What is the essence of love in a relationship with no bottom line?

Hello, question asker! I'm Rose, and I'm here to listen and support you.

From what you've said, I can tell you're feeling pretty distressed and sad right now. The deeper you love someone, the harder it is to be hurt by love and the more difficult it is to move on.

What is this so-called "obsession"? Are you trying to figure out if this relationship is real?

What is this so-called "obsession" of yours? Are you trying to figure out if this relationship is real?

No matter if it's true love or not, when it hurts you and you see it's not really there, there's an element of falsity in it.

1. The initial deception

He was excited about being with you, but then he didn't prioritize your relationship. I can imagine this was tough for you to accept! But the other person said they loved you and came back to you, and at that time you fell in love with each other, so you accepted each other.

You should have used this love to meet your own emotional needs, but you didn't think things through.

2. You're trying to help the other person, but you think that's loving them.

If your partner has failed in business and you can help out with the finances, you think that this is love and the way to keep your partner from leaving you.

Meanwhile, the other person gives you emotional value and makes you feel loved. It's more about each person getting what they want than about love.

3. He says he loves you, but he doesn't act like it.

He says he loves you, but then he betrays you. The true test of love is loving someone and being irreplaceable.

Given that he was able to betray you, it seems that his love is not as focused as it could be, and that he does not love you as much as you think.

He'll probably come back to you, but not because he loves you. It'll be because he still needs what he can get from you. Maybe because you've given him so much, he won't be able to betray you completely.

You ask if his love is true love. I have to ask you, though, what you think true love is like.

It's important to remember that just because someone loves you doesn't mean it's true love. When you truly love someone, there are no ulterior motives, just an emotional attraction.

4. Is your love for him what you'd call true love?

It depends on how you define true love and whether you've truly experienced it.

If you love someone, you're attracted to them emotionally, but you're also independent. When one person is in trouble, the other can help out without taking on all the responsibilities of the other person.

Your love also makes you question yourself, and that's good, as long as you can afford it. At the same time, it shows that you don't really know what love is.

5. Your love has led to some tough times and a bit of self-doubt.

Love is amazing when it first happens. It touches the beautiful fantasies we've had inside us, and we just want to be with each other. This is the freshness of love.

But after this stage, our enthusiasm will wane, and we'll transition from fantasies to reality. At this point, we'll have a good grasp on ourselves and each other. If you still love each other for who you really are, then this love is worth it.

If you can't be as dedicated and loyal as you were before, then it's not really love.

6. Pain in love

It's not just about how love is, but also how we see ourselves in love. When we don't feel loved, we think we're not good enough or not worthy of love, and we end up in a bit of a pickle.

This is something you need to work through on your own.

At the same time, this is also the point you're struggling with. If the other person is with you for the money, you'll feel like you're not important because you don't have it, and you'll think you're not good enough. If the other person betrays you because they love you, you'll feel like you're not doing enough, and you'll fall into internal conflict.

What is true love?

What is true love?

Sternberg's love triangle theory says that true love is about passion, intimacy, and commitment. There's mutual attraction and understanding, as well as intimacy, but there's also a commitment to take responsibility for the relationship.

My dear, true love is something that makes you feel good about yourself and that nourishes the relationship, rather than draining it. It's also something that makes you feel trusted and safe.

When we know how to love ourselves, we can recognize true love in others.

Maybe we didn't have much experience with love in the past, but after going through it, we can learn to love again.

I just wanted to say that I love you and wish you well.

People often say love can solve all problems, but they ignore their true feelings. They find reasons to stay or leave a conflicts-in-relationships-2026.html" target="_blank">relationship. If love exists, people question it. If it doesn't, they deny it.

The result and reality are the same. They are both conflicted.

If you don't look at the real situation, you're just fooling yourself. Relationships have good and bad parts, so you can't get a full picture from one event. You have to look at your overall feelings and experiences.

For example, you can understand your description of giving and receiving in your relationship with him, but this may not be important in terms of whether it is love. If it is love, what can you do? If not, what can you do?

But it can't replace your feelings or guide your decisions. Your emotions and feelings will still be in conflict, and no answer can explain that.

Don't judge your decisions based on emotions, life, or guidance. If you feel it's worthwhile, there's no true or false. It's fine to not have an opinion. When you feel pain, confusion, and doubt, it may mean this is a mistake. Whether you love him doesn't matter.

