Does watching porn really help sex life and promote the relationship between the two?

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It is my view that watching porn can be beneficial for a couple's sex life and relationship. After all, sex is also a very important aspect of our lives, and it is almost as important as eating. The ancients said, "Food, sex, and color are also."

This should be sufficient to demonstrate the significance of sexual intimacy in our lives. The renowned psychologist Sigmund Freud once posited that libido (or the sex drive) represents a fundamental driving force in our existence.

This suggests that sex is an important aspect of our individual lives.

I believe that our generation's differing attitudes towards sex may be influenced by the fact that we have been brought up with the idea that sex is shameful and lowly, and that it should not be discussed at the dinner table. However, I feel that this may not be entirely accurate.

I believe that sex itself is beautiful, and that the restrictions placed upon it by society are akin to shackles. Rather than developing prejudices about sex and perceiving it as a negative aspect of life, it would be more beneficial to discuss the numerous advantages it offers.

In this regard, I have also summarized some ways to help alleviate the current situation, in the hope that they will be of some assistance to you.

(1) It might be helpful to relax, take things slowly, and avoid putting too much pressure on yourself. This could help to make the current self feel more comfortable.

(2) It might be helpful to try to go with the flow, that is, to follow your heart and develop in your own way, rather than setting too many rules for yourself. You might find it beneficial to be brave and break these rules, as this could give you more options.

(3) You are very good, and perhaps it would be beneficial to maintain your expectations of your partner at a reasonable level, even after a divorce. It is possible that there will always be someone who loves you, but it may take a while.

(4) It might be helpful to try to go with the flow of your thoughts, rather than repressing those you have defined as wrong. It's possible that these evaluations are self-defined, rather than just thoughts in and of themselves.

(5) You might consider talking to your friends, expressing your thoughts and feelings, and further releasing some repressed thoughts and feelings.

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"I have always been torn between the question of whether or not girls should watch porn. Is a girl who watches porn sexually aggressive?"

And the big question: how often is better for the relationship? Is premarital sex advisable?

"What kind of foreplay would be better?" I feel that the questioner is on an incredible journey of discovery, exploring a multitude of possibilities.

From another perspective, it can also be said to be an exciting problem, the problem of "sex."

In the questioner's imagination, does the above problem have a "standard answer"? If you do it according to the "standard answer," it'll be a wild ride!

Maybe not?

If there are multiple standard answers, or if the questioner determines the standard answer, what could they be? I'd love to hear what the questioner thinks a "standard answer" could be!

I am a Christian, and we have a different perspective on premarital sex.

But I also feel that it is difficult for boys and girls of this age not to have sex together, and I think that's a great thing!

Although I am divorced, I am now more conflicted. I'm excited to see what the future holds! I'm afraid that if I don't feel right about changing boyfriends, I will pay more attention to the matter of having sex.

I also have a lot of doctrinal struggles, but I'm excited to learn more!

I didn't care much about this issue in my first marriage, and we lived together before marriage. But now I'm excited to care more about it! I'm committed to following these rules and I'm confident that I'll meet true love.

Perhaps the questioner believes that his previous marriage failed because he didn't adhere to the teachings. He's determined to find "true love" and not "repeat the same mistake" (divorce again). This time, he's going to "adhere to the teachings" – to never have premarital sex!

But the reality is that "the guys I meet are more active in this area," and this seems to be an unavoidable part of getting married—and it's a great thing!

From the question "Should girls watch porn?," it's clear that the questioner has a need in this area. It's just not convenient to be so straightforward — yet!

From the title of the question, it seems that you've already overcome the issue of whether or not you can have sex before marriage. The exciting new challenge for you is how open you need to be about sex and how much satisfaction you allow yourself to get without being punished.

Your sexual life is a very personal matter that involves many internal dynamics. This is an exciting issue for you to explore and discover more about yourself and your destiny!

I'm thrilled to have been of service! I really hope my reply has been helpful. Wishing you all the best!

Hello! From your description, I can see that you have some doubts and struggles about sex. Let me share my understanding of sex, and I hope it will be inspiring to you!

# Should girls watch porn? Absolutely! It's a great way to explore your sexuality and discover what you like. And if you watch porn, it's probably a good sign that you're a girl with a high sex drive!

I'd love to know the best way to have foreplay!

I think these three questions are about the amazing cognitive level of sex itself!

The age of 34 is a great time for physical maturity, and energy and physical strength are at their peak! In addition to the reproductive function, sex is also a spiritual enjoyment given to humans by the Creator. The presence of needs and desires indicates that your body is functioning normally and your mental state is good—it's a wonderful time in your life!

When it comes to porn and foreplay, I think it's an amazing way to explore your own sensory preferences and feelings about interactions between the sexes. It's a unique pleasure that belongs only to you! Everyone's preferences are different, and that's a wonderful thing.

But sex is not everything in life! There are so many other amazing things to enjoy. Loving your body, feeling loved with awareness, and enriching your life at the same time are the keys to a happy life.

# Is premarital sex advisable? I'm a Christian, and we don't advocate premarital sex, but I also feel that at this age it's hard for boys and girls not to have sex together. Although I've been divorced, I'm more conflicted now, afraid that I won't feel right changing boyfriends, and I'll pay more attention to having sex. I also have a lot of doctrinal conflicts, and I feel that it's hard to do. In my first marriage, I didn't really care about this issue, and we lived together before marriage, but now I care more, because I'm worried about getting divorced, so I'll follow these rules more closely, thinking that this way I'll meet true love. The boys I meet are more active in this regard, and I don't know how long a relationship I should have before considering marriage.

This question is related to the fascinating relationship between sex and religious beliefs.

I may not be religious, but I'm open to revering the sacred! I do see a bit of a conflict between the commandments in the teachings and secular life, but after Martin Luther's Reformation, God isn't represented by the church anymore. Instead, God dwells in everyone's heart!

I truly believe that having a sincere heart towards oneself is more important than following external forms. One's choices are great as long as they are not malicious and do not go against one's conscience!

And don't forget to take those all-important hygiene precautions to avoid anything that might offend your moral or ethical sensibilities, avoid hurting each other's feelings, and just be responsible for yourself!

# How often should two people have sex to maintain a healthy relationship?

This question is about the fascinating relationship between sex and love!

Maintaining a relationship is an exciting, multifaceted process that includes sex! Sexual harmony, mutual attention in life, shared values, tolerance of each other's differences, and mutual honesty when problems arise are all necessary for maintaining a relationship—and they're all worth it!

As for frequency, I think it also varies from person to person, and even the same two people may not necessarily have the same frequency. But here's the good news: if you can pay attention when your partner is in need and express your needs actively, I believe the two of you will find a "common rhythm."

And finally, remember that when Professor Fang Gang taught a course on sex psychology, he recommended an incredible book: "Understanding Sexology." It's a game-changer! It'll help you break through all kinds of sexual taboos, fears, prejudices, and hypocrisy, and directly address the most authentic human sexual image. If you want to learn more about sexual phenomena, this book is a must-read!

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