The person I'm looking for is going to be making a very low salary anyway, playing games and mahjong all day?
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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
The person I'm seeing is paid very little, so I told her to study for a qualification. She didn't want to, so I found her a place to interview for a new job. She said she didn't want to go because she was getting old, and then every day she wanted me to find her a good job. These past two days, because I haven't been able to find her a place, she's been ignoring me. I'm really, really annoyed.
I don't mind that she doesn't earn much, because I don't rely on her for money. But in the past two months, she kept pestering me to find her a job with a high salary. I don't want to break up with her, but she's so unpredictable. If I break up with her, I won't be able to bear to leave our little nest, and she used to treat me well and comfort me.
Now she just ignores me. I send her a video message, but she hangs up directly and doesn't answer. She says she's gone to play games.
Or she's playing mahjong all day.
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Comments
I understand how frustrating this situation must be for you. It seems like she's not really taking the initiative to improve her own circumstances, and instead expects you to solve everything for her. Maybe it's time to have a serious talk about her expectations and what you're willing to do.
It sounds tough, but perhaps you should focus on setting boundaries. You've been trying to help her so much, yet she dismisses your efforts and pulls away when things don't go her way instantly. It's important for both of you to respect each other's limits and contributions in the relationship.
Feeling used can be really hurtful. While you cherish the good times you've had together and are reluctant to let go of what you've built, it might be worth considering if this relationship is truly healthy for you. Reflecting on whether her actions align with what you deserve could be crucial at this point.