I'm a senior and I've recently been at a loss, not in a good place. What should I do?

Hello, dear questioner! I'm absolutely thrilled to be here with you.

First of all, congratulations on your graduation! This is a very important and exciting milestone!

Regarding the state of malaise and boredom you mentioned, this is actually a very normal emotional response. After all, the sudden transition from a busy school life to a relatively free social life is an exciting one! It just takes a while to adapt and adjust.

But if you find yourself feeling bored or empty for a long time, it's time to take action!

Get a quiet room ready with some great music, then sit down and think about all the amazing things you can do in your current state of life. Free yourself from the past, from dependence on external evaluation and utilitarian goals, and ask yourself what you really want!

Ignite the fire of passion in your heart and let your dreams become a bright beacon that guides us through the fog of the unknown! It doesn't have to be a great idea—just a very, very small goal.

Then just let go of all distractions and focus on accomplishing this small goal. Even if you don't have anything you want to accomplish or achieve, you can still take the initiative to create some goals for yourself. Even if you aren't particularly interested in them at the moment, at least you'll get a sense of direction!

And the best part is, in the process of accomplishing a goal, "meaning" sometimes comes along!

Looking to the future, starting now, starting with small things—such a vision not only dispels the gloom of "doing nothing," but also plants the seed of hope in your heart! Every day is full of motivation and anticipation for moving forward.

You can do it! Come on!

Hello. You're at a turning point in your life. You spent the past few years studying on campus. Campus life has a clear plan and goal for every step: study, exams, promotion. Teachers and parents planned and scheduled, and you completed your studies according to their schedules.

The transition from school to society is very different. Individuals must make many choices, and there is "uncertainty" and "uncertainty" everywhere. If you have not yet found a job, you are even more likely to feel overwhelmed.

The confusion and low mood you feel is likely due to the discomfort of this period of transition. You also mentioned that you have a tendency towards perfectionism, which is actually a strong need for control or a low tolerance for loss of control and uncertainty.

Avoid difficulties and don't give up on attempts because you're afraid of an unsatisfactory outcome.

It's not that we don't know how to live each day. It's that we don't know how to guarantee a relatively ideal, good life. Perfectionism and idealism have benefits. They urge us to forge ahead. But they can also become obstacles. When we become too preoccupied with the ideal outcome, we are likely to be afraid of failure and not try.

To improve the current state of confusion, understand that feeling anxious about the unknown during a period of transition is natural. Don't be harsh on or deny yourself because of this. Allow yourself to slowly adapt. Accepting yourself is important because denying ourselves (including our emotions and psychological state) is exhausting and makes us afraid to do things. Thoughts like "Can I still do a good job when I'm in such a bad state?" arise when we're in a bad state. Only when I'm in a good state can I do something.

Second, adjust your perspective on life. Don't view every choice as an exam with a standard answer. See your future life as a process of exploring possibilities. Just like career development, predicting the future is difficult in today's rapidly changing era. Focus on your growth and adaptability, not on "one-step" choices.

Start incorporating some activities into your daily routine that will boost your energy. Get more active, talk to classmates or friends who like sports, and ask them about their strategies for sticking with it. If you enjoy watching movies, do that too. Write movie reviews and share them with friends.

The present moment is a valuable one. It is important to be grateful for the experiences that arise in the present.

From your description, it is evident that you are experiencing a state of confusion and a lack of agency. Let us engage in a discourse on this matter.

1. Accept the current situation.

It is to be expected that individuals will experience feelings of discomfort, confusion, powerlessness, and even doubt when they enter a new phase of their lives or adopt a different lifestyle. It is important to recognize that these emotions are temporary and are a natural part of the transition process. Whether the transition is related to future career aspirations or the pursuit of a civil service exam, it is not yet clear whether the chosen path is the most suitable or achievable. This uncertainty can lead to feelings of fear and worry, as well as doubts about one's ability to succeed.

One may temporarily adjust by engaging in activities such as watching television, sleeping, or socializing, which may not align with one's long-term preferences. However, these behaviors are indicative of the body's physiological response to stress. It is essential to recognize that this coping mechanism is employed to manage anxiety and fear about the future.

One can only redirect the energy that is expended in the fight against oneself and the hatred of one's own self by understanding and accepting oneself. This redirects the energy so that it is no longer internalized and weakened. At the same time, one gains insight into one's true desires and actions.

