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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
Hello! You mentioned that your daughter was wronged when she was young. I'm really interested to know how you feel about this now. Have you ever found out what happened?
It's so important for parents to listen to their children and understand their feelings. When parents ignore their children's feelings, it can be really harmful to the child.
First of all, the child will feel that their parents don't trust their feelings, and not only don't support them, but accuse them of doing the wrong thing. This is a great opportunity for parents to show their child that their emotional needs are important! If parents take the time to listen to their child and show them that they care, the child will be more likely to confide in them in the future.
As a result, the child will have the chance to experience a whole range of new emotions, including loneliness, helplessness, fear, anxiety, and anger towards their parents.
Second, children's voices may be repeatedly ignored by their parents. This is an excellent opportunity for parents to listen to their children and learn more about their needs. If a child complains that their parents are not doing enough, parents can ask their child what they need and whether there is anything they can do objectively.
When a child says they are sick and need to see a doctor, it means that they are aware that something is wrong with their emotional regulation, that their emotions are out of control, and that they don't want this. She has repeatedly asked her parents for help, but they don't seem to take it seriously?
As a parent, it's so important to take a moment and think about what you think when your child says they are sick. What would you do if your child said they had a cold or a fever?
If your child says they may be depressed, how would you react differently? You can do it! You can show your child that you respect them by giving them the love they need.
Finally, I suggest that parents have a good talk with their children to understand what they are thinking, what problems they are encountering, and if they should see a doctor or seek psychological counseling. It's so important to prioritize a child's physical and mental health! What do you think?
I wish you all the best! Have an amazing day!
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I can't believe how my dad reacted back then. It's like no one understood what I was going through in fifth grade. Every time I feel upset now, I just want to retreat and pretend I'm sick because talking never helps.
It's so hard to open up when the person you turn to for support makes you feel worse. That's why I stopped sharing my problems with my parents. I've learned it's better to keep things inside than risk being blamed again.
Sometimes I wonder how different things could have been if my father had listened and supported me instead of blaming me. Now, whenever emotions get too much, I say I'm ill because I don't know how else to deal with it.
Feeling misunderstood by my own family has made me question everything. I used to think my parents should do more, but now I realize that expecting them to understand is just setting myself up for disappointment.
The bullying left a mark on me that won't fade easily. My dad didn't help when I needed him most. Now, as I grow older, I find it easier to cope by pretending to be sick rather than facing the emotional turmoil.