True feelings speak for themselves. They don't need definitions or concepts. They tell you how to define and describe them.

The answer lies within. There's no need to define or interpret your feelings. Ask yourself: Is this relationship beneficial and positive? Is it worthwhile?

This may be hard, but it can help you decide what to do.

I wish you happiness.

Good question!

Everyone has a different understanding of love and marriage.

I'd like to share some thoughts with you.

Intuitive understanding of love is how you view and feel about love and relationships.

So, think about your views on love. You thought your love for him was to provide for him, while he thought yours was to stay by his side. But these views are just part of the story.

The concept of love includes choosing a romantic partner, starting a relationship, and dealing with conflicts.

It's not just a natural feeling. So it's no surprise that people ask, "Do I love him? If I don't love him, why am I suffering?"

Everyone has different expectations and demands for love and marriage. It's normal to feel dissatisfied sometimes.

However, this dissatisfaction with love and marriage may be good. It will make you think about your love and marriage.

The original poster came to the platform to think positively, seek help, and build support.

But not changing your expectations and demands on him won't solve the real problem.

Marriage is how you see marriage.

This includes the meaning of marriage, the importance of marriage, responsibilities, and ways to handle conflicts.

A correct outlook on love and marriage should include:

It should be based on mutual respect, understanding, equality, trust, and tolerance.

A healthy relationship or marriage requires mutual respect.

This shows there is room for improvement in terms of respect, trust, and tolerance.

Second, focus on mutual growth and development.

In romantic and marital relationships, both people should focus on self-growth and improve their emotional intelligence.

If you keep asking yourself if he's with you for the money or because of you, you won't be able to deal with the problems in your relationship.

Third, pay attention to your differences.

Two people must learn to be tolerant and understanding and avoid excessive pursuit of uniformity.

If you can accept each other's flaws and embrace your own growth, you can build a happy, healthy relationship.

Finally, consider practical problems and realistic conditions.

Choose your final partner wisely. Don't rely on feelings and fate alone.

Consider the personalities, values, and habits of both parties. Don't be blind or pursue romance and passion. Take the initiative.

Take the initiative to avoid harm and suffering in love.

I hope this helps!

Hello.

From your description, I understand how you feel.

You wrote, "After a relationship with no bottom line, I am now caught up in obsession and can't tell what the other person's true feelings for me are. I also doubt the commitment they have made to me." When you feel that your commitment is meaningless, it means that the relationship is not worth your continued commitment.

Love is a selfish act. It's also a process of preparation before marriage. If you feel it's worthwhile, the time you've invested will seem meaningful. The later period depends on the actual results. Clearly, from your description, it's a failure. Your efforts were not worthwhile. You said you can't tell how your partner feels. You can tell how you feel, though. That's enough. Put aside doubt about yourself or your partner. Think about it later.

Second, you wrote in your description: "In this relationship, it started with a lie. At first, he lied about being divorced and unmarried. Later, he was found to have been involved with two women. Then he said that he came back to me because he loved me. At the time, I was in so much pain, I really liked him, and I took him back. He failed in business and had no income, so I gave him money and provided for all his expenses. He also spent most of the time with me. His so-called love for me was to provide me with emotional value and to stay by my side. I thought my love was to provide him with a living and basic living expenses." Let me be clear: there may be some so-called deceptive behavior in the early stages of a relationship, but this kind of behavior is a mechanism for self-protection. Once it really starts, you should still take care of each other.

From what you've described about him, it's clear this is not a relationship of love. It's exploitation. It could even be interpreted as a relationship of a man living off a woman.

He chose you because you ask for very little and give a lot. It's the best choice for him.

You can learn from the actions of Gao Jian in the movie "Let's Get Married" during his low point. It's clear from an objective point of view that the two people are not paying equivalent amounts.

Instead, what you call emotional comfort is more like a money transaction. If the other person really loved you, he would be trying to make a comeback and give you a future. However, this does not seem to be the case.

You wrote that he said he loved you and then repeatedly cheated on you. He should take your emotions into account and come back to be with you if he doesn't love you. So why is he doing it for the money?

You're confused?

I do love him.

I said I love him, but I haven't helped him unreservedly by giving him a lot of money to help him relieve his debt, nor have I given my all. So I need to ask myself: do I really love him?

If I don't love him, why am I suffering so much from internal conflict, constantly wondering whether he's with me for my money or for me as a person?

