How to deal with feeling embarrassed when accepting others' kindness?

Hello! From your description, I can tell you're feeling a bit confused and helpless, but I'm here to help!

I'm a counselor, and I'm thrilled to share my insights from a psychological perspective.

Your question is: My friend is very caring, and every time I go to his house, he gives me food and drinks. But I don't seem to have given him anything in return. How should I repay him?

You and your best friend get along really well, and he is always there for you. So, when you go to his house, what do you think?

I'd love to know more about your relationship with your best friend!

In the wonderful world of interpersonal communication, some relationships are based on material foundations and some are based on mutual assistance. For example, a person who is always helping their classmates who study medicine when they are sick or uncomfortable will show their gratitude when this classmate goes to their hometown. Giving some specialty products from their hometown is a great way to show your appreciation!

Your relationship is also a great way for you to let your good friend connect with you. Be grateful for what you have received! If you also feel a little guilty, you can also bring some specialty products from your hometown or some gifts as a courtesy when you go to his house. Friendly interactions are also interactive, so have fun with it!

But how do you feel about your friend's enthusiasm? Here, perhaps, are some of his character traits, his hospitality, and perhaps some relationship patterns he is expressing.

You've already picked up on it, and you can share your thoughts on the matter. This way, you can keep your mutual relationship going strong and make it last even longer! However, if his approach makes you feel uncomfortable,

You can also politely decline, which is a great way to show your awareness and reflection on your own state in the relationship!

The world and I love you! You can do this. Learn to love yourself, understand yourself, and accept yourself. This will help you handle interpersonal relationships better and be true to yourself. You've got this!

Hello.

I've always asked for but never given. I feel guilty and embarrassed. I don't know how to repay you.

Your friend is generous and caring. It's a blessing to have such a friend.

We repay friends based on their needs.

If you invite me to a meal, I have to return the favor.

If he needs help, you can help. It depends on what he needs.

It's not about the value of the gift. It's about thinking of your friend and making them happy.

You know how to be grateful.

It is more blessed to give than to receive. When we give, we prove that we can love and share love. We can also help others with money.

Your friend invites you to dinner and brings you gifts. This shows he is doing well and has the ability to give. It also makes you feel great.

It is happy to help others feel cared for and warm.

One gives, the other is grateful. Your friendship will last.

Good luck!