Can't understand or unwilling to accept? What does the disobedience signify?

Dear questioner, Good day to you!

The phrase "Why don't you listen?" is one that we often hear in our everyday lives.

"Why don't you listen?" is a phrase we often hear in life.

You mentioned that since you were little, you've had this one label. It seems like you're thinking about what might be behind disobedience.

It seems that your daughter may also be experiencing some disobedience. This may be making you feel as though you've seen a younger version of yourself.

You have a good sense of awareness and are willing to share what I know with you. I hope it will be a small source of inspiration for you.

1. Could you please share your thoughts on what obedience and disobedience mean to you?

As parents, we all hope that our children will listen to us and do what we ask of them.

As parents, we all hope that our children will listen to us and do what we ask of them.

As a driving school instructor, I also hope that my students will pay close attention to my instructions so that they can pass their driving test successfully.

Perhaps you can relate to the experience of being an unruly child in your parents' eyes, and now you're in a position of being a parent with an unruly daughter.

Could I ask you to consider whether this perspective might offer a new way of looking at the issue?

I wonder if, when you were a child, you sometimes found yourself in the position of having to refuse to do what your parents asked you to do.

It's possible that the more your parents say, the more you might feel like you're being disobedient.

It's important to recognize that the label can become a burden if we let it.

Could I ask whether you have ever found disobedience to be beneficial in any way?

I believe that obedience and disobedience are, in essence, neutral.

It is worth noting that the demands of those who demand obedience are not always appropriate.

It's possible that you've had your own opinions since childhood.

From the limited information you have provided, I am curious to know if you have ever experienced any difficulties as a result of disobedience.

I'm afraid I don't have enough information to answer your question. Could you tell me if disobedience has ever caused you trouble?

For instance, would you say that you have a good relationship with your classmates and teachers at school?

I wonder if you also work in the workplace?

If our own opinions or automatic blocking do not have any adverse effects, there is no need for concern.

If it affects our interactions with others at school or work, we can make adjustments as needed.

Could I suggest that if you don't object and actively cooperate with others, you might be seen as being obedient?

2. How might I best communicate with a child who is disobedient?

2. Could you kindly offer some advice on how to communicate with a disobedient child?

I believe it is normal for children to be disobedient.

It is not uncommon for children to display disobedient behavior at some point during their development.

It is important to be mindful of the potential consequences of labeling our children as "disobedient."

It may be the case that the more we perceive our children to be disobedient, the more likely they are to behave in an unruly manner.

We all have moments when we are more inclined to obey and moments when we are more inclined to disobey.

Even the most disobedient child may respond well to being allowed to do what they want.

I believe that it is not so much whether a child is obedient or disobedient that matters most, but rather how we can come to an agreement with our child.

I wonder if I might suggest a few principles on how to insist.

In addition, it is important to consider how to allow the child to make their own decisions in some less significant matters.

It would be beneficial for parents to understand their children and respect them, while also being able to "gently but firmly say no."

I believe that by taking the time to understand the underlying reasons behind each instance of disobedience, we can work towards raising the child we want.

It is often the case that children disobey for one of a number of reasons.

As a general rule, children tend to disobey for a variety of reasons.

Perhaps the child is seeking attention from the parents.

To obtain a right

Hurt the other person.

It seems that the child is unhappy.

Perhaps it would be more beneficial to focus on identifying our children's strengths rather than dwelling on their disobedience.

I believe that, in the process of raising your daughter, you may also gain insights into your own parenting style and why you didn't listen in the first place.

If it would be of interest to you, you might like to read Get Rid of the Bear Child.

I wish you the best of luck!

Some people are simply inclined to be rebellious and may not always be receptive to external advice. We all have a tendency to be somewhat stubborn at times, perhaps driven by an underlying fear that others might make decisions that are not in our best interest.

Without the suffering of others, people may sometimes offer advice that is impractical. For example, some host or expert might suggest that low-income people can rent out their idle villas at home, or that someone can drive a Mercedes to deliver takeaway food using a ride-sharing app. Such suggestions may not be realistic in practice.

Sometimes, it's other people's problems, and sometimes, it's our own rebelliousness, or perhaps our reluctance to understand on an emotional level. If we don't understand for a long time, it's understandable that we might find it challenging to communicate effectively with those involved, to feel a lot of incredulity, and to be unable to quickly find key information in what other people say.

It might be suggested that both rebellious unwillingness and a lack of knowledge about oneself can potentially lead to problems. It is therefore possible that the reason behind disobedience may also be the underlying character of a person. It is not uncommon for others to say to us, "Why don't you listen? Why don't you listen?" It can be helpful to consider whether we disapprove of the other person or whether what the other person says does not make sense to us.

Sometimes what other people say may not fully address the underlying issue, which can make you feel uncertain and misunderstood. Your daughter may be going through a rebellious phase and may not be open to listening to adults, while you as an adult may benefit from increasing your self-awareness to better understand the coach's message. It might be helpful to seek the guidance of a psychological counselor to gain clarity on the situation.

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