Such acceptance and permission allow one to discern one's authentic inner voice and needs, thereby facilitating the identification of one's true desires and the determination of appropriate courses of action. Respect for the body and its sensations fosters a deeper understanding of oneself.

2. Initiate a course of action.

Regardless of the future goals one may have, such as finding employment or passing an examination, it is imperative to take action if one wishes to overcome feelings of confusion and anxiety. Initiating action will lead to the development of confidence, a sense of stability, and direction.

Even if one reads a few pages a day and recalls a few key points, beginning with modest steps and gradually accumulating knowledge, one will eventually observe the outcomes of one's time and effort. The sense of accomplishment will motivate one to persist in moving forward. This accumulation will assist one in extricating oneself from the disorder and confusion of life, and restore a sense of planning and purpose to one's life. One can begin by setting the goal of finding a job, examining the jobs one finds appealing, identifying which of one's qualifications one has met, which one needs to prepare for, and which one needs to work hard to obtain.

As long as one is taking action, one will adjust oneself in the process, explore and discover one's own capabilities, and gain insight into one's strengths, aspirations, and desired lifestyle. Such actions will facilitate the realization of one's desired identity and future.

The act of thinking is often a source of difficulty; the act of doing, however, is the solution. Many thoughts and ideas are illusions created by the mind. It is only through action and practice that we may discover that many difficulties may not necessarily occur and that they are just an idea after all, which we may find ridiculous and absurd.

3. It is advisable to seek out resources in one's immediate vicinity.

One may seek out resources in one's immediate vicinity, consulting with individuals who have previously traversed a similar path, whether they be elders, classmates, or teachers. It is also possible to inquire about their experiences and solicit their advice. Additionally, one might inquire about their current endeavors. The responses may offer insight and guidance. The individual in question may perceive themselves as socially withdrawn and introverted, yet harbor expectations of a vast range of interests and a proclivity for frequent socialization, encompassing numerous friends and a hectic schedule.

It is essential to identify the underlying motivation for the desire to become more sociable and "extroverted." Are the primary objectives to gain access to additional resources, to obtain a clearer sense of direction, or to receive more support? If one is genuinely as extroverted as they envy, they may encounter new challenges.

The current state of being is, in fact, a deliberate choice, and in certain respects, it has also been beneficial and is in alignment with one's needs.

It is not necessary to reject oneself; rather, one should accept and like the person one is currently. It is beneficial to identify one's own merits in the seemingly mundane aspects of daily life. One should record at least three positive experiences each day, cultivate gratitude, and one's inner sense of happiness and desire to share will increase, as will one's inner energy.

It is recommended that you engage in activities that benefit those around you. This can facilitate a sense of belonging, identity, and self-worth. Additionally, it can lead to the discovery of one's abilities and resources. Participation in community groups or public welfare organizations can enhance social skills, reinforce a sense of inner value, and gradually improve inner energy. This can result in an inner sense of accomplishment, a clearer sense of one's position and direction, and the development of a more authentic self.

It is my hope that this response is of some assistance to you, and I wish you the best of luck!

First, I'll give you a hug, and then I'll share my views!

1. It's totally normal to feel a bit lost after graduation. Even people who have graduated for several years are still figuring things out. This is a period of time that everyone who doesn't have a goal for the time being will experience. During this period of time, we can think about it, and we can also try to do everything we want to do in the shortest possible time. Then, we can determine the goal that attracts us the most!

2. The economy is on the rise! While some industries are facing challenges, there are plenty of others that are eager to welcome new talent. So, let's set our sights high and give it our all! Don't let setbacks stop you — remember, every challenge is an opportunity in disguise. Our seniors always said, "As long as your thinking doesn't slip, there are always more ways than difficulties." So, when we hit a snag, let's tackle it head-on. If we need a helping hand, we can seek guidance from the amazing resources around us. Now, let's get out there and make it happen!

It's only when we challenge ourselves that we realize just how much we can achieve!

3. Once you've decided on a direction, it's time to take action and persevere! Don't give up at the first sign of difficulty. Keep going, and you'll reach the end and find yourself at the beginning of a new adventure!

I had so many ideas before, but I rejected them one after the other because I felt that they were too difficult. Just like you, I also thought a lot and didn't know what to do. My hair was falling out in large handfuls, and then I gradually began to convince myself.

You: You have no one behind you to help you, so you must be strong on your own. You don't need to think too much. Just focus on the task at hand and do it well. After that, you can worry about other things. Perhaps after this problem is solved, other problems will also be resolved.

