I care a lot about what other people think, and even if I had a lot of chicken soup for the soul, I wouldn't drink it.
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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
I care a lot about what other people think. Even if I have a lot of "soul food", I won't drink it, because it's useless. Now my best friend and I have had a falling out, and it's been two months. Yesterday I contacted her, and what she said basically meant that she no longer wanted to have anything to do with me. The thing is, after that, we were both taking supplementary lessons in the same place and sleeping in the same place. Is that really not embarrassing? The reason we fell out is that she was a bit of a troublemaker, and then I read what she said about me to other people. After that, we never spoke again. The other person was very quiet until yesterday, when I realized that they seemed to have a lot of opinions about me. Obviously, what she said was bad about both of us, but it all ended up being put on me. In fact, my friends are quite reliable, but I know that they are all very fussy. I hate it, but I can't be unreasonable, because they have helped me a lot. Right now, I'm just very concerned about the past and the future. I want to know, what on earth should I do?
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Comments
I understand how painful this situation must be for you. It's really tough when a friendship that meant so much to you comes to an end, especially in such a public way. I think it might help to take some time away from the situation and focus on yourself. Try to find peace within you and remember your worth isn't defined by others.
It sounds like you're going through a lot right now with your best friend. Maybe reaching out to her wasn't the best move if she clearly wants space. Sometimes people need time to heal. Perhaps focusing on other friendships or even forming new ones could provide the support you're looking for during this difficult time.
The whole scenario seems incredibly hurtful and unfair to you. When someone twists the narrative, it can feel isolating. Have you considered talking to someone neutral about this? A counselor or another trusted adult might offer guidance on how to navigate these complex social waters and rebuild your confidence.
This is heartbreaking. It's clear you value loyalty and honesty, and it's disappointing when those qualities aren't reciprocated. In terms of what you should do, it might be helpful to reflect on what you want from friendships moving forward. Setting boundaries and surrounding yourself with positive influences can be healing.
You're in a challenging position, torn between wanting to resolve things with your friend and feeling hurt by her actions. It's okay to feel conflicted. What might help is identifying what you need to feel better whether it's distance, a conversation, or just time. Trust your instincts on what feels right for you.