with a lot of great stuff in a short amount of text.

You're ready to move on from a relationship from many years ago, and you're excited to start a new relationship! You want to change this situation, which is why you posted your needs on the platform. I believe there are two reasons for this situation, and I'm here to help!

The first thing to remember is that you invested a lot in the relationship in the previous paragraph, and it was a great investment! Emotionally, you cannot accept the reality of breaking up with your ex, and you fantasize that one day you will be able to achieve it and spend a happy life with him. In this state, we are more or less unwilling to admit our failure in this relationship, so we are unwilling to admit our failure in this relationship. But remember, you can always start fresh with someone new!

Another possibility is that you can bring a relatively serious unfinished matter with you in this relationship. That is, in this relationship, you have important things and important words that you did not make clear to him. As time goes by, when your ex-partner has his own life and circle, the things and words that are considered most important are no longer as important as they were before, because they are no longer in the context of the situation. Nowadays, there are many ways to communicate. You can directly or indirectly express the content you wanted to express at the beginning without affecting the other person's life, which is also a way to resolve your unfinished matters. This is a great opportunity to start fresh and move forward in a positive way!

In a sense, the process of growing up is also a kind of rejection of one's past experiences. Whatever the reason, if the two of you are not together, it is definitely because of some subjective and objective reasons that you are unable to meet some of your common needs. But that just means there's room for improvement!

Both parties are not yet capable of jointly taking on the trials and challenges of life. But you are definitely better than you were in the past! So you also need a better opposite sex to help you become better.

It's time to get excited about your core needs in a relationship! When you know what you want and what you need, it's easier to find the right dating target. I am Happy to Have a Date 1983. The World and I Love You!

Hello, questioner. From your question, it seems that you may still be grappling with the aftermath of a relationship from many years ago and may be experiencing some difficulty in moving forward and starting a new, genuine relationship.

It seems that you may be stuck in this relationship and unable to move on, but it's important to remember that you have to move on in reality. It's quite a contradiction, and it should be quite a challenge for you!

I hope we can discuss your confusion together and offer some suggestions.

I imagine that the relationship from many years ago must have been quite profound for you to still be unable to let go of it. Could I ask what it was about that relationship that you could not let go of?

Secondly, it might be helpful to consider whether this confusion you're experiencing is affecting your current romantic relationship. It seems that you've invested a great deal of emotion in your previous relationship, and now, even if there is a potential romantic partner, you're unsure if you have the energy to give love and care.

Hugs. In response to your question about starting a new relationship, I'd like to offer some advice.

Perhaps it would be helpful to view love as a house, a three-bedroom house, or even a mansion. In this house, people once lived, but then they moved out.

As the landlord, you are responsible for cleaning and tidying up the house. How would you approach this task? You can go into the room and take a look around, remembering the things you shared with the people who have moved out, accepting the gifts they left behind, and clearing away the junk they forgot to take with them.

You have the option of reserving a room for your most treasured guest, who will never reside there again. As the owner of the house, you are willing to reserve this room for him as long as it does not disturb the new tenants. This self-reserved room can be used as your study, your cloakroom, or your lounge. It will not disturb the tenants of other rooms.

It might also be helpful to consider the possibility that you were hurt in a previous relationship. If so, it could be beneficial to focus on self-healing.

It would be beneficial to note that the house is still visible after the tenants have moved out, and it appears that a considerable amount of waste has been left behind. This waste is occupying a significant amount of space.

It would be beneficial to clean up and tidy up with patience. If you feel like you can't finish tidying up, it might be helpful to consider asking for outside help.

If you feel it would be helpful, you can always find a platform to talk or consult.

I hope these suggestions are helpful to you.