4. You've got to take action! Even if you think about it a lot, it'll just be internal conflict. When an idea comes to your mind, put it into practice first. If it doesn't work out, find another way!

5. We used to have a full and meaningful life every day, knowing exactly what we should do every day. This was arranged by our parents and teachers. But after we graduate, we get to take responsibility for our own lives! At this time, parents and teachers can no longer make decisions for us. We get to make our own decisions and then be responsible for our own decisions and actions. It is precisely because our parents and teachers used to make definite plans for us and they covered for us, but now we get to make our own decisions and take responsibility for ourselves. Our roles have changed, and we can't adapt to it all at once, but we can do it! This is a necessary stage on our journey to maturity and society. Don't worry too much, just work hard and try. Time will give us the answer, and it'll be worth it!

Best of luck!

Hello!

First, congratulations on graduating from university! This marks the end of one stage and the beginning of another with a million possibilities. We all know the beginning is difficult, so it's natural to feel confused about your next stage.

Let's talk about this.

You say, "I've been feeling down. I get up, stay home, and go for a walk. I feel bored and dissatisfied." I want to know the details:

1. What makes you feel unsatisfied with life?

2. How do you want to live?

3. What do you want to do?

4. What do you want from life?

You are confused after college, but this is a new stage with possibilities. It's like a blank sheet of paper.

You also asked how to live, think, and act to improve your life. I can't give you an exact answer because there is no standard answer to this question.

I want to share some words that will help you decide your future path.

1. Do what you want, as long as you can.

2. Listen to others, but don't take everything they say to heart.

3. We think about difficulties because there are risks in almost everything. But there are also opportunities. If you meet a partner who appreciates your introverted personality, it will be good for you.

4. Perfectionism isn't bad if you're trying to get better.

5. Most people lack motivation before doing things, so let's focus on motivation. What interests you?

6. If you're tired, take a break before you move on. A healthy body and mind help you struggle.

7. Life is an experience. We can make plans, but we don't have to stick to them.

I hope these seven points help you overcome your internal conflict.

We'll stop here for now because of time constraints.

Take care of yourself.

Graduation can often coincide with a period of unemployment. Many people may feel uncertain about their value in the professional world, particularly if the skills and experience gained during their studies do not fully align with the requirements of the companies they are applying to. Additionally, there can be a sense of uncertainty or confusion about the expectations and anxiety associated with unemployment. This may even lead to feelings of loneliness at home, prompting a period of reflection. It's not uncommon for individuals to have excessive and obsessive thoughts about the need for external affirmation and support, as well as the desire to be seen at work and gain a sense of self-identity from work efficiency. However, it's important to recognise that by doubting oneself with harsh demands, one may not allow themselves to exist imperfectly.

If you find that you are imperfect, you may experience feelings of guilt. These feelings may be related to the expectations set by your childhood caretakers or parents, and if you feel unable to meet these expectations, you may feel condemned or belittled. Additionally, you may have formed the idea that you are not good enough to live, which may have originated from your relationship with your caretakers or parents. This can lead to doubting the value of your existence and relying on external judgment to determine your self-worth. This can make it challenging for you to see yourself as an independent individual. However, every individual is independent and is shaped by a combination of perfection and imperfection. It can be difficult to recognize your own independence and autonomy, as well as the core value of your existence. Similarly, when faced with the challenges and confusion of life, it can feel similar to the fear of not being seen and supported during childhood growth. This can make you feel like you are afraid of losing everything, including relationships. It may be a form of betrayal of willpower and a loss of the meaning of affirming your existence in real life. You may find it challenging to live in a way that is recognized by others and may feel unable to see the authenticity of your existence.

Of course, there are also different changes in real life. You might consider testing your sense of time. It's possible that you could see that this reality of unemployment is only temporary, not forever. At the same time, the two resumes you have sent may have some potential. At the same time, you might benefit from affirming and appreciating yourself, and learning about the entertainment that interests you, which includes sports entertainment and literary and artistic entertainment. You could also consider meeting more friends in different entertainment circles to experience your own value and abilities.

If you feel you need further support, you can also find a counselor or listener on the platform to accompany you in exploring the challenges of unemployment. If ambivalent attachment is just a pattern, perhaps when you accept this pattern and see more of yourself, this attachment may no longer be a shameful need, but rather a motivation that gives you more direction in life.

Hello, my dear child. I hope my answer can be of some help to you.

