Dear questioner,
I'm Sunshine, and I'm so grateful to have met you on the Yixinli platform!
I'm so grateful you brought up the topic of whether tapping therapy can really reduce stress and relieve negative emotions!
I have to say, this question from the original poster really got me thinking about EFT emotional therapy again. It really is simple and easy to do, and the key is to persevere, which I'm sure will be effective for you too!
I'm so grateful to the questioner for being so self-aware. It's because of this that they're now in a position to make changes.
I'd love to share my thoughts and ideas on this topic with you, in case they're helpful!
Hello!
Let's start by taking a closer look at the situation the questioner is describing and see if we can make sense of it together.
As the title suggests, EFT (also known as emotional freedom technique) is said to be able to help you relax and let go of negative emotions by tapping on acupressure points on the body and then loudly describing the events that caused the negative emotions.
I'm so happy to tell you all about EFT, or Emotional Freedom Technique/Tapping Therapy! It's a simple emotional therapy method that has been promoted by the Harvard Medical School and has been clinically proven to be effective.
And the best part is, it's simple and anyone can do it! All you have to do is tap the eight acupressure points on your body (hand blade, between the eyebrows, cheekbone, philtrum, chin, collarbone, armpit, and Baihui) and say a little mantra with a focused mind. It's a great way to release and relax from stressful events and negative emotions. Just set aside a few minutes to do it. It's so easy and beneficial for your body to do it every day for 3-5 rounds!
In medicine, this tapping technique is used to unblock the meridians through acupressure points. In psychology, it's all about communication between the conscious and subconscious minds. When we focus on what our subconscious mind is thinking, it can calm our inner selves and help us achieve a sense of peace of mind.
As a doctor, I would wholeheartedly recommend trying this if the questioner is willing to give it a try. It's simple and easy to implement, and I think you'll find it really helpful!
I have mild anxiety and a bit of a compulsive tendency, which, when combined with low self-esteem and internal conflict, can sometimes lead to depressive moods.
Sometimes, when we think back to some difficult times in our lives, like when we felt like our family wasn't getting along, or when we were teased at school, or even when we hurt someone without meaning to, it's only natural that we feel negative emotions.
It's possible that the person asking the question was brought up with a lot of expectations and rules. They care a lot about what other people think and when they feel like their opinions aren't accepted over time, they might start to feel like they're not good enough. This can cause a lot of internal conflict and use up a lot of energy. When there's not a good way to release emotions, it can lead to anxiety, OCD, or depression.
If you haven't been diagnosed with anxiety, OCD, or depression by a regular hospital, don't worry! It's totally normal for everyone to experience some anxiety or depression due to real-life pressures and other emotions.
The key is to be kind to yourself. When you feel an emotion, try to see it as a reminder of what's going on inside your mind and heart. Once you're aware of this, you can start thinking and acting in a new way.
I'm so happy to say that I've found a way to relieve my anxiety and other negative emotions!
I'd love to know if the validation really works! I'm not sure about things like traditional Chinese medicine that can't be fully explained through science, because acupuncture points are related to traditional Chinese medicine.
It's so true! The thoughts and actions of each of us are limited by our scope of perception. Before we act, it's so important to have a clear perception. Based on that, our thoughts arise, and then our actions follow. And then, we have the results, experiences, and feelings after our actions.
—— No emotional therapy is a cure-all, but the one that suits you best is the best therapy. I personally think that this emotional release therapy is simple to operate and has no financial cost. All you need is to calm down and focus on bringing "thoughts/ideas/longings" to self-awareness, knock down the blocks, relieve stress, unblock things, and alleviate negative emotions. In a sense, it diverts our attention, allows us to accept the feelings in our subconscious, and then live in harmony with them. In this way, change happens imperceptibly, that is, healing.
If you're still not convinced, that's okay! You can find a therapy that you truly connect with and that works for you. There are so many options out there, like exercise, mindfulness/meditation, singing, and more. As long as you're willing to give it a try, I'm sure you'll find the perfect fit. The most important thing is to be patient and persistent, and you'll get results!
Regarding "inferiority complex and internal conflict,"
Absolutely! The best way to start is with little things you can be sure of. Do three little things every day that you can handle, and get into the habit of recording them every night. Before you know it, you'll find that you can control many things that you can achieve. Starting with small things and accomplishing big things, you'll accomplish them independently, and before you know it, your confidence will return, and you'll be free from inferiority!
When we use our energy to take on the small and big things in our lives, we can decide and accomplish so much! And when we avoid getting caught up in negative emotions that drain our energy, we're giving ourselves the gift of positive energy!
– Regarding "negative emotions":
First of all, emotions are something that everyone is born with, and it is really valuable to recognize them. This is especially true when we have negative emotions, such as anger, rage, or depression. When we become aware of negative emotions, it is so important for us to learn to perceive the "truth" behind these emotions, which is to remind us of what kind of desires/thoughts we have within us.
It's okay to feel angry sometimes. We all have inner needs that aren't always being met, and that's okay! This awareness is a great reminder to pay attention to our inner expectations. It's also a helpful reminder to manage our emotions.
I hope this helps! I'm so happy I could answer your question. I really hope it helps you out. I'm sending you lots of love and support. I'm sending you all the positive vibes I can! I'm sending you lots of love and support. I'm sending you all the positive vibes I can!
I am a person of one heart, the sun, the world, and I love you so much! ?
Comments
I can totally relate to your skepticism about tapping therapy. It does sound a bit unconventional, and it's understandable that you'd want more concrete evidence before giving it a try. The idea of using acupressure points for emotional release is intriguing though, and it might be worth exploring if it could offer any relief for your anxiety.
It's important to find what works best for you when dealing with anxiety and negative emotions. Tapping therapy may not have extensive scientific backing, but some people report feeling better after trying it. If you're open to experimenting, maybe you could give it a shot and see if it has any effect on your mood or stress levels.
Your concerns are valid; the lack of scientific proof can make one hesitant. However, many therapies, even those with less empirical support, can still provide personal benefits. Sometimes the placebo effect alone can bring about significant changes in how we feel. Perhaps tapping therapy could serve as a form of selfcare that helps you focus on your feelings and potentially ease your anxiety.
Given your background with traditional Chinese medicine, I understand why you might approach this with caution. Yet, tapping into the mindbody connection, literally and figuratively, could offer an alternative way to address your anxiety. Even if the mechanism isn't fully understood, the act of acknowledging and verbalizing your emotions while engaging in a physical activity like tapping might be therapeutic in itself.
I appreciate your critical thinking regarding therapies like this. While there's no harm in being skeptical, sometimes stepping outside of our comfort zone and trying new methods can lead to unexpected discoveries. If you decide to try tapping therapy, consider it as just one tool in your toolbox for managing anxiety and negative emotions, alongside other strategies you trust.