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Why do you always think that your boyfriend is very controlling in every way?

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Why do you always think that your boyfriend is very controlling in every way? By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024

We haven't been together for long, but no matter what, he always gives me the impression that he's okay. But I always feel that he's very jealous, that he's very paranoid, that he likes to ask me all sorts of questions.

Aurora Grace Lindsey Aurora Grace Lindsey A total of 2556 people have been helped

Hello, host!

Congratulations! This is a sign that your boyfriend loves you. It's the sour smell of love.

The early stages of a relationship are a time of mutual discovery. It is normal to have low levels of trust and feelings of uncertainty.

After spending a long time together, you may think that your boyfriend doesn't seem jealous anymore. This is a mistake. You need to ask yourself if he still loves you.

You have to take time to get to know each other and understand each other.

The relationship between the two people will go through the following stages:

1. The period of intense love.

This usually lasts half a year. After half a year, the advantages of each other slowly fade away.

The test period is about to begin, and so is the period of adjustment.

2. The period of adjustment

The running-in period can last as long as you need it to. Some people make it through in six months or a year, while others take several years.

This is a time when breakups are common. Most couples fail to make it through the adjustment period and go their separate ways.

3. The stable period

Once you've made it through the adjustment period, you'll have seen each other's good and bad sides.

When you accept each other, you enter a stable period.

Minor problems generally won't affect your relationship, apart from issues of principle.

So, what stage are you in now?

I wish you a happy life!

I am Warm June, and I love you, the world, and I love you too!

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Oliver Knight Oliver Knight A total of 3347 people have been helped

Hello,

Your boyfriend likes to ask questions and wants to know everything about you. Is this a sign of excessive control?

If your boyfriend always tries to control you, it's a sign of an excessive need for control. People with this problem are not accepting of themselves.

If she wants to know all your information, she wants to understand you. He might still distrust and reject you. If we always want to know the bottom line of the other person, we can refuse to do so. We feel uncomfortable because they've violated our boundaries. Our boundaries are our principles and limits. Some things we keep secret. If the other person repeatedly wants to know our secrets, it's a boundary violation.

Your boyfriend feels insecure and may be afraid of your leaving. If you act in a certain way, he will think this way and feel fear and anxiety. Going to a meeting together will have an impact on him. If you love him, you can communicate with him properly and learn to look at your relationship objectively.

If someone violates your boundaries, you can refuse, reject them, and learn to protect your privacy. You can use excuses or euphemisms to explain to your boyfriend why you're doing something. If he really loves you, he'll accept your thoughts and actions. Learn to be aware of your emotions and see what causes them. View and analyze your emotions from a third-person perspective.

I hope this helps.

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Ava Garcia The treasure of honesty is buried deep within a person's soul.

I understand how complicated this can be. It's tough when someone comes across as fine but their actions speak differently. I feel like there might be some insecurities he's dealing with internally.

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Maxwell Jackson Failure is the shadow that follows success, a reminder of the journey.

It sounds like there's a disconnect between what he shows and what he feels. Maybe he has trouble expressing his feelings openly, which leads to those questions and jealousy surfacing in other ways.

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Ives Davis Life is a journey with many crossroads, choose wisely.

This situation seems challenging. Even though he appears okay on the surface, it's clear you're picking up on deeper issues. It might help to talk about establishing trust and boundaries in your relationship.

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Christopher Miller Forgiveness is a step towards building a more harmonious world.

Feeling that someone is overly questioning and possibly paranoid can really put a strain on things. It's important for both of you to communicate clearly and try to understand where these feelings are coming from for him.

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