Why don't I want to date lately at 20 years old?

Hello, my name is Strawberry!

I can see you've been through a lot, and I'm here to listen. It's okay to not want to be in a relationship right now. I know you said you wanted to be 20 again this year, and you've been in a relationship before. So I'm wondering if something happened in this relationship that made you feel this way?

I'm not sure how long you've been together or how much you've given to each other, but if you're both thinking of ending things, it might be worth taking a look at how you get along. It's possible that there's something not quite right in the relationship, and that's why you're feeling this way.

I really wanted to break up, but after a lot of thought, I decided to go through with it. How did you feel after the breakup? Did you feel a sense of relief?

When we're single, we see other people in pairs and feel like we want to fall in love too. But when we're actually in a relationship, we realize that it needs to be nurtured and worked on, and that it takes time to find the right way to get along with each other. If it turns out that you're not suitable for each other, if you can't tolerate each other, and if you can't solve the problems that exist between the two of you, then the result of your choice will be separation.

I know it can be tough, but there are ways you can make sure this doesn't happen again.

1. Know your own criteria for choosing a spouse.

It's so important to know what you want in a partner. Sometimes, though, the other person just doesn't meet our expectations. As you get to know them better, you might realize that they're not quite what you had in mind. It's totally normal to feel this way! It can even affect the relationship between you and your partner.

It's so important to be clear about what you want and then choose someone you have a good connection with. That's the best way to enhance your relationship!

2. Don't be afraid to communicate when problems arise.

Communication is the bridge that connects us all. It's so important in any relationship, especially when there are conflicts or differences in opinion. By resolving problems in a timely manner, we can avoid accumulating too much resentment, which could eventually lead to a breakdown and a direct rupture of the relationship.

3. Learn to listen, my friend!

It's totally normal for couples to have arguments from time to time. When you're facing a challenge, it's important to stay calm and listen to your partner's ideas. If there's a better way to handle it, you can suggest that. But remember, if you're too forceful and only focus on expressing your ideas, your partner might feel like they have to follow along. That's not a good feeling for anyone!

I really hope my answer helps! Wishing you all the best!