College students, can't you be happy anymore, influenced by the negative news and comments on the internet?

Good day, I am writing in response to your question.

It is challenging to provide comprehensive guidance on this topic within the limited scope of a 400-word description. Nevertheless, I hope to offer some insights in this response to support you in exploring a broader range of perspectives when you feel uncertain.

"There is always a shadow under the sun."

As a university student, you have more time and energy to access the internet and obtain a wide range of information from it. Compared to the time when you were focused on your studies in high school, you are now more engaged with social news and have developed your own independent thinking and opinions.

As you mentioned, exploring social software may lead to the discovery of new information and opinions, as well as the encounter of unfamiliar phenomena. For instance, the Internet may present instances of distressing and unthinkable events.

[Beware of the potential consequences of an information cocoon]

When you say, "Opening social media apps is like opening a negative news feed," I would like to bring your attention to a phenomenon known as an "information cocoon." Given the sheer volume of information available on the Internet, when we use social media apps, the background programs will filter and screen the information based on our reading habits, the length of time we spend reading different news articles, the keywords we frequently search for, and so on. They will then use algorithms to push news that matches our daily preferences to us.

Consequently, if you consistently focus on similar negative news, you will encounter more of it, which may influence your overall perception of the external environment over time.

[Focus on your current university life]

No matter the time of day, there are always people facing challenges in this world. While sympathy and attention can influence public opinion, if you truly want to effect change, you must first focus on your own strength and resilience. As a university student, you have the opportunity to dedicate more time and energy to your studies and activities, leading to a fulfilling and engaging campus experience.

Furthermore, you have the option of participating in public welfare activities at your educational institution and in the broader community. You can apply your enthusiasm and kindness in a practical manner, step outside the virtual reality of the internet, and gain a deeper understanding of your self-worth.

I hope that the inquirer will find their time at the university to be both fulfilling and enjoyable.

Hello!

The news app on our phones is always full of fascinating stories about violence, sexual assault, and domestic violence.

The more we pay attention to negative news, the more we realize our own powerlessness—and that's an opportunity for growth!

And some news is bad enough, not to mention the extreme views of netizens and the chaotic scope of discussions, which really affect our mood.

When it comes to comments on news, it's a great idea to pay more attention to writers who are friendly in tone and promote discussion among netizens!

This is a great way to exercise our critical thinking skills! Many comments are extremely biased and not representative of the general population, so it's important to read between the lines.

Good media sources are great because they filter comments, retain meaningful opinions, and maintain a good discussion atmosphere.

For news sources, we should definitely read more reliable news media!

Many media outlets often sensationalize and selectively report news that really gets our attention!

It's so important to be able to distinguish between the facts, analysis and opinions in news sources.

For the same news, we can see what the truth is and find out whether the source of the facts is reliable.

And, most importantly, whether their analysis is supported by sufficient and reasonable arguments!

The opinions expressed are completely impartial and free from any influence from interested parties.

To conclude, we can reduce the impact on ourselves by avoiding negative news. And guess what? Evading it is shameful but useful!

At the same time, we should think about how to prevent such things from happening, read, and learn!

You can also write a great comment! Sharing high-quality information is a wonderful way to make a positive change.

Best of luck!

Hello, question asker!

"I'm a college student, and I started using social media. It's clear to me that the depressing nature of current events and politics is reflected in the news I see every day after school. I can't be happy when I think about people living in darkness forever."

"I don't have time to raise a mentally healthy child. It's wrong to give up on her life before she reaches adulthood. Why can't some people understand this? We can understand anything about human beings."

We need to figure out how to deal with the displeasure caused by negative news and the different interpretations of the same thing. Let's do it together.

Online information is fast-paced, diverse, and participatory. Anyone can express their opinions, and we naturally develop ideas based on this information. We're curious, so we also check out what others think. Different comments reveal the humanity behind actions.

Simply put, a person's perspective on something reflects their outlook on life and values. Given that everyone's beliefs in life are different, differences are bound to arise.

Another factor is the complexity of human nature, where good and evil coexist. In the incident described by the questioner, the parents loved the girl, but they chose to avoid dealing with the two children and gave up on continuing to care for her.

People will only work hard for something that is hopeful, and they will often choose to give up on something that is hopeless. This is human nature.

The instinctive choice is made not only because of limited practical abilities, such as financial, time, and emotional, but also because most of us cannot transcend human limitations.

This inevitably leads to different interpretations of the same thing by different people, each with a logical foundation.

