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As soon as you make money, you become arrogant, vain, your desires grow, and you want instant success?

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As soon as you make money, you become arrogant, vain, your desires grow, and you want instant success? By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024

Because I work on projects. I get paid according to the project.

Sometimes it can be hundreds of thousands or even millions. Whenever I make money, I become arrogant, vain, my desires grow, and I seek instant success.

Then it will be quickly spent. What should I do if I often encounter a broken capital chain and cannot preserve wealth well?

Karl Karl A total of 6286 people have been helped

Dear Sir/Madam, It is my understanding that wealth allows people to live a life of abundance, with more freedom of choice. This will make them more confident and feel good about themselves. However, beyond a certain limit, it makes people around you feel that you are deliberately pretending to be very powerful. Kind regards,

On the one hand, those around you may be envious, and on the other, you yourself are in that state, feeling that you are exceptional, as if you can accomplish anything, that making money is straightforward, and that those who are less fortunate have such a challenging time making a modest income.

Over time, you will find that all your associates appear to be focused on financial gain. They will disengage once you have depleted your resources or they are no longer able to benefit from your contributions.

In addition to enjoyment, money can be used to fund more meaningful endeavors. Some individuals invest in philanthropic endeavors, such as Louis Koo, who built a primary school in hopes of making a positive impact and ultimately achieving his creative aspirations. Do you recall your aspirations?

The greatest asset is the support of family and friends who share the same goals and are invested in your success.

Despite your financial resources, your actions indicate a lack of generosity. This perception may not be entirely accurate, given that your reward is only one dollar. This is not aligned with your description of wealth.

It is possible that your accumulation of wealth is driven by greed, a desire to hold it in your hands, and an unwillingness to share it.

It would be beneficial to take this opportunity to gain a deeper understanding of your own thoughts and beliefs.

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Lyra Lyra A total of 4369 people have been helped

Hello, question asker! I'm Enoch, your answerer.

The questioner is good at making money but poor at managing it. Despite his success, he has spent his wealth on desires and may have risked losing it all. He doesn't know what to do.

Some people are good at making money but not at managing it. Others are good at managing money but not at making it. Some people are good at both.

Then the questioner only needs to plan how and where to use their money.

First, plan how much you will invest and how much you will spend. Set aside money to guard against risks. You can use the rest of your money for other things.

Plan ahead to improve your ability to withstand risks.

I hope the questioner can manage his money better while still earning money.

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Declan Baker Declan Baker A total of 2136 people have been helped

Hello, landlord. I am confident that my answer will be of some help to you.

The landlord knows a lot about himself and knows where he needs to make adjustments. This allows for targeted adjustments and planning for the future. If you think your problem is that you cannot save wealth well and often experience a shortage of funds, then you need to take some measures to help yourself save wealth and make reserves and preparations for future capital turnover.

My advice is clear:

We must have a clear budget.

You need a sober financial budget. Here are some simple measures you can use to deal with questions such as how much you want to spend and what you want to spend it on:

Make a list of your expenses.

Record how much you spend in a month, half a year, or a year, and keep a detailed record of your spending.

Manage your expenses.

Write down each essential expense that you think will make you happy and content from the list above.

Write down each essential expense that will make you happy and content from the list above.

B. Examine your income and assets carefully and create a budget that allows you to manage your finances and other "must" expenses on a daily basis according to your income.

B. Examine your income and assets carefully and create a budget that allows you to manage your finances and other "must" expenses on a daily basis according to your income.

You must do this.

Plan for the future.

Plan for the future.

A. List your long-term financial goals, taking into account what you want most and what you fear most. For example, your goal is to complete a certain project or buy another house.

B. Create a long-term financial plan that will help you achieve your goals, such as saving 5,000 yuan each month as reserve funds, etc.

Following these steps will result in the creation of effective solutions.

2. Adjust your beliefs and give yourself positive mental suggestions.

Many of us have false beliefs about wealth that we acquired naturally as children. For example, you may believe that you should spend as much as you have, or that money in your hands is not safe unless you spend it.

As adults, we have the power to change these beliefs and make our lives better.

You can adjust your beliefs and give yourself this mental reminder:

I love my work, and I'm rewarded for it. I know how to protect my assets and save money.

I have money in the bank and I am continuing to build my fortune. I have paid all my bills and I have some money left over.

When I feel like I'm about to spend all my money again, I know it's just an old pattern resurfacing. I ask myself, "What's best for me?" This clears up any doubts, and the way forward becomes clear.

I am honest, and I am safe with my wealth.

Stick with it for a month or two. Repeat these mental affirmations to yourself every morning and evening. You will see that changing your thoughts and beliefs will change your entire world. Persevere to adjust yourself to a better state. You will become the master of your wealth, rationally deploying your wealth without being troubled by it anymore.

I'm confident this will help. Best wishes!

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Sylvester Jackson An honest man doesn't fear the truth.

I understand the challenge of maintaining wealth when income is projectbased and sporadic. One approach is to set up an emergency fund specifically for those dry periods. This way, you have a financial cushion that can help stabilize your finances and reduce the pressure to spend out of anxiety or vanity.

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Lila Jennings Learning is a way to discover our potential.

It sounds like the highs of big paydays lead to a cycle of spending that can be hard to break. Perhaps creating a detailed budget right after receiving payment could help. Allocate funds towards savings, investments, and then decide on a modest amount for personal desires. Over time, this discipline might help in building sustainable wealth.

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Euterpe Jackson Life is a theater, and you're on stage every day.

The rollercoaster of income and spending can be tough. It might be beneficial to work with a financial advisor who can offer personalized advice tailored to your income pattern. They can assist in setting longterm goals, planning for taxes, and investing wisely to ensure that your capital works for you even between projects.

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