A 15-year-old brother smokes heavily, smoking a pack a day and borrowing money from strangers.

Hello, question asker. I can see you're feeling confused, and I'm here to give you a big hug!

I'm here for you. You're going through some family issues, and I'm sending you a big, warm hug.

I'm not sure how your brother's relationship with his parents is going.

I remember watching a really popular TV series called "The Female Psychologist" before.

In the first episode, there's a 15-year-old girl named Yuna. She comes from a well-off family.

However, she went to the convenience store near the school to steal cheap snacks, like potato chips.

Later on, the school's psychologist, Horton, had a chat with her parents and found out that they'd kept their divorce a secret from her the previous year when she was a freshman in high school.

However, the girl Yuna sensed it; so she went to the convenience store to steal snacks in order to attract her parents' attention and hope that they would get back together.

So, there's a chance that your brother might be going through something similar to what we saw on the TV show.

It's totally possible that your brother thinks that if he acts out in a way that's different from what he usually does, like smoking a lot, his parents will worry about his health and be more willing to improve their relationship.

Of course, this is just a possibility. It might not be exactly what's going on with your younger brother.

I'm so sorry if I've offended you in any way. Please forgive me.

I really hope the problem you're having gets sorted out soon.

I really hope these ideas help!

I really hope my answer helps and inspires you! I'm here for you, and I'm studying hard every day.

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Good morning, I hope this message finds you well. I just wanted to drop you a quick line to ask if you're smiling? Best regards,

After reviewing your description, I have a better understanding of the question you wish to ask. I would like to extend my support and encouragement. From your description, I can see that you still care about your brother.

You are seeking ideas on social media platforms to assist your brother.

From your description, it is evident that your younger brother exhibits rebellious tendencies and engages in behaviors that deviate from social norms. However, it is crucial to ascertain whether these traits have been present since birth. The answer is clearly no. At birth, an individual is a tabula rasa, a blank slate. The environment in which they are raised, the education they receive, and the people they interact with play a pivotal role in their development. Consequently, an individual's growth and behavior are influenced by a multitude of factors, not solely determined by their inherent characteristics.

It is therefore important to consider the underlying causes of an issue from a variety of perspectives, rather than focusing on the behaviours themselves, which may deviate significantly from social norms.

It is worth noting that children often bear the brunt of familial tensions. From the perspective of a troubled teenager, it is possible to gain insight into the dynamics of their family. It is therefore important to avoid attributing blame to the child in isolation. To provide effective support, it is essential to understand the family environment and the child's relationship with their parents. By addressing these factors, many of the challenges faced by the child can be effectively addressed.

From your description, it is evident that your brother's actions are primarily driven by a desire to attract attention and focus. While these behaviors may appear unusual to those of us who are not trained in psychology, as a professional in the field, I am able to delve deeper into the underlying motivations behind them. This allows me to understand why he engages in these behaviors rather than simply focusing on the actions themselves. Once a behavior has occurred, it is not easily altered. However, by gaining insight into the reasons behind these behaviors, I can better anticipate and regulate my child's future actions.

In this regard, I have also summarized some methods to help alleviate the current situation, with the goal of providing you with a better solution.

(1) Treat your younger brother with an ordinary heart, rather than imposing ideas that you believe to be correct in order to influence your younger brother. Instead, demonstrate an unconditional concern for his actions.

(2) It would be advisable to communicate with your brother's parents to gain insight into their approach to parenting. Even if the parents are unable to comprehend your perspective and the family environment remains unchanged, there is little you can do. It is important to remember that parents from previous generations also faced similar challenges.

(3) Adolescence can be a lengthy period of time, but it can also be relatively brief. As long as parents and the individual in question can reach a mutual understanding on certain key issues, the challenges associated with adolescence can be effectively managed.

(4) You can also communicate with your brother in moderation, but refrain from passing judgment on his actions. Instead, communicate with him as you would with a sister.

(5) Provide your brother with additional care and attention in moderation to demonstrate your continued interest in his growth and well-being.

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Best regards,

Hello, question asker! I'm so happy to answer your question. From what you've told me, it seems like your brother might have a pretty serious dependence on tobacco.

At 15, your child is going through puberty, which can be a challenging time. It's normal for their behavior to be a bit rebellious. I'm wondering, how long has your younger brother been engaging in this behavior?

I'd love to hear how your parents react to these things!

It seems like he's gone through something pretty tough in his studies or life, and he might need a little more support. If you can't get the info you need from him, it might be helpful to speak with his classmates or teachers to get a better understanding of what's going on.

From what you told me, it seems like he might have gone through some tough times. It's totally normal for teenagers to want to prove themselves at that age. It's hard for him to accept rejection from the opposite sex, so he turns to smoking as a way to cope with the pain. It's a defense mechanism that regresses to the oral stage, which is totally understandable.

Adolescents are the most sensitive and have the greatest plasticity. If they find a good counselor, clarify their self-perception, complete their self-unification of their roles, and restore their physical and mental health, they can still look forward to a happy life. I am happy to have an appointment in 1983!

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