We acknowledge these differences, but we do not approve of the parents' behavior and attitude towards the girl in the incident. It is imperative that society provide more humane care to families in need of help and reduce their burden in life.

From these events, we will learn the responsibilities of being a parent, how to let children grow up healthily, and how to improve and perfect ourselves. This is the meaning of these events.

The same is true of other negative news. When we understand the underlying issues, we can prevent similar events from occurring again. Families are the building blocks of society, and when every family member is happy, there will be less negative news.

We feel unhappy when we see negative news because we feel pity for the people involved. This is the gentlest side of human nature. We can and should fully accept our emotions.

We should be proud that we have empathy. It would be even better if we could help the vulnerable in difficult situations. However, we may not always be able to solve or control everything.

Don't stay in a bad mood for long. It will affect your physical and mental health.

Distract yourself and focus your energy on other things. Pay less attention to negative news. When you receive less information, your brain is no longer stimulated, and your emotions will be more stable.

This is just my opinion, but I think it's worth sharing.

Best wishes!

Hello!

I admire your thinking!

I'd be happy to add a few more things, hoping they'll be comforting and inspiring.

1. Understand yourself and the world.

I had the same problems when I was young.

I understand you're unhappy and feel sorry for that strange girl.

You may also feel powerless.

You know there are a lot of bad news stories every day.

Are you willing to be unhappy?

We must learn to understand ourselves in these situations.

Knowing you are compassionate may make you feel responsible for others.

If someone is unhappy, it's wrong.

Many people think that if others suffer, they might suffer too.

Such people understand others' suffering.

Some people are glad they haven't experienced it.

People think differently.

People have different ideas depending on their perspective.

As university students, we must think for ourselves.

Don't let negative news and comments affect you. Do what you can in such an environment.

This is how we see the world.

The most important thing is:

We need to know what we want. You want this girl to get more care.

The world is full of problems. Other people think differently.

This is a valuable skill.

2. Taking care of ourselves helps us use our powers.

You'll understand this better when you're older.

Many people will disagree with us.

We need to look at problems from different points of view.

I support your idea.

If you have a child, you must take responsibility for it.

But we also need to recognize that adults can feel helpless.

The girl's parents have spent over 100,000 yuan on her treatment. It's hard to care for patients with aggressive mental illness at home.

It may be hard to understand if you're not in the situation.

We just have to learn to see things from different people's perspectives. Some of these perspectives may be paranoid, but we must avoid seeing things from just one side.

We just have to learn to see different people's comments, even if some are paranoid.

When faced with negative news or comments, maintain your own point of view.

Try to understand others, but don't support them.

Don't think you have to be happy when this happens.

When we can't be happy, we can just not be.

Take time to process the bad news.

But protect yourself.

You can read less negative news and more heartwarming stories about people helping each other.

The most important point is:

We learn to grow up and see more.

Do what you can.

Take care of your body and emotions.

When you start working, you can show your love and help set up more relief agencies.

Let these people who have suffered so much receive more care from society.

Share these.

Best wishes!

Greetings!

It is evident that you possess a proclivity for altruism and a penchant for social engagement, that you are endowed with benevolence and perspicacity, and that you are deserving of commendation. Concurrently, it is also apparent that you are afflicted and perplexed by the pernicious influence of disheartening information.

In regard to negative news:

It is accurate to conclude that such a phenomenon exists. Upon turning on one's mobile phone, one encounters a plethora of negative news and a multitude of unfortunate events. This creates the impression that the world is in a dire state, with few positive occurrences. This can be attributed to two factors. Firstly, the advent of highly sophisticated information technology, particularly the proliferation of user-generated content, has resulted in a situation where events in any given location can capture the attention of individuals at any given moment. Secondly, the media landscape is characterised by a tendency for certain outlets to sensationalise news in order to attract viewership.

Additionally, software can be utilized to automatically disseminate similar news items to users who have indicated a preference for such content. This may result in users encountering a disproportionate number of similar news items.

The following section will delineate the optimal methodology for viewing news events.

This is also an era of significant ideological diversity. Individuals possess disparate perspectives on the news. At times, a news event is initially reported in one version, but is subsequently disproven by an alternative, diametrically opposed account. This can leave the audience perplexed.

As we are not the eyewitnesses and witnesses of the events, the news we see is all relayed and processed through the reporter's own thoughts, and it is likely not the truth. Furthermore, there are many events where we may never see the truth. In today's society, this is a common occurrence.

