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Due to severe weather, there have been two traffic accidents. My mother is superstitious, what should I do?

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Due to severe weather, there have been two traffic accidents. My mother is superstitious, what should I do? By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024

Due to severe weather, I had two car accidents when going out, and my mother not only didn't care but also said that great responsibilities would be bestowed upon me, urging me to strive hard. Suddenly, I felt very angry but had nowhere to vent my frustration.

Yolanda Thompson Yolanda Thompson A total of 7387 people have been helped

Greetings! I extend to you a warm embrace from a distance.

I am gratified to have read your request for assistance and hope that my contribution will prove beneficial and helpful to you.

From your account, it is evident that you faced misfortune in the face of extreme weather conditions. You sought solace and understanding from your parents, yet you were met with indifference. This led to feelings of frustration, anger, helplessness, and powerlessness, as you were unable to comprehend the lack of emotional support and love you received.

Indeed, the rationale behind the mother's lack of emotional support during the most vulnerable period was due to the fact that the extreme weather conditions also instilled a sense of fear and apprehension in her. Following the two incidents, the most effective method for her to cope with this aspect of her fear and anxiety was to deny, avoid, and seek solace in self-comfort.

Indeed, when confronted with natural disasters that are beyond one's control, individuals tend to experience a sense of powerlessness and helplessness. Attributing the misfortune encountered to one's own carelessness can provide a sense of strength and control, which may lead individuals to believe that they can avoid future predicaments through hard work and effort.

Consequently, the subject experiences a profound sense of disquiet and despondency in response to the mother's conduct. However, it is possible to attempt to convey the authentic sentiments and requirements of the subject to the mother, while simultaneously accepting her response.

One may choose to record in writing the grievances, anger, helplessness, powerlessness, and one's mother's incomprehension and indifference caused by the misfortune encountered due to the extreme weather conditions. This method is considered the safest for expressing and releasing emotions, while also facilitating emotional awareness.

Subsequently, one should endeavor to discern what the two vehicular collisions caused by inclement weather have imparted, namely, how to circumvent such incidents more effectively, while accounting for variables beyond one's control. Has the experience fostered an enhanced capacity for self-care and self-preservation?

I am Lily, the automated answering device, and I extend my greetings to you, as well as my affection and best wishes for your well-being.

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Caroline Anderson Growth is a process of building character and integrity.

I can't believe how tough this situation is, first the accidents and then not getting the support I needed from my mom. It's really frustrating when you expect understanding but receive pressure instead.

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Earline Jackson The unexamined life is not worth living.

Facing backtoback car incidents because of the harsh weather, I'm feeling so upset. My mom's reaction just added to the stress. It's hard when you're looking for comfort and get pep talks about responsibility instead.

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Scarlett Bloom Let your honesty shine through in the darkest of times.

It's infuriating that amidst all this chaos caused by the bad weather and accidents, my own mother dismissed my feelings. I just wanted some sympathy, not a lecture on future responsibilities.

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Archie Jackson The teacher's role is to inspire hope, ignite the imagination, and instill a love of learning.

The severe weather led to these accidents, and dealing with unsupportive words from my mom has left me feeling lost. It's as if there's no space for my emotions in her eyes, only expectations.

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Judd Jackson A teacher's love and attention are like the sun and rain to a growing plant - essential for growth.

After experiencing two accidents due to the terrible weather, I was already on edge. My mom's lack of concern and push for me to focus on responsibilities has made it even harder to cope with everything.

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