I was awakened by thunder in my dream. I don't know how to interpret this dream.

You need to pay more attention to the feelings the dream brings you.

In your dream, you were angry and decided to break off your relationship with your husband and live alone with your child.

The red mark under your eye woke you up. You are afraid of the death of your marriage, and of other people's judgment. You know you want to change, and you're not going to let other people stand in your way.

Let's look at it from another perspective. When your husband comes home late, and you criticize and accuse him, what will he think? When both sides are so tense, it's hard to live in peace.

Use your eyes to discover love, not mistakes. You feel that everything is a mistake and want to correct it. Think about it. Are there reasons for these mistakes? You haven't made your feelings and needs clear to your husband.

He needs to come home and spend more time with you and the children, and take on more responsibilities around the house.

Your bad temper is pushing him away.

Your husband needs to love, care for, and spoil you. That will help you to control your temper.

If you want to save your marriage, you have to change. It depends on what your common goal is, whether you still love each other, and whether you want to continue to run a good family. Try to communicate calmly, instead of blaming and complaining. You don't want to become someone you don't like, so hang in there!

Hello, question asker! I'm a trainee psychological counselor and a trainee family education instructor, and I'm excited to help you interpret your dream.

You took the children back to your parents' home to sleep, which shows that you feel tired and exhausted in your current family. This is a great opportunity for you to recharge your batteries! You can use this time to reflect on your life and decide what you want to do next. You might even find that you want to go back to your parents' home and escape your current life.

You want to leave, but you hope your husband will beg you to stay and continue living together. You are very confused now, and your husband must be suffering too! Usually, your husband comes home late, and although you don't say anything, you don't look happy, do you? But here's the good news: you can change this!

You accuse your husband of not understanding your hard work, not spending time with you and the children, and you feel that he is getting too close to his colleagues. You think that someone is coveting your marriage, right? The person under the window is the person you think is coveting your marriage and family. The thing you want to escape from is not this environment, but this family. You want to support this family with your husband, but your husband also feels for your hard work and has not made a clear decision. Maybe during your argument, your husband said something he shouldn't have, like "you eat my food and mine, what else are you not satisfied with?" and so on. He got angry and said whatever came to his mind, and neither of you was willing to admit your mistake, so you both held on to each other's faults, and your relationship became more and more strained.

You are really pushing your husband away now, but you don't have any major problems. You just don't communicate well. Since you can't say it, why not "write it" (writing is just writing what you want to say)? The bloodshot eyes on the wall are the last glimmer of hope left by your deceased relative. They see you messing up your life and are worried for you. This shows that everything you suspect in your heart has not yet happened—but it will!

If you keep up this way of living, your marriage might end up breaking up. But it's not too late to make things right! This loud thunder is here to wake you up and show you what's really going on.

Hello, my dear! I am thrilled to be able to answer your questions and solve your problems on Yi Xinli. After reading your question, I felt a sense of excitement and anticipation. I'll give you a warm hug first (づ ●─● )づ?

Dreams are the expression of the subconscious, and they can mean different things to different people. I don't know the specifics of your life, but I'm excited to share a few insights based on my personal understanding!

In the dream, you have a lively debate with your husband about his choice to head to a colleague's house instead of going straight home after work. You feel that your husband could be more attentive to your needs and feelings, which makes you feel a bit insecure. So you want to arouse your husband's care for you through this debate. Is that right?

Absolutely! You can definitely try to be aware of it. Is it true that you also feel insecure in your daily life?

Now, about that missing lower half of the steel bar in your window. In psychology, the "house" often represents "private space" and "inner world." These "windows" also provide a kind of "protection." So, now that the lower half of the steel bar in your window is missing, it means that your "private space" has no protection and can be easily invaded!

Just imagine, in your daily life, have you ever had the experience of someone [meddling] or invading your "personal space"?

"I want to go out and rent a place to live by myself, work hard for my ideals, and not waste myself by raising a family as my husband expects," this is an amazing opportunity for growth! You are aware in your dream that you have to rely on yourself and want to live your own life. However, this path of growth seems to often encounter various obstacles.

For example, the "auntie next door" is persuading you to "treasure." Those "eyes with blood and tears, coupled with the sound of a loud thunderclap" make people feel a sense of [fear], but it's a good kind of fear!

This is most likely a materialization of the various "resistances" or "shadows" you encountered during your growth process—and you're going to love seeing how they show up in your dream!

I'm excited to help you interpret your dream! To do so, I'll need a few more details about your specific situation.

1. From childhood to adulthood, have you ever had the incredible experience of a "psychological shadow" caused by a major event?

2. I'd love to hear more about how your intimate relationship with your family (including your husband and parents) is going!