I want to know.

Why do you care so much?

Seeking answers: What is love? When someone is at a low point, they should repay kindness with kindness. This is how you repay the kindness you have received. The other person is an experienced person who knows your weaknesses very well. They are testing you. The seemingly careless actions of the person you need are a touch to your heart.

Here's my suggestion:

1. Review your views on love and values. Don't be a "slave" to love. Love yourself and your own circle of life.

2. This relationship is obviously unequal. If you can make it equal, you should continue. If you can't, it's better to end it sooner rather than later. It will do you no harm.

3. You're not feeling love. You're feeling an unequal trade or even an act of exploiting your current desires to squeeze your hard work.

4. If you're unsure about your views on love, go for a walk. The scenery is beautiful, and you'll have a unique view. Someone will hold an umbrella over you.

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Hello, question asker! I'm the answerer, Si Meng'er.

From what you said, it's clear that you need him to provide emotional value in your relationship. This means that he can take care of your emotions, which indicates that you can't take care of your own emotional needs well and that he needs your help. What does he need?

He failed in business and had to make a career change, and he has never had an income. You think he needs money, security, and living expenses, so you give him these.

It seems that both sides' needs are being met, and they should feel good about each other. However, he keeps cheating on you, and you're starting to doubt the relationship.

First, identify your needs. You say you need emotional value, but is that really the case? If he comes to calm you down when you get emotional, it seems fine in the short term. However, if you need him to do it every time, you will become dependent. You have to rely on him to be emotionally stable, but he is an independent person who also has his own emotional needs to deal with. If he has to deal with his emotions while also calming yours, that might be fine for a day or two. However, over the long term, he might not be able to cope. He might choose to avoid it or find someone else to calm his emotions.

This is likely one of the reasons he cheats on you.

Think deeper. If your emotional problems are his responsibility, you will never feel safe. Your happiness or pain is no longer your own, but his responsibility. It's like if he decides where you eat and what you wear. You deserve better. When you depend on him, you are happy and at peace only when he is in control. Then you will doubt whether you can still make your own decisions.

If you can't call the shots in your own life, you're like a marionette—and that's not the life you want to lead.

You must decide whether you need him to provide emotional value or just need him to help you take care of your emotions when you can't learn how to take care of them yourself. One is to directly provide emotional value, and the other is to ask for help when you can't learn how to take care of your emotions yourself.

These are two very different ways of life. One is to rely on others and not be able to make decisions for yourself. The other is to make decisions for yourself and ask for help when you can't do it yourself. You have begun to doubt, which means that the previous life of relying on others and not being able to make decisions for yourself doesn't suit you very well. You want to live an independent life making decisions for yourself.

Your parents held the bike behind you to prevent you from falling and getting hurt when you were a child learning to ride a bike. Once you learned how to ride a bike, you didn't need your parents to hold the bike behind you anymore. You were the one riding the bike the whole time, and your parents were just there to help.

The same is true of emotional care. You are the one responsible for your emotions from start to finish, and he is there to support you, but he can't always hold your hand or do it for you. You must learn to care for your emotions on your own.

When you learn to take care of your emotions, you can also take care of his emotions. For example, when his business fails, he needs money and livelihood security.

He needs these things, and if you don't provide them, he won't survive. He may need recognition, encouragement, and support the most when he fails.

Recognition is not about approving of his business failure. It's about recognizing his courage to start his own business and understanding that failure is inevitable on the road to entrepreneurship. Encourage him for what he has already achieved in his business, while supporting him to try again or switch to something else. Of course, it is good to give material help, but also to see what he needs most in the moment.

When you both learn how to take care of your emotions, you will be able to help each other when you really need help.

Seek professional counseling for advice on learning to take care of your emotions.

Dear Question Asker,

From your description, it is evident that you are experiencing distress. You are uncertain as to whether you are making sacrifices for the sake of love, and the process of awareness and reflection is fraught with contradiction. I offer you a hug.

From the outset of the relationship, there has been a considerable degree of mistrust and deceit on the part of the partner in question. Despite the desire to terminate the relationship, the emotional dependence that has been established has resulted in the decision to remain in the relationship.

You chose to be with him because of love, so you will support this person's livelihood as a token of your love. Providing financial support is not a sacrifice. You are correct in your assessment that you have not given your all.

