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Without the company of someone I like, I don't know what it's like to be with someone I like.

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Without the company of someone I like, I don't know what it's like to be with someone I like. By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024

My relationships are just as unreliable as my work. I'm currently with someone I don't have feelings for, just for companionship and because I need his help. My mother is paralyzed, my parents are divorced, and I need someone to help me take care of her. Maybe it's the lack of a father figure? People these days are 53, I'm 36, an 18-year age difference. This is the first time I've found someone my age. He's quite poor, reliable and in debt, the kind of debt you pay off through hard work. I've been in debt for years, and my job has been particularly unstable. Because of the debt, my mentality has also been particularly broken. I feel a little worried about assuming that if I replace someone, will the new person necessarily be successful? Will he help me take care of my mother?

Will he help me with many things? I am having a lot of trouble at work and I am not yet able to support myself. I belong to the worse kind of people, so my work is not good, which leads to bad relationships. I have never known what it is like to be with someone you really like.

Being with someone now is just companionship, I need his help, but there's no feeling of love.

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Pedro Miller The more you are diligent, the more you are respected.

I can relate to feeling stuck in a situation where practical needs outweigh emotional fulfillment. It's tough when you're balancing caregiving, financial stress, and personal relationships. I wonder if seeking support from community resources or social services for your mom could ease the burden and allow you to focus on finding a healthier relationship dynamic.

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Christine Miller Growth is a journey of learning to see the world through a lens of possibility.

It sounds incredibly challenging to be in this position. The weight of responsibility and the lack of emotional connection must be really hard. Maybe it's time to consider what you truly want from a relationship and how you can work towards that. Even small steps towards selfimprovement and stability can make a big difference over time.

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Dobbs Davis If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.

Feeling trapped between necessity and desire is such a complex place to be. It's important not to settle for companionship devoid of genuine affection, especially when you have so much on your plate already. Exploring options for assistance with your mother's care might open up possibilities for personal growth and finding someone who genuinely complements you.

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