It is recommended that:

1. It is recommended that individuals engage in conscious efforts to reduce their consumption of negative news.

If perusing these disheartening news articles has resulted in a decline in one's emotional state, it would be prudent to limit one's exposure to such content. Regardless of one's actions, self-care remains the primary objective. When our emotional well-being is compromised, it becomes challenging to maintain composure in other aspects of our lives, including our professional endeavors.

2. Evaluate negative news events in a rational manner.

As previously stated, the content of these negative news reports is often contradictory and confusing, making it challenging for individuals to discern the truth. The lack of time and energy available to process such information further complicates the situation.

It is therefore imperative that we view these negative news reports in a more rational manner, even when we do see them, and that we do so with an objective and neutral attitude. We must not accept the portrayal of events at face value, nor must we jump to conclusions.

3. Cultivate a diverse perspective.

To understand is to perceive from a dissimilar standpoint.

These differing perspectives—sympathy for the girl, condemnation of the parents, and discussion of the harm caused by mental illness—arise from the varying positions from which they are observed.

I concur with your assertion that individuals can be understood in a multitude of ways. With an open mind, there is no definitive right or wrong in the opinions of people; rather, there is merely agreement or disagreement.

An individual's perspective is shaped by their surrounding environment, educational background, past experiences, and personal memories. By placing ourselves in the shoes of another person and adopting their perspective, we may gain insights into concepts that are difficult to comprehend.

A diverse perspective can facilitate a more objective and comprehensive view of a subject, thereby enhancing rational and mature thinking.

4. One must endeavor to diminish the influence of external factors on one's emotional state and foster a positive emotional disposition.

It is a natural consequence of human psychology that an individual's emotional state is susceptible to external influences. However, it is imperative to strive for a reduction in the negative impact of these external factors on one's emotional well-being. Excessive negative emotions can not only impede one's ability to function effectively in various aspects of life but can also hinder one's cognitive processes and actions.

Once negative emotions have been eliminated, individuals will have the capacity to dedicate more time and energy to self-improvement. When sufficient strength is attained, it becomes possible to assist a greater number of people and to disseminate the benevolence within oneself.

It is important to consider the world around us in a more holistic manner, acknowledging both the positive and negative aspects. One can choose to consume positive media to gain a more nuanced understanding of life's beauty. Additionally, one can deliberately cultivate an optimistic mindset to enhance their outlook.

It is my sincere hope that you are happy.

It is my sincere hope that Hongyu's reply will prove beneficial to you. I am grateful for your inquiry.

Hello, question owner.

From what you've said, it seems like you're affected a lot by what's going on around you. These external events trigger a lot of negative emotions, which in turn affect you. I can understand how you feel.

We all have a lot going on in our lives, and not everything is positive. It's easy to miss the not-so-great things. Many people are struggling, and there's not much we can do about it because we're limited by our energy. So, we need to focus on taking care of ourselves and being responsible for our own well-being.

Sometimes, we can only watch and not help because we all have our own things to do. We need to learn to separate issues. This means that you are responsible for your own things, and I am responsible for my own things. We cannot interfere with or decide on other people's business. We can only be responsible for our own choices.

It's important to learn to recognize your emotions, understand why they arise, and recognize when you're influenced by others. It's also crucial to realize that even if you are influenced, you need to get yourself out of the emotional whirlpool as soon as possible. Otherwise, you'll be stuck in a cycle of grief that won't help you solve the problem or participate in or interfere with other people's affairs.

I'd suggest that the current question owner do something positive and energetic to make themselves happy and cheerful. Pay more attention to positive things and less to negative things. I think this will be of great help to your emotions. Learn to take responsibility for your decisions and choices, and learn to take responsibility for your life.

I hope this helps.

Hello!

Host:

After reading your post, I could really feel the sadness in it. I also noticed that you've been really brave in sharing your feelings and looking for help on this platform. I'm sure that'll help you understand yourself better and adjust your emotions.

I'll also share some thoughts and observations that I hope will help you see things from a different angle.

1. Give yourself the gift of accepting and expressing your emotions.

It's clear from the post that the host's emotions have been affected by seeing the sad story of this girl and the comments. I totally get where you're coming from.

I'd also love to chat with you about how we can help ourselves when we're feeling unhappy.

I get the feeling that the original poster might try to accept our emotions and allow ourselves to be temporarily unhappy. I know I would be if I saw such a sad story!

This is totally normal! And if you want to adjust your emotions, you can also try expressing them in a reasonable way.

I'm not sure what kind of expression suits you best, but I'll share a method that's often used in psychology.

It's like writing. We can write out our emotions, feelings, thoughts, etc. In the process of writing, on the one hand, we sort out our emotions, and on the other hand, we listen to our emotions.