In this process of giving, love is about facilitating the growth and improvement of one another, rather than about one party draining the other to sustain themselves. This is not an expression of love; it is a form of depletion. When the moment of depletion arrives, it is crucial to consider how the relationship will fare in the aftermath.

It would be beneficial to consider this matter further.

From the description provided, it appears that the individual in question requires emotional companionship, which their partner is capable of providing in order to satisfy their inner needs. However, in this type of companionship, the individual's partner will engage in infidelity. The individual may experience discomfort, but the partner will return. The individual seems satisfied, believing that their partner listens to them.

However, it is possible that the fact of his betrayal has been ignored. It seems that too many hints have been given, which may have led to the subconscious ignoring of the hurt caused by the other person.

If one provides an excessive number of indications, the recipient may take them seriously, become accustomed to them, and ultimately take them for granted. Fortunately, the individual in question is now aware of their current state, which represents the initial stage of a potential transformation.

It would be beneficial to consider the type of life you aspire to lead and the qualities you seek in a partner. It is imperative to acknowledge that the current situation cannot be sustained indefinitely. At some point, you may wish to determine whether to continue the relationship with the other individual.

It is evident that emotional companionship is of significant importance. However, it is crucial to recognize that this aspect may be lacking in one's life. It is imperative to understand that this deficiency should not be compensated for by another individual. Instead, it is essential to prioritize self-love and the fulfillment of one's personal needs.

It is my hope that this information will prove useful to you. Best wishes,

Hello, questioner! First of all, I want to give you a big, warm hug to show you how much I care and support you!

You're on a wild and wonderful emotional journey! It's totally normal to feel confused, hurt, and unsure of yourself along the way. But you've already taken the first step by bringing these issues to the surface. Way to go!

The "unlimited love" you mentioned sounds like an exciting journey full of possibilities and surprises! In such relationships, we often lose ourselves and doubt the nature of love, but this is all part of the adventure!

You feel cheated and taken advantage of, but at the same time you can't let go of the companionship and emotional dependence. This conflict and struggle is exhausting, but please believe that it does not mean that you are not good enough or that you are not worthy of love. You are worthy of love!

Let's look at the relationship from a different perspective! The situation you mentioned, "He has been without an income since his business failed, and I give him money," may be hiding a complex emotional entanglement. You are expressing your love in your own way, and he may misunderstand this love as financial support.

This doesn't mean that his love is based entirely on money. It just means that he may be temporarily unable or unwilling to reciprocate your love in the way you expect.

You also mentioned that "his so-called love for me is to provide me with emotional value and to stay by my side." This is actually a very important part of love, namely emotional companionship and support.

However, when this companionship is accompanied by deception and betrayal, it's a great opportunity to discover new ways of loving!

In psychology, the nature of love is a complex and multi-dimensional concept, and it's absolutely fascinating! It encompasses intimacy, commitment, passion, and trust.

Intimacy is all about that emotional connection and mutual understanding between two people. Commitment is the promise of the durability and stability of the relationship. Passion is all about the romance and attraction in love. And trust is the cornerstone of a strong relationship!

The repeated references to "cheating on me" and "taking care of my emotions will come back to me" may reflect his lack of stable commitment and trust in the relationship. But you know what? True love should be based on mutual respect, honesty, and trust!

Your core problem at the moment is that you have deep doubts about the nature of the relationship and are at a loss for direction in your self-reflection. You want to confirm whether his feelings for you are genuine, but at the same time you are questioning whether you truly love him. This is an exciting time for you because you get to explore your feelings and discover what you truly want!

This internal conflict and struggle has led you to a place of deep pain and internal conflict — and it's time to embrace it!

I'm thrilled to give you some advice for your current situation! I hope it will inspire you and help you find a way that suits you:

1. Communicate honestly: Find an appropriate time to have an in-depth conversation with him. Express your feelings, doubts, and expectations, and listen to his thoughts and explanations.

Communication is the first step to resolving any problem, so get talking!

2. Self-reflection: Take some time for yourself to think deeply about your feelings and needs. Ask yourself what you really want and go for it!

Are you ready to take the plunge and find a healthier, more stable partner? Or do you want to continue a relationship full of uncertainty?

3. Seek support! Share your concerns with friends, family, or a professional counselor. They can provide different perspectives and suggestions to help you better understand and cope with the current dilemma.

