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You must have the initial motivation to enter a state of learning, and imagine VS action.

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You must have the initial motivation to enter a state of learning, and imagine VS action. By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024

I would like to ask for your advice (maybe it will give you some food for thought).

Before I do something, I will imagine the feeling when I do it. If the feeling imagined is pleasant, I will have an initial motivation to do it. I gradually formed a compulsive habit of imagining in advance to get the initial motivation, whether it is for entertainment or learning. But the initial motivation obtained in this way is very unstable. It may be contaminated by other bad things (when something I hate is happening, imagining it makes me feel contaminated), or it may be interrupted. Once this happens, I will lose interest in doing it. However, some things must be done, such as learning, so I will continue to imagine and avoid sources of pollution to stimulate and maintain my motivation. I must have such an initial motivation before I can enter a state of learning.

But this is too passive. Imagination can be easily interrupted, and motivation is not within the control of consciousness. You can't just will it to happen. And often, just thinking about it constantly drains my energy. So I would like to ask for advice on how to break through the current situation.

Clara Knight Clara Knight A total of 7924 people have been helped

Good morning, question asker!

You have your own thoughts and are very clear about the problems that trouble you.

I would be delighted to share my knowledge with you and discuss it with you.

1. It might be helpful to try to understand the nature of motivation.

There is a great deal of research on motivation.

There is a great deal of research on motivation.

If I understood you correctly, you said that initially, motivation comes from imagination.

It may be particularly evident in the context of learning.

Perhaps it would be helpful to consider whether this approach could be applied to other areas as well.

For instance,

Could I ask whether you need to imagine the physical needs such as drinking water, eating, breathing, sleeping, etc.?

If we don't need to do any of this, and we only need to rely on imagination when we need to make an effort, then we may be caught in a situation where we feel we have to rely on imagination.

It could be said that it is a battle between the forces of "doing" and "not doing."

It could be said that there are two kinds of motivation: either to gain a sense of pleasure or to avoid a feeling of displeasure.

If I may suggest, perhaps imagining the feeling as pleasant could help to motivate you to do it.

If I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed, I find it challenging to stay motivated.

For instance, studying requires a great deal of effort to maintain motivation, as one must constantly imagine and avoid sources of pollution.

Perhaps we could take a moment to reflect on our genuine reasons for pursuing this course of study.

Perhaps it would be more beneficial to focus on finding our own motivation rather than taking what others say to heart.

It is worth noting that when an activity and its outcome compete in the mind, the preparatory activity, that is, the mental imagery, can often prove to be more strenuous and exhausting. This can potentially act as a hindrance to starting the activity.

Perhaps we could also consider avoiding unpleasant things, even if they are not pleasant to do. For example, if we don't study, we may encounter difficulties.

Perhaps we could consider the possibility of acting immediately, regardless of our mood, and immediately starting to learn.

2. It may be helpful to try to find a method that suits you.

It might take some time to form a habit.

You may have noticed that imagining before acting can sometimes feel a bit passive, out of your control, and energy-consuming.

Perhaps we could try thinking in reverse?

Perhaps it would be helpful to consider what benefits this pattern has brought me in the past.

It could be said that an action is maintained only if it has brought benefits.

For instance, I try to provide myself with more compelling reasons for postponing certain tasks.

Or perhaps the imagined pleasure is a factor, too. Getting yourself into a learning state is more efficient, and so on.

One possible approach is to follow the method taught in the book "5% Change." It may be helpful to focus on making small changes rather than attempting significant shifts all at once.

As an example, we previously had to imagine for 10 minutes before we could start acting, but now we try to just imagine for 8 minutes before we start acting.

If something is unpleasant, even though you don't want to do it, you might consider starting it with that frame of mind.

You might also consider changing your perspective. The result of doing this thing is important, so it may be helpful to act immediately, regardless of whether it makes you happy or not.

"Thinking is the problem, doing is the answer." Sometimes, we can also imagine ourselves as another person with high motivation, who acts promptly when an idea arises.

I used to spend a lot of time thinking things through before taking action. However, I found that applying the method of "doing it as soon as I think of it" greatly reduced internal friction and greatly improved efficiency.

Even if there are many challenges in the process of thinking about something, or if there are still some details to be ironed out, the answers will gradually become clear as we move forward with the task at hand.

It might also be helpful to consider our motivation from the perspective of intrinsic and extrinsic motivation, whether our motivation comes from within or without.

If one's internal motivation is lacking, it may be helpful to consider ways of increasing external motivation, which could potentially assist in acting in a more optimal manner.

The topic of "imagination vs. action" is quite profound.

Perhaps it would be beneficial for us to explore this together.

It may be the case that finding your own internal motivation could be the root of a breakthrough.

If it is of interest to you, you may wish to consider reading the book entitled "Motivation Psychology."

I wish you the best.

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Lincoln Miller The best preparation for tomorrow is doing your best today.

I totally get what you're saying. It sounds like you rely heavily on a positive visualization to kickstart your activities, but it's become a fragile process. Perhaps focusing on building stronger intrinsic motivation could help. By finding deeper personal reasons for why you want to learn or engage in an activity, you might not need to depend so much on the initial pleasant feeling to start.

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Cynthia Thomas The essence of growth lies in the ability to transform setbacks into comebacks.

It seems like you've developed a system that works sometimes but is too easily disrupted. Have you considered setting up a routine or environment that supports your learning without relying on how you feel at any given moment? Structuring your time and space can provide a stable foundation that doesn't waver with your emotions.

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Duran Davis Knowledge of different legal and ethical principles and literary works is beneficial.

Your approach shows a deep connection between your emotions and actions. Instead of avoiding contamination, maybe try exposing yourself gradually to less ideal conditions while pursuing your goals. This could build resilience over time, allowing you to maintain focus even when things aren't perfect. Developing this kind of mental toughness can be really beneficial in the long run.

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Dick Anderson Teachers are the balancers who maintain the equilibrium of students' educational development.

I understand the struggle of needing that spark to get started. Maybe shifting focus from the outcome to the process itself could make a difference. Enjoying each step of learning, rather than just the imagined end result, might keep you engaged and motivated consistently, regardless of external interruptions or negative feelings.

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