I am a student at a technical secondary school, and so many bad things are weighing on me.
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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
I am a student at a technical college, and I really have a lot of worries. So many bad things are weighing on me. I really feel that life is particularly meaningless. I am afraid of being alone, of being lonely, because then I would feel very insecure and would think a lot, even to the point of being afraid. But I wasn't like this before! I don't want to become like this, I want to change.
But I still can't help thinking a lot by myself. Even in other people's eyes, I'm a coward who doesn't like to communicate with others. I really want to let go of these worries and become an independent and strong person inside. I don't want others to treat me as a weakling. I have wanted to seek professional psychological help several times, but my mother thinks I have too many things on my mind and that I'm just overthinking things, so she doesn't want to take me. But I feel that overthinking has already affected my studies and life.
I used to simply think that I was just under too much pressure and needed a change of environment and approach. Now I feel that it's not that simple.
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Comments
I understand how you feel, and it's okay to have these feelings. Everyone has moments when they feel lost and unsure. It's important to remember that it's alright to seek help and talk about what you're going through. Maybe starting with a trusted friend or teacher could be a step in the right direction.
It sounds like you're carrying a heavy burden. I admire your courage for wanting to change and become stronger. Sometimes, taking small steps towards opening up can make a big difference. Have you considered writing down your thoughts? It might help you sort through them and see things more clearly.
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling this way, but I'm glad you're reaching out. It's not easy to admit when we need help. Perhaps finding a support group or an online community where people share similar experiences could offer some comfort and advice on how to cope.
Life can indeed feel overwhelming at times, especially when everything seems to pile up. You're not alone in feeling this way. Seeking professional help is a sign of strength, not weakness. If talking to your mom directly isn't working, maybe you could ask another family member or counselor at school for assistance.
Your desire to overcome these challenges shows your resilience. Sometimes, just acknowledging our feelings can be the first step toward healing. Try setting small, achievable goals for yourself each day. This might give you a sense of accomplishment and gradually build your confidence.