What should one do if parents have a very poor relationship with their beloved elder sister, and who should one support?

Hello, I just wanted to say thank you for seeking outside help when you were at a loss and felt helpless.

You're in a tough spot. On the one hand, you have your parents, and on the other, your sister, who are both blood relatives and your closest loved ones. The conflict between them makes you feel helpless and unsure which side to listen to. At the end of the day, you probably want the family to be happy and love each other.

In answer to your question, I've got a few suggestions that I hope will be helpful.

First, about your parents saying that your sister is jealous of you and doesn't like you.

It's pretty common for parents to favor the younger child or the one who is not in good health. It's not that they're better, but more that they cause their parents more worry and concern.

Your parents say that your sister doesn't like you. Maybe the real reason is that your sister has had conflicts with your parents, and you're the cause of these conflicts. This is why they think that. Maybe your parents don't know how to express their own feelings, or maybe they feel that your sister has grown up and no longer needs their love, that she has her own ideas and opinions, so they focus all their love on you.

You need to resolve this matter. You need to make it clear to your parents that your sister loves you very much, and you love your sister very much too. You and your sister are both their children, and you both need their love.

It's important to be clear about your feelings, otherwise you'll give your parents and sister the wrong impression. They'll think they're right, and your sister will think you feel the same way.

Secondly, the sister has a different opinion from her parents.

This is something that will happen with every child and their parents as they grow older. If the two sides don't handle it in the right way, it will lead to more conflict. This is a conflict between generations, and it will take some time and effort to resolve. Either the parents' mindset will change with the times, or the sister will understand her parents and be more tolerant.

It can be a double-edged sword being caught between them. If you handle it well, it can help resolve the relationship with your parents and ease the tension, and it can also increase harmony in the family. If you don't handle it well, it can worsen the relationship between the two sides.

First, you need to understand what your sister thinks is wrong with your parents. Then, you should pick something that they can change in the short term and give them some advice. You should also ask your parents why they take your sister's opinion so seriously and find the root of the problem. Then, you need to mediate between them.

As the link between the two, your parents love you, and your sister loves you too.

Third, use your strengths to spread positive energy to your parents and sister. Let them know that the family needs to be on the same page, understand each other, and work together to make things better.

When problems come up, we need to sit down together, figure out what's causing them, address them together, and find solutions together.

At the same time, you should also let your parents and sister know what will happen if they keep arguing. What will your parents lose?

What will my sister lose? On the other hand, what will they gain?

Finally, I want to say that you need to be strong mentally because you're the key to the problem. You need to learn to overcome it. Overcome what you fear most psychologically. Look forward to a better future, to peace, and to everyone getting along.

It's a simple fact that parents will always love their children, and children will always rely on their parents. Unfortunately, not everyone can get along peacefully for one reason or another.

To solve this problem, we all need to work together. It can't be solved by just one side. So, let's get to it!