4. Set boundaries: Be clear about your bottom line and principles in the relationship. If his behavior continues to hurt you, you have the power to take control and choose a different path. You can leave, or you can seek change. Either way, you are in charge of your destiny.

5. Focus on self-growth: Turn your attention to yourself, and focus on your growth and happiness. There are so many exciting ways to become more independent and confident! Developing hobbies, improving your sense of self-worth, and building a healthy network of relationships are all great ways to start.

In short, love is a complex but beautiful thing. It requires us to feel it, manage it, and cherish it with all our hearts!

During this journey, you may encounter setbacks and difficulties, but please believe that every experience is part of the growth process. The good news is that you can turn these challenges into opportunities for growth! Through honest communication, self-reflection, seeking support, and paying attention to self-growth, you will gradually find your own answers.

You deserve to be loved, and you have the ability to love yourself! May you meet that partner who treats you with sincerity and grows together with you in the future!

Best of luck!

Good day, my name is Tongyan.

You indicated that the relationship lacked a definitive structure and involved instances of infidelity, love/my-girlfriend-was-admitted-to-the-hospital-due-to-bipolar-disorder-and-im-caught-in-a-dilemma-leaving-feels-like-betrayal-3085.html" target="_blank">betrayal, generosity, and companionship. As long as you remain uncertain about the nature of love, how should we proceed?

I'm unsure how to proceed. What is your view of a relationship? Do you believe this relationship is full of beauty and expectations, or what do you expect from a relationship?

It appears that your partner is not providing you with the level of love and honesty that you desire. Similarly, it seems that you are not giving your all and being fully committed to the relationship.

However, it appears that the two of you have been able to find some healing and redemption in this relationship.

In return for providing him with accommodation, he offers you emotional support and companionship.

I believe this is a crucial element in maintaining your relationship. Typically, we assume that each individual in an intimate partnership has certain needs that must be met.

I believe that this level of intimacy meets both of your needs to some extent, and that it is this mutual satisfaction that sustains the relationship.

However, your rationale indicates that it differs significantly from the love you anticipated, which is causing you considerable confusion. What is the true nature of love? What do you mean by "other love"?

I believe that the concept of love is subjective and that there is no universal formula for measuring the strength of a relationship.

In an intimate relationship, understanding is of the essence. An intimate relationship serves as a mirror that clearly reflects our needs and desires.

Perhaps through this relationship, you can gain a deeper understanding of your own motivations and expectations.

Each relationship provides a unique vantage point, enabling a more nuanced understanding of one's needs.

Additionally, the dynamics of an intimate relationship can provide insight into the underlying motivations for entering into such a relationship.

The inability of your partner to remain faithful in a relationship, or your own decision to select a partner who subsequently betrayed and cheated on you, may be related to your experiences during your formative years.

The initial stages of any relationship are typically focused on addressing the fundamental needs and requirements of the partnership. I believe that this process can provide a sense of relief.

Perhaps we can avoid dwelling on the specifics of the relationship and instead focus on our own desires and needs in the context of the relationship.

A relationship provides an opportunity to gain insight into one's own needs and desires, and to develop self-love.

It would be beneficial to make an effort to become the kind of person you want to be, as this may enable you to meet the kind of relationship you want.

Best regards,

From your question, I discern a sense of confusion and helplessness. I would like to extend a gentle embrace, recognizing that you are navigating a complex and challenging emotional terrain.

During this process, you are not only seeking love, but also engaging in a courageous journey of self-discovery. Let us now examine your role in this relationship and the true concept of love, as well as its essence.

Furthermore, it is essential to elucidate the role you play in this relationship.

You have assumed a profoundly emotional and intricate role. With remarkable fortitude and magnanimity, you have invested a substantial amount of emotion, time, and resources in an effort to assist an individual who appears to require your support.

Your heart is full of love, and this love makes you willing to sacrifice yourself to support the other person, even after he repeatedly betrays you. However, such devotion has led to feelings of deep self-doubt and suffering.

One may begin to question one's own value and doubt the sincerity of the other person's feelings. This internal conflict can have a significant impact on one's spiritual well-being.

Despite your longing for pure and sincere love, reality has made you face a world full of lies and betrayal. Your kindness and tolerance may, at times, become tools for the other party to take advantage of, rather than the cornerstone of mutual respect and understanding.

