Does focusing on yourself seem cold and selfish?

The question itself is invalid, and there is no apparent necessity between the two. It is important to note that focusing on oneself does not necessarily mean being indifferent and selfish.

The starting point and position of everything is inevitably one's own. No one acts and reacts according to someone else's thoughts. Even if they are forced or required to do so, it is a process of weighing the pros and cons and choosing a decision that is beneficial to oneself or one that one submits to.

Forced relinquishment of a million is tantamount to an outcome that is more distressing and intolerable than the loss of a million if one does not relinquish.

Affection for another individual is analogous to animosity; it is also an emotional necessity of the self, with attention never being redirected.

It is possible that the object of attention is external and ever-changing, and that in a particular thought there seems to be no self. However, it is important to remember that the object of all your attention, thoughts, ideas, etc., is just an object, and that the subject of everything is yourself.

Your actions may appear to be selfish, but they are driven by a genuine need to prioritize your own needs and interests. Similarly, your demeanor may seem indifferent, but it is a reflection of your ability to maintain a detached and objective perspective. Finally, your enthusiasm may be perceived as selfless, but it is a testament to your commitment to pursuing goals and objectives that align with your values. While the object of your attention may shift, the underlying motivation and your self-awareness remain constant.

It is not necessary to focus on external factors, but it is important to be mindful of your own thoughts and actions.

I extend my best wishes for your happiness.

Good morning, my name is Gu Yi. I am modest and self-effacing, and I strive to maintain a consistent demeanor.

Does focusing on oneself appear to be a detached approach?

Dear Questioner, I believe it is challenging for anyone to provide a definitive answer to this question, as it is based on individual values. It is important to ensure that your values align with your choices.

Individuals will have different responses to this question. As ordinary individuals, we focus on ourselves, constantly improving our skills and becoming better and better. This is not apathy.

However, the roles we play in different situations are different, and our roles will require us to pay attention to the public and to others. Just like various public officials, they need to adopt a broader perspective in order to perform their duties effectively.

I would like to offer some advice:

Prioritize your own development and focus on your strengths. Consider your long-term objectives. If your goal is to become a valuable contributor, then the process of self-improvement is a crucial aspect of achieving that goal.

Your ability to focus on yourself and not on the feelings of those around you is also dependent on your personal capabilities. If your capabilities allow you to become a better person, you can help others when you can. If your capabilities are limited to making yourself better, you can maintain your current state.

The specific requirements and terminology associated with different positions allow us to gain a clear understanding of our own capabilities. While diverse perspectives and interpretations are valuable, it is essential to align our actions with our personal insights. Best regards,