Absolutely! We'll respect your personal privacy and wishes.

Dear lady, thank you for your reply. From what I can ascertain, your problem can be summarized as follows: you aspire to pursue your dreams and act according to your own volition, yet you perceive that it is already too late, and you also have familial obligations that make you feel that you are not adequately prepared to do so. Is that an accurate representation of your circumstances? In any case, I extend to you a cordial embrace.

In this regard, I am reminded of the "Six Laws of Problem Solving," which I learned in a psychology class, and which I believe may be helpful to you.

Firstly, it is important to recognise that every problem has a solution. I have observed numerous instances of individuals who were late bloomers, and of those who were able to successfully balance work and family responsibilities, resulting in a thriving career and a content family life. It is evident that these individuals also faced significant challenges along the way.

If they are able to achieve this, it is reasonable to conclude that you can do so as well. Do you have faith in my assertion?

Secondly, if this particular avenue is impassable, it is likely that there are alternative routes. The adage "All roads lead to Rome" suggests that there are multiple potential solutions to the problem at hand.

It is not feasible to pursue one's ideals without regard for the present circumstances. Therefore, it would be beneficial to consider how to pursue one's ideals while simultaneously caring for one's family.

An alternative approach would be to consider the possibility of integrating these two aspects of life, rather than viewing them as entirely distinct entities. This integration could be achieved by exploring ways in which they can complement each other.

Thirdly, there are at least three strategies for solving any problem. It would be beneficial to consider three potential solutions to the current problem.

Fourth, all problems are opportunities for growth. Therefore, I congratulate you for being able to confront this problem, as it represents a chance for personal development.

It is imperative not to miss this opportunity.

Fifth, it is erroneous to assume that every problem is inherently problematic. Rather, it is our attitude towards problems that determines whether they become obstacles or opportunities. By courageously disclosing your problem on this platform, you have taken the first step towards solving it.

For this reason alone, you are already more advanced than many of your contemporaries.

Sixth, any ostensibly significant issue can be decomposed into a series of discrete, more manageable problems. Consequently, it is possible to attempt to "break apart" the current problem by: 1. Identifying the specific factors that contribute to the perception of having "matured too late."

Please provide a detailed account of your thoughts and habits.

It would be beneficial to identify ways to optimize and fix things in order to narrow the gap with one's peers.

2. What are the specific familial obligations that people are referring to? For example, is there a responsibility to care for one's parents in their advanced age?

The aforementioned tasks include laundry and cooking for the children, as well as dropping them off and picking them up from school.

It would be beneficial to attempt to optimize time management and set aside time for pursuing one's dreams. 3. What are your dreams?

What practical steps must be taken to achieve these aspirations? Are there any resources available in one's immediate vicinity that could facilitate the realization of these goals?

Furthermore, you indicated that your relationship with your parents and husband was initially strained but has since improved significantly. You also noted that you are now able to engage in constructive dialogue and communication with them on an equal footing. This is a commendable achievement, as it demonstrates your capacity to address and resolve interpersonal challenges.

It would be beneficial to be mindful of the reasons behind the previous discord between you and the other party. However, it is now possible to engage in discourse and communication on an equal footing. How did you resolve the issue?

What insights can be gained from this experience?

It can be reasonably assumed that, upon completion of the aforementioned steps, the concerns and anxieties currently experienced will no longer be perceived as significant issues.

I wish you the utmost success.

Good day. My name is Strawberry.

Given that you have disclosed your concerns to us and articulated your anxieties, it is not uncommon for individuals to experience dreams on a regular basis. This is because life presents a multitude of challenges, and dreaming serves as a means of alleviating the associated stress. However, engaging in excessive speculation about the content of one's dreams can potentially have adverse effects on one's well-being.

The dream concluded with the awakening of the dreamer by thunder. The dreamer is uncertain as to the meaning of this dream.

The act of perceiving one's own needs within the context of one's dreams can be understood as a form of introspective observation.

In the dream, the question owner dreamed that she and her child were sleeping at her parents' house. During sleep, individuals are relaxed and unsuspecting. The question owner dreamed of the familiar bedroom at her parents' house, which indicates that this place provides the question owner with a sense of security and that the bedroom allows the question owner to not worry about what might happen.

It would be beneficial to consider whether the behavior exhibited by the husband in the dream has manifested in reality, and whether the same treatment was applied to him at the time. If there is a discrepancy between the two, it suggests that the reaction in the dream represents the desired response to the husband in reality. Conversely, if there is a congruence between the two, it indicates that the questioner is weary of the prevailing pattern of interaction with their spouse and is motivated to alter it.