And it can really help to just let it all out and have someone listen and support you. If you feel like it, you can give it a try. It can really help us to feel better.

And you'll get to know yourself better, too!

2. Big data

These days, software is all about big data. Take X Music as an example. It'll even see what kind of videos you stop watching! Based on how long you spent watching them and the types of videos you usually watch, it'll recommend videos to you. For example, if you like psychology, it'll recommend lots of psychology-related videos to you. So for the original poster, you might also want to consider whether you've been influenced by this big data.

Yes, there's a lot of negative news in the world, and there are also a lot of bad things. But there are also a lot of warm and touching moments!

For example, the melon truck I was driving broke down, and the city management was so kind as to help them sell the melons. A child fell from upstairs, and someone threw away their phone to catch it.

These are all moments that warm our hearts!

From my perspective, there are plenty of challenges in this world, but there are also so many beautiful, heartwarming moments. It's not always a dark journey, and I like to think of it as a dance between light and darkness.

3. There's a bright side to every cloud!

It's so sad to see what happened to this girl. Her story is a real eye-opener and makes you think about how we can help others.

As you mentioned, she really needed sex education, and it led to a tragic life. Her story is also a warning to countless people not to neglect sex education for children.

And from this perspective, she has also saved many people.

Similarly, her story also serves as a gentle warning to many parents: if they don't have the ability to learn and grow themselves and maintain a healthy mentality, they won't be able to raise a child with a healthy mentality. This will also help many parents grow and learn.

In this situation, this girl is a tragedy. But she's also using her story to warn the world, which is really admirable.

I feel so sorry for her, but there's really not much we can do. What we can do is live our lives well and then influence more people around us.

Let's help as many people as we can!

I really hope these words have been helpful and inspiring for you.

Good day, inquirer.

A news story can evoke a plethora of disparate feelings and emotions. Based on my observations, you appear to be a highly empathetic individual, characterized by a profound sense of compassion and admiration. However, I also discern a notable degree of emotional volatility, seemingly influenced by external factors.

In addition to empathizing with the girl in the news, you were also influenced by some of the comments. Given that those individuals espouse views that differ from your own, you perceive the girl's parents as being irresponsible for the circumstances that have transpired.

Many netizens empathize with and comprehend the perspectives of their parents, yet it is impossible to fully grasp the nuances of their understanding.

I would like to recount a brief anecdote from my own experience that I hope will provide some inspiration.

Our family enjoys viewing nature documentaries. On one occasion, we observed an episode featuring bison. When we witnessed the lions attempting to capture the bison, we experienced a sense of concern and hoped that the lions would not succeed. In a subsequent episode featuring lions, we again observed the lions attempting to capture the bison, and once more, we felt a sense of concern and hoped that the lions would succeed.

My son inquired, "It is peculiar. Why did we anticipate the lion's failure to apprehend the bison a few days ago, yet today we anticipate its success?"

I was also taken aback. Upon further reflection, I came to understand that our differing perspectives were the root cause of our disparate stances and perceptions.

It is evident that there is a discrepancy in the perspectives held by netizens and the general public. The latter group includes individuals such as yourself, who are university students and have a personal connection to the situation. You saw the girl's photo and felt a profound sense of empathy, which prompted you to adopt her perspective. It is plausible that some netizens are parents themselves, and thus possess a unique understanding of the challenges associated with parenting. They may also have a child who is mentally ill, which could further enhance their ability to empathize with parents in similar circumstances.

In psychology, it is a verifiable fact that any individual can be understood. Criminal psychology is the scientific study of how a person who is not inherently criminal can become involved in criminal activities and, furthermore, there are identifiable patterns that can be observed.

However, understanding is distinct from agreeing with or supporting a position. Understanding entails grasping the rationale behind an individual's actions. By understanding, one can take prompt measures to forestall future actions.

This is, in fact, the significance of psychological research.

It is my hope that you will continue to retain your capacity for compassion and empathy, which are invaluable qualities.

Furthermore, it is my hope that you will not be unduly influenced by the opinions of others and that you will not become annoyed simply because someone holds a different view.

Should one feel that there are numerous concepts that remain opaque, it is hoped that an open mind can be employed to initially acknowledge their existence. Thereafter, through the processes of learning, observation, and critical thinking, one can gain insight into the reasons behind their existence.

As one gains further knowledge about the world, one's ability to comprehend it grows, leading to an increase in peace of mind.

I extend my blessings to you.

My name is Haru Aoki, and I extend my love to the entire world.