How to adjust yourself when afraid of interacting with classmates with bad tempers?

It's time to regain your confidence!

It's totally normal to worry about how to please others, to be afraid of saying too much and losing out, and to be afraid of compromising. It's so easy to live in the eyes of others!

You are you, a perfectly existing independent individual. It's so easy to get caught up in trying to please others, but remember, you're not responsible for how they act.

It's totally normal to lack confidence in interpersonal relationships. After all, no one can please everyone, and that's been the case since ancient times! Some people think you're amazing, while others don't see your worth.

This is the truth, my friend. You just have to accept it, then slowly change your way of thinking, regain your self-confidence, and be yourself again. It's really important!

It's okay if you don't fit in! We all come from different backgrounds, and that's totally normal.

Everyone has their own unique personality, and if your inner and outer worlds aren't perfectly aligned, that's totally okay! Inner abundance often leads to outer abundance. Having ideals and pursuing them with determination in your heart is so important. And on the path of pursuing the truth, even if you're alone, you'll never feel lonely.

Hey there! I just wanted to encourage you to raise your dreams and light up your life. You've got this!

It's so sad when people are confused, torn, or indecisive. It's also sad when people feel inferior, introverted, or afraid to speak up. But it's so important to remember that having dreams can help us overcome these challenges!

Dreams are so important! They help us see the future and keep us from getting lost along the way.

Grab hold of what you want, find your dream, and let that dream support your soul. From then on, you'll be filled with joy and peace. You'll no longer feel lonely or afraid, and you'll be able to tune out the noise of others' opinions. You'll hear only the beautiful sound of the trumpet in your heart.

Come on, my friend!

I'm sending you lots of love and blessings!

Hello, I'm Gu Yi. I'm modest and self-effacing, but I'm also confident and assertive.

You have a lot of fears and worries, and that's okay. You need to learn to be confident in yourself.

College students come from all over the country, and people from different places carry the cultural imprints of different regions. Children from different family backgrounds have their own advantages and worries. It is undeniably challenging to integrate into such a complex and ever-changing environment.

Most students have these kinds of problems, so there's no need to worry about yourself. The quality of your relationships is determined by the force of your own magnetic field. You attract the kind of people into your life that you are.

You will slowly eliminate those circles in which you don't fit in and don't get along.

Don't be confused on the road to making friends.

I will be a bit withdrawn, I am a bit afraid, and I am prepared to face the possibility of being wronged. I am prepared to face the possibility of being hurt by the other person's emotions in their speech.

Don't be afraid of not being able to react quickly enough to let your emotions out and express them naturally. Don't be afraid of feeling aggrieved and suffering later.

You need to know the following about these issues:

1. Everyone has emotions, but you don't need to worry about the ones that have nothing to do with you. Learn to distinguish between emotions.

2. People don't always have conflicts with each other; they can also be happy. Most of the interpersonal relationships in college are actually not that bad. Meet and face them with confidence, and you won't necessarily be wronged.

3. Read more books if you have the time. The university years are the best time for us to learn, and it is also the fastest and best way to improve ourselves. Those who do not share the same values will not get along, and there will be no harm.

4. The country you build for yourself is the only one that matters. Have confidence in yourself. We are all students here, and no one has an attitude that says they are better than you. Face everyone with an open mind and you will see that it is actually a very interesting thing.

Best wishes.

Hello, classmate. I can see you're feeling a bit confused right now. I'm here to support you in any way I can!

It seems you may be experiencing some interpersonal issues. I'm sending you a warm hug to help you through this.

It's possible that you may have had a negative experience with a fellow student in your current residence hall.

You are hesitant about moving to another dormitory, and you are concerned that you may still encounter students with bad tempers.

You may find it helpful to seek the support of the school psychologist, who can provide guidance at no cost.

You may find it helpful to speak with the school psychologist about how to move forward from the challenging experience you had with the temperamental classmate.

Otherwise, there is a possibility that you may experience the same situation again in the future.

It would be beneficial to address this challenging situation in order to treat both the symptoms and the root cause.

If there is no school psychologist available, you may also wish to consider seeking the help of a professional counselor.

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I hope my answers above will be helpful and inspiring to you. I am here to serve as a resource and I study hard every day.

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