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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
Hello, I'm happy to answer your question and hope that my suggestions will be helpful to you.
From what you've said, I can sense your sadness and feeling of powerlessness. We have a strong connection and mutual respect, and we understand each other's decision to move on.
Perhaps the most challenging aspect of a relationship is learning to respect each other and give each other freedom. It's natural to want to avoid missing out on our own emotions, and it's understandable to hope that the person we like will reciprocate our feelings, choose us, and remain in the relationship for a long time.
In the process, we may sometimes overlook the feelings of the other person. If the other person's request is based on a lack of mutual liking, our request may be perceived as causing them pain.
Perhaps, then, when we step back from our demands and choose to give up, it is an invisible form of respect and love.
In the process of losing love, we may find ourselves going through a number of different stages. At times, we may find ourselves diverting our attention and putting all our energy into work. At other times, we may seek the company of friends, eat and drink a lot, indulge ourselves a little, and reflect on ourselves and enjoy the memories, needing a space to be alone.
In such circumstances, it may be helpful to consider adapting to this state through self-reflection, seeking support from others, and exploring external resources. This could potentially lead to identifying new possibilities.
However, if our self-regulation is unable to achieve effective results, it may be helpful to pay attention to our physical and mental health and seek timely assistance from professionals to accompany us through this period.
Reaching an emotional consensus can be challenging. It's not always guaranteed that the person we like will like us back, and vice versa.
When we meet someone we like, we should try our best to express our love and pursue the other person. Even if we don't succeed, we can still consider ourselves to have won in some way.
It is not necessary to question ourselves when we cannot get the person we like. There is no harm in allowing ourselves to love. There is a good chance that we will meet someone who likes us and who we like someday in the future.
I hope that with some time for self-reflection or the help of a professional, you will be able to get through this period better.
I would like to extend my love and appreciation to the world and to you!
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Looking back, I see all the times I compromised and adjusted myself to fit into your life, and now, there's an odd sense of relief. After holding on for so long, I can finally release you. Missing you doesn't matter anymore; I'll just embrace this feeling. Sadness comes in waves, and during those moments, I recall the happiness we once shared. Maybe regret will find me later, but keeping you by force would only mean holding onto someone who's already walked away emotionally.
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