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How to view the online harassment of the Shanghai girl who gave 200 yuan in gratitude to the rider?

1. thank you 2. delivery man 3. cyberbullying 4. suicide 5. pandemic 6. good deed 7. crisis 8. assistance 9. malice 10. vulnerability
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How to view the online harassment of the Shanghai girl who gave 200 yuan in gratitude to the rider? By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024

On April 6th, a girl offered a delivery man 200 yuan as a thank you for spending over four hours delivering meals to her deaf father. Instead, she was cyberbullied. Eventually, unable to bear the pressure, she jumped off her own balcony.

Why is it that something that would usually be considered a good deed is being attacked during this pandemic?

How do you view this incident?

Why, during this time of crisis, does the helplessness and vulnerability of those seeking assistance attract so much malice?

Paul Frederick Richards Paul Frederick Richards A total of 7355 people have been helped

Dear Question Asker, I am honored to have the opportunity to respond to your inquiry. I was deeply disheartened to learn of this unfortunate turn of events.

The individual in question has perished, yet the perpetrator remains unprosecuted. In the context of an avalanche, each individual flake of snow is convinced of its own innocence.

In ordinary circumstances, this behaviour would likely be met with widespread approval online. However, in the context of the ongoing pandemic, netizens have instead chosen to condemn this girl, a development that is cause for concern. What are the specific reports that have been made online?

The online reports did not accurately reflect the circumstances surrounding the incident. While the majority of individuals were confined to their homes due to the epidemic, the boy in question was able to order takeout and receive delivery services despite being underage. Moreover, he was able to do so with the benefit of special privileges. During a period when many were struggling financially, he still had the means to tip the delivery boy 200 yuan as a gesture of gratitude.

As Confucius observed, "It is not scarcity that causes worry, but rather lack." In a crisis, privilege and injustice are magnified infinitely. This also demonstrates that there are significant shortcomings in Shanghai's anti-epidemic work. For instance, the former residents of Fengcheng lacked clarity regarding the household supplies they had stocked up. Additionally, there was an insufficient reserve of distribution forces after the lockdown, and there was no designated individual to distribute emergency supplies to residents. Furthermore, the responsibilities and rights of epidemic prevention personnel and volunteers were not clearly delineated.

Radio and television stations abstained from broadcasting any radio or television programs during the epidemic, thereby failing to provide a much-needed source of emotional relief for those in home isolation.

Let us consider the motives of these individuals from the perspective of keyboard warriors. It is likely that the majority of these individuals are ordinary people with low social status, situated at the lower end of the social spectrum in their offline lives. Their circumstances are both exasperating and pitiful.

In the offline world, they lack a voice. They are affected by negative emotions throughout the day and experience significant internal pressure. However, the girl's message of rewarding the delivery boy 200 yuan became the catalyst for their anger. In the online world, they are not subjected to the same accusations as in the offline world. In line with the principle of not blaming the masses, they directed their accumulated frustration towards the girl. This opportunity satisfied the infringement motivation of the punishment foot, and their behavior was a natural consequence.

It is my view that psychologists and counselors have a responsibility to play their part in combating the current epidemic. During this period of heightened tension, it would be beneficial if the majority of counselors and psychologists were to volunteer online to assist in the management of emotions and stress levels among protest workers in epidemic areas and individuals in home isolation. This would help to maintain positive mental health and facilitate cooperation with the country's anti-epidemic efforts. I am available for an appointment. 1983 The world and I love you!

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Yolande Smith Yolande Smith A total of 8890 people have been helped

Hello! I'm thrilled to have this opportunity to discuss this topic with you.

?1. Internet violence

? 1. Cyber-violence

The most powerful weapon in the world is the moral guardians' verbal gunfire!

The most powerful weapon in the world is the moral guardians' verbal gunfire. It kills without bloodshed!

Words can sometimes become weapons that penetrate deeper and more sharply into people's hearts. But remember, before passing judgment, a self-righteous sense of justice is the most terrible illusion of all!

