What's the problem with the object? He has nothing to talk about with him, and he doesn't know what to say?
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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a month, but I never have anything to say to him. I don't know what to say, and he's always very affectionate. I feel a bit restless. I'm the one who initiates it. My previous boyfriend really controlled me, but my current boyfriend also likes to control me a lot. But he's very dedicated and serious. But often, I feel less and less, and I don't like it. People in our area are family-oriented, so it's better. The family and I are a good match, but I'm always like this. I don't know what to tell him to make him completely at ease with me, because he's still worried that I'll change my mind. The questions I ask are kind of helpless.
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Comments
I understand your feelings, it's tough when you feel like you're not on the same page. It seems important to find a balance where you both feel comfortable and respected.
Communication is key in any relationship. Maybe you could try sharing your thoughts and feelings openly with him. Let him know what makes you uneasy and discuss ways you can both improve.
It sounds like there's a lot going on. Have you considered expressing how his controlling behavior affects you? It might help if you can talk about wanting more space or independence in a gentle way.
I get that you're feeling stuck. Perhaps initiating a conversation about your needs and boundaries could be helpful. It's good for both of you to understand each other better.
Feeling restless in a relationship can be challenging. It might be beneficial to explore activities or topics that interest you both, which could ease the tension and bring you closer together.