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I have been reported by many people and had my account banned. Am I just too bad? By Anonymous | Published on December 29, 2024

I just told you about my pain. On that software, I just wanted to seek refuge, but I couldn't log in. It said that I had been banned after being reported by multiple people.

Why can't I talk about it?

Why can't we talk about negative things, even our own dynamics?

xhs is the same...and in aobi land, I'll also be mocked by others...

Are my thoughts and way of thinking really that bad?

Is it really that sensitive to say that I want to die?

I feel like I don't belong alive

I will hurt everyone.

Why is there no shelter that suits us?

I also don't know why I didn't write this in a diary instead of on the internet

Maybe it's because I don't want to die alone and unheard, but to know the truth.

Zachary Zachary A total of 8030 people have been helped

Hello!

Let me introduce you to Kuahua! Kuahua is a social media app that's like a tree hole.

But the best way to communicate is to post updates, match, and communicate. It is a non-anonymous, free-to-use software, so you can use it however you like!

Every piece of software has its own set of rules. In this software, some folks report some of your updates, while others don't report any.

If you're regularly complaining about your struggles on this app, it's possible that you've been restricted from logging in because some of the multiple dynamics have been matched to you by different people, and some of them have chosen to report it.

There might still be another group of people who have chosen to understand you, but don't know what to say to you. That's okay! You might not be aware of their existence, but they're there for you if you'd like to know more.

Those who didn't report you might have been trying to understand your situation better, but they're not professional counselors and can't provide professional help.

The way you speak can have a big impact on how people feel when they're listening to you or reading your words.

It's totally understandable that you wouldn't think you've used inappropriate language in your description. I'm sure you're a great communicator!

We can all get a little carried away when we're feeling emotional, and sometimes our words can come across as a bit strong. It's only natural! But it's possible that some people might feel a little uncomfortable reading them, and that's okay.

This isn't about your personal character, and your thoughts and ideas won't be fully reflected in just a few dynamics. You can't deny your role just because you're reporting a dynamic.

I know some folks might be young and speak frivolously, and some might think a poison-versus-poison approach will work, but it's not right to say someone's suffering is caused by poison. We all suffer, and poison isn't a universal state in people's bodies.

So please don't take those mean comments to heart. We can already reasonably doubt and deny those words.

It's totally understandable that you're feeling frustrated. It's not easy to communicate with people when you're in a bad mood, and it's natural to speculate about their thoughts when you're unable to talk to them. It's also important to remember that these thoughts you have about yourself are not true.

But you're not really bad, sweetheart. You just posted some of your updates in a software with a small user base and a mix of user goals. A small group of people who didn't see your updates with compassion at the time reported some of your updates. And because of your depressive tendencies, being restricted from logging in to the app is also something that is likely to trigger your negativity.

We both need to take a step back and look at this rationally, while also acknowledging how you're feeling.

It's so easy to get caught up in our own moods sometimes! Even if someone can understand the content of your updates, they may not be able to understand you when they are in a bad mood, so they may report you.

I don't think the person reporting you meant to make you so frustrated. After all, reporting is just a simple tapping action that can be triggered in many situations.

It's totally understandable that you're posting a lot of content related to negative emotions. It can be really hard to deal with pain, and it's likely that you're just pouring your heart out because you're going through a lot.

After all, only a small minority of people report on their dynamics, and I don't think this small minority can represent everyone. And in this world, it is difficult to hurt someone, so I really don't think you have hurt anyone.

Kehua is not a platform for talking about pain, and some users may find that the frequency of expressions of pain is a bit high. It is still an analogy to a public social setting, so please don't be afraid to express yourself!

I just wanted to let you know that although the term "minority" or "minority group" is used in the promotion, Kehua is not a platform that provides more assistance to specific groups. It has not publicly stated this either, so I think Kehua is just a more general social software that does not involve the protection of topics such as pain.

You've found a great psychological platform! This may not be a shelter, but we're all here to help you feel better. This is also a platform that provides online paid psychological counseling, as well as psychology enthusiasts, people with troubled hearts, and social functions. It's a software with many functions!

I'm here for you.

It's totally normal to feel like you need help and want to understand things better. You might be looking for ways to deal with whatever's going on for you right now, whether it's a situation or an emotion.

I think you're still learning and growing, and I really recommend that you gain as much experience as you can when you have the chance. It might be really helpful for you to speak to a professional counselor.

However, if you're looking for more guidance, I think reading some books by professional counselors or looking into some case studies could really help you understand yourself better and the impact of your environment.

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Bertrand Davis The truth is always the strongest argument.

I hear the pain in your words, and it's completely valid to feel upset when you're not allowed a space that feels safe. It's tough when platforms meant for support end up feeling like they're against you. I wish I could offer a place where you can freely express yourself without fear of judgment or rejection. There must be a community out there that understands and accepts you as you are.

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Seraphina Jackson Hard work and diligence are the twin pillars of accomplishment.

It's really hard when you're trying to reach out and instead hit a wall, especially when you just want a little understanding. Being banned from a platform can feel like being silenced, and that's incredibly frustrating. It's important to find a way to voice your struggles, whether it's with trusted friends, family, or through professional help. You deserve to be heard and understood.

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Crosby Jackson Success without honor is an unseasoned dish; it will satisfy your hunger, but it won't taste good.

Your feelings are real, and it's okay to talk about them. Sometimes, the internet isn't the safest space, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't seek comfort elsewhere. Consider reaching out to someone who can listen, like a counselor or a close friend. It's crucial to have a support system that can provide the empathy and care you need during tough times.

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Elbert Davis Success is a state of mind. If you want success, start thinking of yourself as a success.

It's heartbreaking that you feel this way, and it's important to know that you're not alone. Many people struggle with similar feelings of isolation and misunderstanding. If you're comfortable, talking to a mental health professional might help you navigate these emotions. They can offer a safe, nonjudgmental space to explore what you're going through and help you find ways to cope.

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