After failing the college entrance examination, I've always wanted to retake it. The matter hasn't been settled yet, and I'm feeling very anxious.

The college entrance examination is of great consequence to each of us. During our tenure in high school, our homeroom teachers consistently emphasized that the college entrance examination has the potential to alter an individual's trajectory and influence the course of their entire life. From your inquiry, it is evident that you are facing significant challenges and are seeking genuine guidance on this platform.

Opinions are divided on the subject of repeating the year, with some parties in opposition and others in favour. Some self-media accounts have even disseminated misinformation and rumours with the intention of creating confusion among the public.

Regardless of whether you choose to retake the exam, it is important to consider the following questions: 1. Determine whether your performance was truly below expectations.

Many students utilize their poor performance on the college entrance examination as a protective measure against the negative perceptions associated with such results. Even after entering university, they may still encounter classmates who continue to reference their poor performance on the college entrance examination.

The rationale behind this assertion is primarily to disguise the fact that their college entrance exam results were not as strong as they would have liked. Therefore, the decision to retake the exam should be based on a clear assessment of whether there was a genuine deficiency in performance.

For instance, if your typical mock exam scores have consistently been in the 400s, and your college entrance exam score is in the 450s, this is not indicative of underperformance. Similarly, if your typical score is in the 600s, and your college entrance exam score is in the 590s, this is also not considered underachievement.

A significant decline in performance on the college entrance exam is indicated by a substantial discrepancy between the candidate's usual score and their exam score. In such cases, the option to retake the exam is available, and the impact on the candidate's overall score is likely to be substantial.

The primary cause of suboptimal performance on the college entrance examination is a lack of foundational knowledge. For students with inadequate foundational skills, there is significant room for improvement, and a one-year course of study is sufficient.

If you wish to repeat the year, it is essential to have a clear understanding of your own capabilities and to be able to ascertain whether your college entrance examination score has reached its limit. What is your objective?

It is important to determine the extent of the gap between the current performance and the desired outcome. Some students are questioning the rationale behind repeating the year.

Ultimately, the answer to this question depends on the result. Therefore, the real significance of repeating the exam lies in whether you can demonstrate tangible progress.

It is important to ascertain your objective for the college entrance examination and to evaluate the extent to which your current capabilities align with this goal.

If this is too challenging, it may not be a realistic option, and you should consider whether repeating the year is a worthwhile investment. Secondly, you should assess your ability to afford the cost of repeating the year.

In addition to the financial implications, there are also time and mental costs to consider. It is important to recognize that there are numerous variables that could influence the outcome of repeating a year.

Therefore, before repeating a year, it is essential to consider all the implications. To put it frankly, you must have the courage and conviction to "burn your boats and fight to the death." You should give yourself another chance, even if you fail, as you will have no regrets.

I hope this information is useful to you.

Hello, questioner!

It's clear you're eager to repeat the year, but your family wants you to enter society ASAP to share your mother's life pressures. The stalemate between the two sides has caused you a lot of distress, but I'm confident we can find a solution that works for everyone!

✅From your description, I can feel the strength within you. You are so strong! Although no one in your family supports you in taking the exam again, your determination remains. Keep this enthusiasm and let's figure something out together.

✅ It's totally normal to feel angry and resentful when you're facing family opposition. Everyone wants support, not opposition! So first, find a way to let off steam – exercise, play games, vent with friends, sing, read a book, whatever you like – anything to relax a bit.

Then, take a deep breath and start thinking about how you can work with your parents and elders to come up with a solution. You can start by talking to the people in your life who are the most supportive and friendly. They can be your allies in the future, helping you to navigate conversations with others. This is a great way to start!

Your teachers and classmates can also be your good teammates!

[Grandma's family] is eager to help you reduce the financial burden. If you're ready to face the challenge of repeating the exam and determined to try again no matter what the result, then show a firm attitude. You can absolutely find a way to make it work financially. Ask the school about the fees for repeaters, which are generally not higher than the current fees. You can work hard and study at the same time in college, and you can also take out loans to pay for your studies. This can all be solved!

✅ "My mother has a bad temper and is in a bad psychological state. I have always tolerated this, thinking that it would not affect the college entrance exam."

I bet you've done so much for her and put up with so much, but in the end, it affected your college entrance exam, which is really saddening.

So if you get the chance to repeat the exam, how are you going to reduce the influence of your mother on you in the future? Think about it! There are so many possibilities. You could ask a doctor or other professional for help. Or you could ask a relative like your grandmother. She could help you share the task of caring for your mother. This way, you could devote more time and energy to studying!

I'm so excited to share my thoughts on the things you've described! I really hope they'll be helpful for you. You've got this! And remember, you're not alone on this journey. Sending you all the best wishes!

Hello. I've taken the college entrance exam and received tutoring. Here's what I think:

Don't worry about your grandmother's family. Calm down, find a time and place, and talk to your mother. Mothers love their children.

If you and your mother talk, you might find something you didn't notice before. I used to think my dad was impatient and couldn't handle family relationships. I hated him.

I realized he was just the same, but I saw how much he loved me. I think your mother is the same, except some of her love is beyond our perception.

Sometimes we only see the surface of things. Wait until you've talked to them before you decide if they support tutoring.

Everyone lives for themselves, never for others. That's what they think.

But you have to understand yourself. I think everyone is selfish.

"Follow your own path and let others talk!" Don't lose yourself because of what other people think.

Don't worry about what others think. Just be yourself.

The college entrance exam is our gateway to success. We will face different pressures than usual. Have you thought about tutoring?

The tutoring process is hard. Have you thought about whether you want to do it?

I support going to cram school, but it can be hard without family support. If you've already made a decision, I'll support you either way.

I support you no matter what you decide!

(Let me know if anything's wrong.)