It's natural to feel confused during your youth. It's precisely because we're confused that we want to explore and experience. Have you ever thought about what your ideal life would be like?

Perhaps it would be helpful to consider the gap between your current life and your ideal life. What steps could you take to make your ideal life a reality?

If you find value in the idea of having a clear daily routine, you can still make your life feel that way. You can keep yourself engaged and make a list of things to do to make your life fulfilling and enjoyable.

If I might offer you a suggestion, it would be this:

If you feel there's room for improvement in your life and you're looking for ways to enhance it, it might be helpful to consider what your ideal life would look like.

You say you are not very satisfied with your life and you want to know how to improve it a little. Have you considered what kind of life you would like to have? It could be helpful to think about what you can do every day, and you can look at it from the aspects of life, work, study, entertainment, social life, family, health, etc. So, for you now, how big is the gap between your current life and your ideal life? What can you do specifically now to live the life you would like to have?

When you see this gap, it's important to believe that you can "make up the difference" through your own efforts. This is something we can all do. Like myself, five years ago, my life was relatively empty. Every day was about eating, sleeping, watching TV, and taking care of the baby. Later, I also saw what my ideal life would look like: doing the things I like, learning and growing every day, having a few close friends, a happy family, good health, and time to relax every day.

In light of these observations, I have set aside time every day for exercise and study. Whenever the opportunity arises, I participate in activities of the Psychological Counselor Association and our Yiyixinli platform that align with my interests. In the process, I have had the privilege of making close friends and experiencing personal growth. Reflecting on this journey, I am pleased to see that the life I am living now aligns with the aspirations I held five years ago. This is because at that time, I had a clear vision of the kind of life I wanted to lead. At the same time, I have striven to take tangible actions in my life, gradually accumulating them, with the hope that the process of life would unfold in a way that aligns with my aspirations.

2. Regarding socializing:

It would be helpful to consider what you hope to gain from socializing and who you could socialize with to achieve those goals.

It's not necessary to socialize just for the sake of it. This kind of socializing is often ineffective and doesn't necessarily have much meaning for you. If you socialize to gain companionship, it might be helpful to find people who can keep you company. If you socialize to gain certain information, it could be beneficial to chat and interact with people who can provide you with the relevant information. If you socialize to realize your own value, you might find it rewarding to provide help to those in need in the process of socializing.

I believe that good social interaction is about being able to offer and receive support and help in social interactions. It's about nourishing and supporting each other, and about everyone feeling a sense of belonging and value in the relationship.

3. You might consider setting yourself periodic goals. Having goals can provide a sense of purpose and direction in your daily life.

During periods when I was uncertain about my future, I found it helpful to set myself periodic goals. I tried my best at the time and focused on taking exams. For instance, I took the driver's license exam, the psychological counselor exam, the teacher certification exam, the professional pharmacist exam, the health manager exam, and the social worker exam. I discovered that exams can help us identify our daily needs.

You mentioned that you plan to take the civil service exam, so perhaps you could set yourself periodic goals and set exam goals for yourself. Having goals can help you feel like you have something to do every day. You might find it helpful to view the exam as a big goal, break this big goal into small goals, and finally implement it into what you need to do specifically every day. I found this approach useful for every exam, and it was a very fulfilling experience.

For instance, during my studies to become a psychological counselor, I made a point of reading 30 pages a day and attending three hours of classes. When it came time to take the exam, I made specific adjustments, such as how many practice tests to do and how many questions to memorize. This approach helped me to organize my life in a way that was both orderly and fulfilling. In the process, we also gain a lot of experience and accumulate support and abilities.

If you want to do it, it might be helpful to set yourself reasonable goals, start acting, and try not to worry about failure. Even if you fail, you will probably still gain something from it. It's also worth remembering that every step in life is valuable, and failure can sometimes be a stepping stone to future success.

Please feel free to refer to this information as you see fit. Wishing you the best!

It's normal to feel lost and unmotivated after graduation. This is a time when you need to make important decisions about your career and future plans. Here are some suggestions to help you through this period:

You must engage in deep thinking and self-exploration.

Take the time to reflect on your interests, values, and long-term goals. Consider your strengths and weaknesses, and what you want to achieve in your future life.

Keep a diary or do self-exploration exercises to clarify your thoughts and feelings.

Seek support and advice.

Talk to friends, family, or mentors. Share your feelings and thoughts with them. They can offer you different perspectives and suggestions.

