Hello question asker.
I'm a healer. I'll give you a hug. When you're alone and miss home, who can you talk to about the coldness of the world?
Psychologically, we all have problems. Growing up with our parents teaches us to value family affection and how to get along with the world. Family affection is particularly important to each of us.
When we walk on the busy street or take the train home at the end of the year, we think of our parents and our home. We are strangers in a foreign land, but as long as our parents are there, home is the way back.
This is the time when we are most real. There are so many people and things in the world that are unpredictable. Society is normal when you learn to understand the ups and downs of life on your own. It is not as beautiful as we think. We have to learn to adapt and accept. There are not many people to talk to and vent to when you grow up in the social tide. Apart from parents, there are not many other people who are willing to listen to us talk about our daily lives.
People are said to be indifferent, but it depends on the situation. The closer we get to the truth, the less willing we are to accept it. As a member of society, we should cooperate and get along with others. There is no eternal love; only a bond of interests. People are sentimental, and when people go, the sentimentality fades. This kind of thing is a valuable call or a pointless and endless sacrifice. The older you get, the lonelier you feel and the more uneasy you become. At home, the more your parents control you, the more you resent it, but you also need their love. This internal oppression is the same for the average person as it is for us. Distance creates beauty, and this beauty is the degree to which each person can think of and accept the other. Even for the closest people, we all long to see them, but after a few days of seeing each other, you will hate each other again. This hatred is not mutual harm, but a certain degree of annoyance. Combining your situation, I have a few suggestions for you.
Family is a haven, father is a mountain, mother is a river. When you stay away for a long time, you will miss them. Father's words of advice will illuminate your way home, and mother's meals will arouse your appetite. Distance can't solve everything. It is every child's wish to repay their parents in time and show filial piety, even if they have made mistakes. This is the true filial piety in repaying the parents for their nurturing.
Parents are our first teachers, but they don't know everything. We need to learn from society. Our environment and how we act will change as we grow. We don't know everything when we're born. We need to keep trying and make mistakes. If we don't learn from our mistakes, we'll make more in the future.
When reality is different from what we expect, we must follow our hearts, find the other self deep within, learn to reconcile and dialogue with the current self, and find out what you really want. Nagging and education from parents or spending more time with them? The important thing is that the time we spend with them is really too little. When you think about this, do you still think they are wrong?
Happy families are all alike; unhappy families are each unhappy in their own way. No parent wants anything but the best for their child. The problem may be the approach, communication, or method. We must adjust our mindset to face the situation. Even under pressure, we must vent and find a way to cope.
Just ideas. The world is connected. Best wishes!


Comments
I can relate to feeling misunderstood and the mix of emotions you have towards your parents. It's tough when we want their love but also feel weighed down by their strictness. Sometimes, it's this very tension that ties us back home, no matter how far we go.
The world can indeed feel cold and indifferent, especially when you're out there on your own. I wish I could offer a warm place for you to share these feelings. It's hard to find someone who truly understands the complexity of family relationships.
Feeling torn between resentment and the need for love is such a challenging experience. It's okay to miss home even when you're trying to be independent. Maybe finding a trusted friend or a counselor to talk to could help ease some of the internal pressure you're carrying.
It's not easy to reconcile the strict upbringing with the longing for affection. I wonder if expressing your feelings to your parents might open up a new line of communication. They might not realize the impact of their actions until you tell them how you feel.
I feel for you; it's like carrying a heavy burden that you can't put down. The world may seem uncaring, but there are people who care, even if they don't show it in the way you expect. Perhaps reaching out to someone, even if it's just to vent, could make a difference in how you cope with these emotions.