He was very enthusiastic when he first pursued me, but this time it angered me, and he hasn't contacted me since he returned.

Hello! I'd like to extend a warm hug from afar to you.

It's possible that you may feel a sense of loss and helplessness in the relationship when your need for love and affection is not being met in a way that you feel is satisfactory.

From your description, it seems that the boy's behaviors made you feel uncomfortable and hurt, especially the lack of feeling loved. At that moment, you may have chosen to suppress and hide your true feelings. Perhaps you did not say honestly and bravely what you were really feeling at that moment, and how you longed to be treated. It seems that you let him realize that his behavior deeply hurt you. It might be helpful to try to realize what you are afraid of and what you are worried about behind suppressing and hiding your true feelings.

If you truly wish to continue the relationship, it may be helpful to consider being honest and open with your partner, especially when you feel uncomfortable. It's important to communicate your feelings and expectations clearly, as suppressing or hiding your emotions can lead to unmet needs and relationship challenges.

It would be beneficial to be aware of your emotional feelings in order to accurately express them. If you experience uncomfortable feelings, it may help to stay with those emotions and take deep breaths. You could also try keeping an emotional diary to help you understand your emotions better and become more aware of your feelings.

My name is Lily, and I'm the little ear of the Q&A Museum. I hope you'll accept my love for you and the world.

Is this an individual you have recently encountered?

It would be unwise to become overly involved with a man you have only recently met. There is no way of knowing his background or values, so it would be prudent to proceed with caution.

It is unwise to be unduly influenced by a man's initial enthusiasm. He will undoubtedly treat you well in order to gain your attention and pursue a relationship with you. However, this kind of behaviour is not exclusive to you and is driven by his own self-interest.

It is inadvisable to evaluate a man based on his verbal statements alone. His actions are a more reliable indicator of his character. If he genuinely cares for you, he will not cause you distress; he will bring you joy.

If you cool off after a few days of not contacting him, then allow the situation to return to equilibrium. Your relationship is immature and unreliable, so it is advisable to adopt a flexible approach.

If circumstances align, opportunities will arise.

In any relationship, including romantic relationships, it is essential to present your best self.

The optimal self is not one who makes excessive demands, is not attached to people or things, does not dwell on choices, accepts themselves, and believes in themselves. When these conditions are met, the optimal self is one who is open to the possibilities of growth and change.

It is important to have an optimistic outlook and to believe that everything is the best arrangement.

It is important to recognize that every experience, whether positive or negative, has the potential to teach us something valuable. When faced with challenges such as job loss or relationship breakdown, it is essential to seek out the positive aspects and recognize the lessons they offer. Having the wisdom to recognize these lessons is crucial for personal and professional growth. When we cannot see the essence, it is important to believe that everything is the best arrangement.

As long as you maintain awareness and mindfulness on a daily basis, with positive energy, you will attract positive outcomes.

Please accept my best wishes for a speedy recovery.