The questioner aspires to establish an independent residence and pursue a lifestyle of his own choosing. This is a long-held aspiration, but the prevailing circumstances preclude its realization. Consequently, the questioner has internalized this aspiration, but as a result of its repression, it has become increasingly salient. The dream narrative reflects the questioner's discontent with his current living situation.

It is recommended that communication be enhanced and that efforts be made to alter the existing circumstances.

Given the lack of clarity regarding the age of the questioner's child, it is plausible that the child is already enrolled in kindergarten. In such a scenario, it is not implausible for the questioner to pursue their desired lifestyle during their leisure time. Even if they do not intend to pursue employment, they may still engage in activities that enhance their personal growth and future prospects.

The manner in which she interacts with her husband is problematic. The issue evident in her dream is apparent to the questioner. She desires her husband to prioritize the family over work or other individuals, to be autonomous in decision-making, to avoid frequent disagreements, and to avoid feeling resentful when she sees him.

Identify an appropriate occasion to engage in a constructive dialogue with your spouse. Initiate the conversation by demonstrating active listening skills, allowing your spouse to express his or her thoughts and feelings about the current situation. Avoid the tendency to immediately express your own grievances and anger. Effective communication is essential for resolving issues. Avoid adopting an accusatory tone or expressing your emotions. Instead, employ a tone of inquiry and consultation to elicit a more constructive response.

It is important to prioritize self-care and relaxation.

Given the confusion and dissatisfaction with the current situation, it is not surprising that anger is the most common emotion in dreams. When thinking about fighting for the desired future, the bloody eye marks may represent in-laws, a husband, or even outsiders. These figures represent the greatest source of fear, as they symbolize the potential for failure in the process of fighting for one's aspirations. The presence of these pairs of eyes, which seem to laugh at the dreamer, suggests a deep-seated fear of being ridiculed or rejected in the pursuit of one's goals.

Once the emotional state has been identified, it is essential to prioritize self-care. The questioner is currently experiencing depressive symptoms, and it is crucial to identify strategies for self-relief.

It is possible to engage in physical activity even when one is at home with one's children. Many bloggers nowadays encourage their followers to exercise together. It is important to exercise according to one's abilities and to experience the sensation of profuse sweating. After exercising, it is beneficial to take a short break and then take a hot shower. This will result in a greater sense of relaxation.

In terms of sustenance, the questioner may choose to take their child to a food street, where they can observe a variety of appealing dishes. It is not necessary to consume a large quantity; rather, one can select a few items that appeal to them and satisfy their hunger at that moment. This can have a beneficial effect on one's sense of well-being.

It is recommended that one relax when feeling distressed. This may be achieved by viewing a humorous variety show or comedy. The variety show "Ace vs. Ace" is an example of such a programme. After watching the entertaining segments, the viewer will experience a greater sense of relaxation and may gain a new perspective on the subject matter.

It is imperative to prioritize self-care and acknowledge one's emotions. Only when one has achieved a state of emotional equilibrium can they embark on the journey towards attaining their desired lifestyle. It is my sincere hope that my response will prove beneficial to the questioner. Best regards,

In this dream, the act of arguing with your husband can be seen as an expression of your dissatisfaction with him. Additionally, there is an individual standing by the window, peeping in. The bottom half of the window's steel frame is missing, indicating that it would be relatively easy for someone to enter the bedroom. This could be interpreted as a manifestation of your concern that someone might attempt to invade your privacy and gain access to your bedroom in this manner.

Subsequently, the man departed silently, indicating that you adhere to your personal principles and are reluctant to allow others to intrude upon your private space.

The act of sleeping in the bedroom of one's parents' home, coupled with the aspiration to eventually move out and rent an apartment, and the tendency to engage in disputes over one's personal ideals, may be indicative of an underlying desire to break free from the constraints of one's original family and escape the demands of one's husband and in-laws.

The aunt from the neighborhood persisted in attempting to persuade you, employing a smile and urging you not to become emotionally distressed or angry. She encouraged you to value your husband, which may be indicative of an internal aspect of your personality attempting to persuade you to prioritize your relationship with your husband.

At this juncture, the dreamer was abruptly awakened by the sudden appearance of an imprint of eyes with blood and tears on the wall, accompanied by the sound of a loud thunderclap. This may be an expression of the pain the dreamer has suffered in their original family and in their current family, making the dreamer feel as though they are experiencing a great deal of pain, mixed with blood and tears, accompanied by a deep sense of guilt and the fear of being punished.

The dream may be interpreted as a reminder to attend to one's emotional state, to clarify one's relationship with one's family of origin, with one's spouse, and to strive to live one's life in a manner that is true to oneself.

I extend my sincerest sympathies.