It is important to note that one's value is not contingent on external factors such as the opinions of others or the ways in which they utilize one's presence. Instead, it is intrinsic and derived from one's own personal attributes, including benevolence, fortitude, and the capacity for personal growth.

The role of the boyfriend in this love affair

In contrast, the boyfriend has exhibited the conventional characteristics of a "dependent" and "selfish" partner. He initiated the relationship with a falsehood and persistently tested your limits, exploiting your benevolence and affection to fulfill his own objectives.

He may have experienced positive sentiments towards you on certain occasions, yet these feelings have not manifested in a reciprocal commitment and appreciation. Instead, he has exploited your tolerance and sacrifices to perpetuate his own irresponsibility and infidelity.

His behavior, whether the result of financial dependence or emotional emptiness, demonstrates his immaturity and selfishness as a partner. Genuine love is grounded in mutual respect, trust, and a commitment to personal growth; however, he has not demonstrated these qualities.

The appropriate perspective on love and its fundamental characteristics

A genuine perspective on love entails an understanding of equality, autonomy, and mutual respect. Love is not merely a matter of giving and receiving; it also encompasses comprehension, acceptance, and collective growth.

In a healthy relationship, both parties are able to engage in honest communication, navigate the challenges and opportunities presented by life together, provide mutual support, and facilitate mutual growth.

Love is about facilitating the other person's growth and development, rather than becoming a hindrance or a victim. It necessitates maintaining one's authenticity and self-respect within the context of love.

Furthermore, love is a mutual endeavor that necessitates the collaborative efforts and management of both parties.

The path to liberation

The pain and confusion you are currently experiencing is, in fact, a profound reflection of your own value and sense of well-being. You are beginning to recognize that this relationship does not align with your expectations and ideals regarding love.

This is an indispensable phase of growth, albeit painful, which marks the commencement of one's journey towards self-discovery and authentic happiness.

It is important to note that any relationship that causes distress or dissatisfaction is not a worthwhile investment of one's time and energy. Given the finite nature of life, it is essential to prioritize pursuits that will lead to genuine happiness and fulfillment.

The act of disengaging from a relationship does not signify a loss of capacity for love or the receipt of love. Rather, it creates an opportunity for a broader range of experiences.

The future holds a multitude of potential outcomes, and it is likely that you will encounter an individual who is capable of demonstrating genuine care and support. Until that eventuality arises, it is crucial to prioritize self-care and to attend to your inner needs and growth.

It is recommended that this experience be regarded as an important chapter in one's life, rather than as an enduring burden.

Ultimately, it is hoped that you will soon emerge from your current situation and embrace the positive aspects of life. It is important to remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and consideration by others.

Dear questioner, I'm doing great!

You are the only one who can answer the question of whether you love him or not! Love is a feeling, an emotion, which may come from your liking for him, your appreciation of him, your dependence on him, etc.

However, if you are suffering, torn apart, and drained in this relationship, it may not be true love, or at least not healthy love. But don't worry! True love should make you feel happy, content, and secure.

From what you have described, there are indeed some things to think about in your boyfriend's behavior.

First of all, the fact that he lied to you about being unmarried in the first place is a fundamental issue of trust. Honesty and trust are very important cornerstones in a relationship, so it's really important to get this right!

If he has been hiding such an important thing from you from the very beginning, it may make people question whether he deserves your complete trust. But don't worry! You can work through this together.

Second, his behavior of "one-twoing," that is, maintaining intimate relationships with both you and another person, is clearly an act of emotional infidelity and betrayal. Although he says he loves you and is returning to you, this kind of repeated behavior makes it hard to believe in his sincerity and commitment.

Furthermore, you mentioned that you provide him with a lot of material support, including living expenses and other expenses. This is a great thing to do for someone you care about! However, it's also important to consider whether his dependence mainly comes from your financial support, rather than genuine care and love. This is something you should think about together.

So I think it's time for you to focus on your own needs and feelings!

Has he ever taken the initiative to care about your needs and made any practical contributions or efforts for you? It would be great if he could do this more often! Are you able to accept these actions from him? Absolutely!

Absolutely! This relationship will bring you so much happiness and satisfaction!

True love is an amazing spiritual connection and mutual support, a willingness to sacrifice for the other person, and at the same time, an opportunity to grow and improve yourself in the love of the other person!

Finally, I want to say that no matter what your decision is, you should trust your instincts and feelings. Only you know best what is best for you. I really hope you can find your own happiness ??