If you need it, get professional psychological counseling or career guidance. They can give you more in-depth support and guidance.

Set short-term and long-term goals.

Set specific goals and plans in stages. Start with short-term daily tasks and work towards long-term career and life goals.

Your goals don't have to be overly specific, but they should motivate you and be achievable.

You must maintain physical and mental health.

Take care of your health, maintain a regular routine, and eat healthily. Exercise and rest are essential for restoring your energy levels.

Relax and relieve stress. Try yoga, meditation, or other relaxation techniques.

Seek out opportunities and experiences.

Take the plunge and try new things. Go for it and take on challenges. Get involved in internships, volunteer activities, or take some extracurricular studies and training. These experiences will enrich your experience and help you better understand yourself.

Accept and adapt.

It's normal to feel lost and out of sorts. Accept these emotions and trust that you will find your direction and answers in time.

Believe in yourself and your abilities. You will find your way to a bright future. The confusion after graduation is just a turning point. Think carefully and take action. You will find your path.

Hello, question asker!

It's normal to feel confused and adrift after graduating from college, especially when your future plans are unclear. I get it, so give yourself a hug!

From a psychological and life perspective, we can try the following methods to help adjust our mindset and find our way:

From a psychological standpoint,

It's important to accept your emotions. First, recognize that it's normal to feel confused, empty, and evasive. Don't be too hard on yourself. Accepting these emotions is the first step towards change.

Cognitive restructuring: You said you sometimes give up because you think about the difficulties or worry about the outcome, which might be related to your perfectionist tendencies. Try cognitive restructuring, which means re-examining these thoughts and asking yourself, "Are these concerns real?"

What's the worst that could happen? Could I accept it?

"Through rational analysis, you can get rid of unnecessary fears and anxieties.

Set small goals. Perfectionism often leads people to pursue big, all-encompassing goals, but they are often difficult to achieve, which can lead to a sense of failure. Try breaking down big goals into small ones. Each small goal you achieve will give you a sense of accomplishment and gradually boost your self-confidence.

Mindfulness meditation is a great way to reduce internal conflict and help you focus on the present. With practice, you can learn to better handle negative emotions like anxiety and fear, and improve your self-awareness.

Here are some ideas for how you can make changes in your daily life:

It's good to increase your social activities. Even if you're an introvert, social interaction is important for your mental health. You can start with an interest group, volunteering, or an online community to find people with similar interests to interact with.

Even something as simple as a walk or a coffee break can help you interact with others more.

Try new things! Watch different types of movies, read different kinds of books, or learn a new skill (like cooking, photography, or programming). This will not only enrich your life, but it might also help you discover new interests and career directions.

Keep a regular routine. It'll help you stay on top of things and improve your quality of life. Set fixed times to get up and go to bed, and make sure you get enough sleep.

At the same time, try to fit your activities into your day in a way that avoids being too idle or too busy.

If you're having trouble making adjustments on your own, you might want to talk to a psychologist or career planner. They can give you more professional advice and support to help you understand yourself better and plan for the future.

Take those "small steps" and start doing what you want, even if everything isn't ready. You can take a small step first, like signing up for a relevant course or activity, and gradually deepen your involvement.

Practice makes perfect—it can bring about more change than just imagining it.

It's important to remember that when you're feeling confused or unmotivated, it's crucial to maintain a positive outlook, be courageous in trying new things, and don't forget to prioritize your own needs. By continuously exploring yourself and putting in the effort, you'll undoubtedly find your own rhythm and direction in life.

You've got this! The world and I are rooting for you!

I graduated in my fourth year and haven't found a job yet. I recently sent in a resume, but I have no plans to take the postgraduate entrance exam. I plan to take the civil service exam instead. I'm currently in a bad mood.

You seem worried about the future.

Almost everyone feels lost when they reach a turning point in their lives. This is especially common in our fast-changing society.

You feel lost because you can't see the way forward. You want to see clearly before taking action.

But what does "see clearly" mean?

You say, "I think I prefer a life where I know what I'm doing every day." Maybe you want to be clear.

Let's look at what this kind of life is like.

A life arranged by others is one where you know what to do every day.

A student's life has a set schedule.

You're not taking the postgraduate entrance exam, but probably the civil service exam for the same reason. This kind of life is arranged by others and is certain and stable.

A life you arrange yourself is one where you know what you're doing every day.

Make your own daily schedule.

If you find something you love, you can do it every day.

Which life would you choose?

