Money in eyes only, is it okay to delete all the most perverted family members for relief?

It's hard to be born into such a family. I'm here for you.

Your family didn't care for you.

You have a sense of resistance. You didn't let others walk all over you. You took action to fight back.

Some people give up when they're in trouble. You haven't. You've fought hard to live the life you want and have your own freedom.

Think about what you want your future life to be like and fight for it! Your current family is not your real family.

You can make more friends, develop good relationships, and build your own family. You can't change your family, but you can change yourself.

You will be in a relationship of victim, perpetrator, and savior. You are the victim now, but you also took on the role of the savior at one time. When you resist, they cannot gain an advantage and become the "victim."

You can't save them. They have to save themselves. Your mother didn't leave the marriage, which has hurt you.

It was her choice.

Your brother and father are to blame, not you. You cannot save them. Live your own life!

Come on!

Hello! I send you a warm hug from afar.

I admire you for persevering and maintaining your independence, positivity, and tenacity despite having such parents and growing up in such a family.

I can understand why you feel hatred, anger, and a desire to get rid of them forever. It's important to allow and accept these emotions because they are a natural response to protect yourself when you've been hurt.

It is also important to recognize that we cannot choose our family of origin and parents. Even if they are not ideal, we cannot deny them or sever our relationship with them. Our parents are a part of our lives that we cannot control or change.

Perhaps it would be helpful to accept that you grew up in a challenging family environment and that your parents were not always the best role models. It is important to recognize that you are not the same person you were when you were younger. You have the opportunity to heal from the trauma caused by your parents and family members and to make positive changes in your life.

It may be possible to overcome the trauma of your original family through your own personal growth and develop a more positive self-image.

It is important to remember that just because you grew up in a challenging environment and had parents who placed a high value on material wealth over emotional wellbeing, it does not mean that you will necessarily become a similar person, or even an unqualified parent in the future. When you become aware of your own trauma, you have the opportunity to take control of your life.

I believe that your family of origin and parents will not become your destiny and will not affect you for the rest of your life.

Perhaps the first step is to face your parents and the circumstances of your upbringing with courage and acceptance. This can help you embrace your current self and explore ways to make positive changes.

My name is Lily, and I'm a listener for the Q&A Museum. I just wanted to say that I love you all, and I hope you have a wonderful day.

After reading your text, I am compelled to express my profound empathy for your situation. It is truly unfortunate that you have had to endure such mistreatment at the hands of those who are supposed to be your relatives.

It is noteworthy that the notion of male superiority over women persists in certain contexts.

It is difficult to comprehend how one could be expected to work at such a tender age. It is also surprising that such a young person would be so lacking in compassion.

If one were to posit that this is merely an experience in life, I would be inclined to agree. However, if one is truly compelled to provide financial support to one's family, that may be perceived as somewhat unreasonable.

The following represents my perspective, which I offer for your consideration.

It is evident that your family and you espouse disparate values. If you desire to disengage from them, you may initially inform them explicitly that you find their mode of interaction disagreeable and that you require them to alter their conduct. The decision to communicate or not is yours to make, but the manner of doing so is theirs.

As a minor, you are legally dependent on your guardians for support and guidance. While you are free to make your own decisions, it is important to be aware that your guardians may attempt to exert control in other ways.

For example, the withholding of financial support.

Secondly, it is imperative to pursue academic excellence. Only through education can one alter the trajectory of their life. Additionally, it is advisable to seek assistance from other relatives in the vicinity. Given your benevolent nature, it is likely that those who have extended a helping hand will be duly acknowledged.

It would be advisable to seek assistance from a trusted teacher. There are still many benevolent individuals in this world, and it is possible that the teacher may be able to provide guidance.

Given your relative youth and inexperience, it would be inadvisable for you to seek employment.

It is recommended that you utilize the Internet to acquire the knowledge you desire. It is never too late to begin.

I wish you the utmost success in your endeavors and eagerly anticipate receiving positive updates from you.