The book "The Crowd" talks about how the masses have never truly thirsted for truth. But here's the exciting part: in the face of evidence that does not suit their tastes, they will turn a deaf ear. That's right! Anyone who can provide them with illusions can easily become their master. And anyone who disillusion them will become their victim.

The book "The Crowd" talks about how the masses have never truly craved truth. They'll turn a deaf ear to evidence that doesn't suit their tastes! Anyone who can provide them with illusions can easily become their master. Anyone who disillusion them will become their victim.

Guo Degang once said, "People need to vent in a cyber world where there are no consequences." It's a great way to let off steam! But it's also a reminder that we're all vulnerable and sad sometimes.

?2. The fascinating pitfall that the brain also falls into: the "conj

? 2. The fascinating pitfall that the brain also falls into: the "conjunction fallacy"!

And now for something really interesting! It's a common phenomenon that the more details and content there are, and the more people say something is true, the more likely it is to be true. It's a fascinating example of the conjunction fallacy

The brain is amazing! It thinks that the more detailed the description of an event, the higher the probability of its occurrence. But here's the catch: the opposite is true.

But here's the catch: every detail added makes the probability of the event happening lower and lower. The more information there is, the greater the probability of it happening. This is the fascinating "conjunction fallacy."

We can so easily fall into the trap of false news! False stories are carefully crafted and rich in content. Because they are full of details, we easily believe that such false news is true.

And guess what? Rumors are the same! As the rumor spreads, each person who spreads it will unconsciously embellish it, and the richer the rumor becomes, the more believable it will seem.

Guess what! Most people will become a factor in the "conjunction fallacy" because everyone will add some details. When you hear more people say something, you'll feel that it's more credible!

Do you know that in this world, "the majority of people are a rabble, and only a few are awake"—from "The Rabble"?

For us, it's important to be aware of the pitfall of the conjunction fallacy. When we hear most people saying something, we should be vigilant. It's not true that the more details and content there are, and the more people say something is true, the more we think it is true. We can avoid this pitfall by being aware of the conjunction fallacy.

?3. Lack of security

And now for something really exciting!

And the best part is, you can take control of your life and make it better!

Online violence never stops, but under the pandemic, people have no fear. This is also related to a lack of security, which means there's an opportunity for positive change!

When a person lacks a sense of security, they often unconsciously take control of the people around them, especially the weak, to make others do things according to their wishes, and even control other people's lives. They often use the excuse of "it's for your own good" to control others, but in fact they just want to make themselves feel safe.

Online violence and violent communication are undoubtedly a kind of [self-defense mechanism] adopted by these insecure people. They use derogatory and abusive language to others (especially those weaker than them) to enhance their sense of value.

And it also reminds us of the importance of staying away from violence and rumors. In this world, everyone contributes a little bit of positive energy. Even if it is a weak light, it will illuminate every corner!

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Silas Rodriguez Silas Rodriguez A total of 8851 people have been helped

Hello, question asker.

Upon reading this morning's news, I was overcome with a profound sense of sadness. In the article about the woman who jumped off a building, another individual commented, "How fragile reality can be for others. It's important to remember that not everyone is inclined to embrace positive actions."

I must admit that I was previously unaware that online violence was a problem that had only arisen during the pandemic. Given the challenging circumstances of this critical period, it is perhaps understandable that some people have resorted to expressing their negative emotions in this way. A Shanghai woman originally wanted to express her gratitude to the delivery boy, but was unfortunately subjected to constant criticism from some individuals who seemed to have little else to occupy their time. I believe that the majority of people were deeply troubled by this turn of events.

The ongoing situation in Shanghai has understandably caused some concern and anxiety, particularly when combined with the extended period of home confinement. It's not uncommon for our mental clarity to be affected when we're unable to leave our homes as usual. It's unclear if the tragic incident involving the woman was the result of online violence or something else. I'd like to take a moment to acknowledge that life can be challenging. It's important to learn ways to protect yourself and find sources of support. It's also worth remembering that there are many more people in the world who love and care about you than those who may seek to cause you harm.