If you let others arrange your life, you'll take on less responsibility and let others take the lead.

Take charge of your life.

You're planning to take the civil service exam but haven't taken action because you don't love it. You just feel uncertain and want more certainty.

Confusion is like a fog that will dissipate, but the timing is uncertain.

The best way to face confusion is to do things, even small things.

If you wipe the table every day with all your heart, you will feel calm at the end of the day.

If you send out three resumes a day, you've succeeded.

If you find a friend to chat with every day and have a conversation of more than three sentences, you have achieved success.

For example, look for a part-time job. A friend said she was happy working as a supermarket stocker and her anxiety disappeared.

These little things can help you leave your head and interact with the real world.

Positive feedback makes you more confident.

Perfectionism can trap people in the present, planning perfect scenarios that are never executed.

You'll never see the end of it in this lifetime.

If you used to demand 100%, you can now settle for 30%. Anything above 30 is great.

While you're young, travel and read a lot. Good luck!

Hello, I understand you're confused. This is normal after graduation.

You're at a crossroads with many roads ahead, but you don't know which one to take. Seniors are in a tough spot when they graduate. They have to make choices all the time. They can't have it all.

This is the transition from school to the social environment. It is also the point of change in roles. Therefore, the questioner does not need to pay excessive attention to the opportunity points for choosing at different stages of life.

It is a necessary stage in life. We make choices and change our minds at different stages of life. We grow with each decision. It is a new starting point for becoming more mature. It involves changes in environment, role transformation, thinking, and taking responsibility.

Breathe and read on. Let's explore together!

What are the changes at this stage?

1) Changes in the environment

When you leave school, you're entering a new phase of life. You'll interact with people outside your family, including teachers and classmates who are now colleagues.

They may feel lost, confused, and unable to adapt to the new environment. They may also be influenced by their senior colleagues.

Some may not like the competition between companies, some may not like their colleagues, and some may feel pressure from their superiors. All of this is true, but it depends on the person. As long as you start with small things and take one step at a time, you will also have a foothold.

Believe in yourself and have the ability to adapt and change.

2) Role transformation

As mentioned above, moving from school to the wider social environment is a natural part of life. You will probably have to change roles many times. A good transition from one role to another will help you through major turning points.

Handle the conflict between career and social needs correctly. Then, plan by fine-tuning your goals.

3) Thinking transformation and integration

The question suggests a "student" mindset. School learning is about seeing problems and setting clear goals.

In the workplace, you may feel that what you learned in school is useless. You are often faced with problems that have unclear goals, incomplete information, and situations that are completely new to you.

There is no perfect solution. Sometimes you have to abandon your fixed mindset to succeed in the workplace.

4) Responsibility and self-maturity

Once you understand this, you will know how to make a choice. You can choose a path that you are willing to follow according to your own needs. At least we don't regret coming to the world to walk. After reaching the age of 18, you will enter a mature stage of achieving independence and realizing your self-worth. There are many factors that contribute to self-growth.

The direction and goal may be the same, but the process and steps of growth will be different. It's important to understand and communicate more, think about your strengths and weaknesses, and find a balance. It's not a good idea to study in isolation.

Next, make a short-term and long-term career plan.

A great man once said, "Practice makes perfect."

When making a career plan, think about:

First, think about what you enjoy and are good at. Look back at your time at college and think about what made you feel good.

Next, make a short-term plan. If you plan to take the civil service exam, make a study and exam preparation plan, and set aside time to review and practice.

You can also find an internship or decide which industry you want to work in. Don't be afraid to try new things.

Attend more job fairs and career talks to expand your network and understand industry trends.

Your long-term goal can be a career goal you hope to achieve within three to five years. Use your spare time to participate in activities, expand your social circle, and improve your abilities. Use resources to pave the way for long-term career goals. Try to use new social circles, things, and opportunities to serve me.

For example, a study and preparation plan for the civil service exam, with two hours of review and practice every day. You can also set the frequency and number of resumes to be submitted.

For example, try to do more social activities, manage your time better, and try to be more outgoing. Meet up with friends for coffee, a walk, or a chat. Join an interest group to make friends with people who have similar interests.

Another example: Take action to overcome concerns. Don't be intimidated by difficulties and worries. Break things down into small steps, starting with the simplest parts.

I hope this article helps young students about to graduate.

Recommended books: From School to Society, Self-Consistency, and Self-Growth. Read to learn.

I'm Peiwen. I love you, world.