We were together for more than half a year. After the affair was made public, I became increasingly dissatisfied. He broke up with me, and I tried to win him back?
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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
I have been with my boyfriend for more than half a year. He likes that I am sensible. At first, we didn't make our relationship public. After we did, I became increasingly dissatisfied and often lost my temper with him. Then, after we had a fight one time, I just left, telling him that I was going home. We weren't in the same place. At first, he tried to stop me, but then he just gave up. I felt something was wrong, so I ran over to find him. He cried, but he was very determined to break up with me. I then started to beg him in every way, telling him that I couldn't live without him. After that, he said that he no longer felt anything for me. It was over in an instant. He no longer felt any reluctance, didn't shed any tears, and insisted on breaking up. I could tell that he really didn't like me anymore! He told me to go home and be a good companion to my parents. I left that day, but I still didn't want to let go. I secretly rented a place not far from him, thinking that I would continue to wait for him. But he said that he wanted to see me off at the airport. Once again, I left without saying goodbye. How can I get him back? Can it be saved?
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Comments
I can see how much pain you're going through and it's clear you really love him. But sometimes, when someone decides they want to move on, it might be best to respect their decision no matter how hard it is.
It sounds like this breakup has hit you very hard. Maybe instead of focusing on getting him back, take some time for yourself to heal and reflect on what happened. Sometimes distance is what we need to gain a new perspective.
You've put in so much effort to try and salvage the relationship, but it seems he's made up his mind. It's important to recognize that your worth isn't tied to him or any relationship. Focus on your personal growth and being there for your family as he suggested; maybe that will bring you peace.
I understand wanting to hold onto something meaningful, especially when it ends suddenly. But it's also important to listen to what he's saying. Perhaps now is the time to accept the situation and start building a new chapter in your life. Trust that with time, things will get better.
This must be incredibly difficult for you, feeling like you've lost someone you couldn't live without. However, it's crucial to honor his feelings and space. While you may not be able to change his mind, you can work on rebuilding yourself and finding happiness independently.