How might we best regulate our mood during the epidemic, and how might we best protect ourselves when encountering problems?

It might be helpful to consider adjusting your mindset and striving to be a good person.

We are all capable of being bad to others sometimes. It is therefore important to learn to adjust your mentality, be a good person, and protect yourself through legal means when appropriate.

It may be helpful to communicate with someone in a timely manner when you encounter a problem.

It may be helpful to communicate with family members or a counselor when we encounter difficulties. Sometimes, we may not be able to relieve ourselves from negative emotions, and this is when seeking help can be beneficial. A counselor can help us navigate these challenges and lift the fog of negative emotions.

It would be beneficial to try to be in control of your emotions.

It is natural for our emotions to influence our actions and thoughts. However, to navigate life's challenges with resilience, it is essential to learn to be in control of our emotions. This enables us to maintain composure in the face of external disturbances and to confront difficult situations with fortitude.

It would be beneficial to learn how to release negative emotions.

Everyone experiences negative emotions from time to time, so it is important to know how to release them. The signature suggests that finding someone to talk to is one way to do it. When you are at home during the epidemic, you can exercise, such as jumping rope, lunges, yoga, etc., which not only exercises the body, but also produces dopamine in our brain when we exercise, which can secrete a feeling of pleasure and also make us feel relaxed.

I was deeply saddened by the incident of the woman jumping off a building in Shanghai. It is crucial for us to learn to protect ourselves, to be a little prickly in kindness, and to protect ourselves. At the same time, I hope that those netizens who slander others will be held accountable for their actions. The internet is not a place for illegal activities. We must learn to speak and act with caution, to not take things personally, and to not truly empathize with others.

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Jonah Baker Jonah Baker A total of 6583 people have been helped

Hello, question asker!

When I saw this news, I felt bad and sad. Do you think the pandemic is to blame for some people bullying the weak? Actually, it's not. There have always been such people.

Even in peacetime, online violence is everywhere. If you look for it, you'll always find people who are quick to commit online violence against others.

2. The world is full of complicated people: some are born good, some are born evil, and some are neither. Some people like to think they're morally superior. If you look around, you'll find that there are always a few people in the village or neighborhood who are particularly nosy and like to make all kinds of accusations.

It just so happens that some people have learned to surf the Internet and have become online trolls.

3. Cyber violence is a type of verbal violence, which is a common form of violence. Those people always like to stand on the high ground and attack others indiscriminately. They never reflect on their actions, and on the contrary, they may secretly gloat behind their backs.

Even if they're caught and identified, there aren't many legal consequences. At most, they'll be detained for a few days.

Another reason for the endless recurrence of cyber violence is the low cost of responsibility.

I hope these ideas will give you a little inspiration. I love you and the world!

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Celia Jackson Use time as a tool, not a tyrant.

This is truly heartbreaking. People should reflect on their actions online and understand the impact of their words. The girl was just trying to express gratitude in her own way, which shouldn't have been twisted into something negative.

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Allison Barclay The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing.

The pandemic has heightened everyone's stress levels, but that's no excuse for cyberbullying. It's sad that someone who tried to do a kind act faced such harsh criticism. We need more empathy and less judgment during these tough times.

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Brooks Davis A learned mind is not content with surface - level understanding.

It's alarming how quickly things can spiral out of control on social media. This incident shows the dark side of internet culture where kindness gets overshadowed by negativity. We must strive to support each other rather than tear each other down.

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Hope Anderson Success is not a destination but a continuous pursuit, and failure is a signpost along the way.

Such tragic outcomes highlight the importance of mental health awareness and the need for better online behavior guidelines. It's crucial we create spaces where people feel safe to help others without fear of backlash or harassment.

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Jayden Jackson A person with extensive knowledge in both the arts and sciences is a Renaissance individual.

In times of crisis, we should come together and offer support instead of spreading hate. This story serves as a reminder to be compassionate towards those who are vulnerable and to use our voices constructively rather than destructively.

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