I want to go to a place far away to play with friends, but my mom is worried. How can I get my mom to agree?

Dear colleague, I appreciate your desire to visit Beijing to meet friends and experience a different environment and culture. Friendships are an important source of emotional support. Your efforts to understand your mother's concerns demonstrate maturity and empathy.

It is understandable that your mother has concerns about you. She may be worried about your safety or your ability to travel independently. The financial issues she mentions may be a way for her to express her worries.

Additionally, you are seeking a balance between fulfilling your own desires and taking into account the expectations of the family. In this case, we can begin by attempting to understand her concerns from her perspective.

She may have concerns about your safety or the financial viability of the trip. Demonstrate an understanding of her concerns and respect for her opinion.

It is therefore advisable to prepare a comprehensive travel plan, including transportation, accommodation, budget, etc., before proposing your plan to your mother. This will demonstrate to her that you have a plan and goals in place.

Outline the significance of the trip for you, noting that it offers not only the opportunity to relax but also to share experiences and dreams with friends.

Regarding the timing of the conversation, we can select a time when the subject is in a positive frame of mind and there are no competing demands on their attention. For example, we could arrange to meet after a meal when they have some time to spare, or at the weekend when they have more free time. This will increase the likelihood of a productive discussion. During the conversation, we should express our gratitude for the subject's constant care and love, while also demonstrating our maturity and independence. This will show the subject that we have grown up and can handle things on our own.

We can assure your mother that we will keep in touch and report your whereabouts at all times.

If financial concerns are the primary issue, you may wish to consider offering to cover some of the costs yourself or planning a more budget-friendly trip. You could also suggest alternative solutions, such as travelling with friends or staying with friends, which should help to alleviate her concerns.

If your mother agrees, express your gratitude for her understanding and support, and reiterate that her opinion is important to you. We can then develop an action plan, including measures to deal with emergencies, which will provide your mother with additional peace of mind.

Effective communication is a two-way process. It is important to allow your mother time to understand and accept your proposal. Do not rush the decision-making process.

It is essential to remain patient and respectful throughout this process. Additionally, it is advisable to be prepared to accept potential compromises, such as conditions that may restrict your travel.

It is our hope that you will be able to reach an agreement with your mother and enjoy your trip to Beijing. We wish you the best of luck!

Good day, host. I am honored to respond to your inquiry. Based on the information presented, it appears that you have been contemplating a one-day excursion to Beijing for several days, yet your mother has expressed reservations. You ultimately embark on the trip without her awareness.

It is not advisable to stay in a hotel alone, given the potential risks. Your accommodation is at a friend's place for one night. Furthermore, you have indicated that financial constraints prevent you from engaging in leisure activities.

You are not geographically distant from Beijing in Hebei, nor do you spend a considerable amount of time at your friend's residence. Your query pertains to the optimal timing for disclosing this information to your mother, specifically whether it would be more appropriate to do so when she is engaged in leisure activities on her mobile device or when she is eating.

From the aforementioned information, it is evident that you are a highly attentive child. When pursuing and undertaking various tasks, you demonstrate an acute awareness of the dynamics of the external environment, effectively utilizing your surroundings to achieve your objectives.

From the content of your conversation with your mother, it can be inferred that you have a close relationship with her and that she has a strong desire to control you. It would appear that you are only safe when you are within her constant watch.

From a psychoanalytical perspective, pro is not concerned with your safety, but rather with her own. This is the reason she stated that you lack the capacity to earn money independently and are unqualified to play.

It is my suspicion that the only force in the world is you. She is only safe when she is under your constant supervision.

These instances, whether occurring during mealtime or when the mother is engaged with her mobile device, are indicative of her elevated energy levels. When such a request is made, it will evoke a desire in the mother to exert control over the child. She will, therefore, attempt to prevent the child from carrying out the requested action. One potential solution is to rephrase the request in a way that shifts the focus from the child's immediate behavior to a more constructive and socially acceptable alternative. For instance, the child could be encouraged to "go out and help her fulfill a wish," which would allow them to engage in a constructive activity while still maintaining a positive relationship with their mother.

From a certain perspective, the process of maturation entails a gradual emancipation from the constraints imposed by one's family of origin and parents. Only after this process is complete can an individual become a stronger, more authentic, and better version of themselves.

I am pleased to have been scheduled an appointment for 1983. I extend my warmest regards to you and the world at large.

Hello, my child. I hope my answer has been helpful.

I believe that as a mother, she may have some concerns, and I understand that. However, if you could eliminate all the factors that make her feel insecure and let her feel safe while you go out to play, and if you could also keep in touch with her, I think she might agree. Of course, you are wise enough to know when to communicate with your mother. Communication really depends on the atmosphere. Whether it's when she's checking her phone or at mealtime, as long as she's not in the middle of an emotional episode and her emotions are calm and she's relatively happy, it's a good time to communicate.

If I might offer you some advice, it would be:

It would be advisable to choose the right time to communicate with your mother and avoid communicating when she is in a bad mood. Otherwise, it may prove difficult to have a constructive conversation.

It can be challenging to communicate when our brain is processing emotions, as this can make it difficult for us to think rationally. When we are calm and happy, our rational thinking is more accessible, which makes it easier to communicate effectively. When you approach your mother to communicate, it's important to choose a time when she is more relaxed, peaceful, and in a positive frame of mind. This will likely lead to a more productive and constructive conversation.

2. When communicating with your mother, it may be helpful to express your real needs and feelings, as well as your specific requests to her, and how you hope she can support you.

When communicating with your mother, it is also important to consider how you express yourself. You may find it helpful to refer to the method of non-violent communication, which involves expressing your true needs and feelings, as well as your specific requests to her in a non-judgmental and non-accusing manner. You could then explain how you hope she can support you and express your desire to visit your classmates. It is also worth hoping that she can respect your needs.

For example, you could tell your mother, "Mom, I'd really love to go to Beijing to visit my friend for a day in the next few days (because my friend is repeating high school and I won't be able to see her until after the Chinese New Year, and I can't wait until after her college entrance exams). She's my best friend, and this is very important to me. I'm a little sad and confused that you don't agree. I'd really appreciate your understanding and support, and I also hope that you can respect my decision. Now that I'm grown up, I'd love to have some freedom of my own, and I can also take responsibility for myself. Could you tell me specifically what you're worried about?

"Perhaps we could discuss it together..." You may wish to adapt this to your own specific situation and express your real feelings and needs, as well as your specific requests to your mother.

3. It would be helpful to understand why your mother is concerned about your safety. Could you please reassure her that you will travel and return home without any problems?

From your description, I can understand that your mother is concerned about your safety. It's possible that you've never been away from home before, and she's worried that you might not be able to take care of yourself in a place you're not familiar with. If you can reassure her that you're safe and can take care of yourself, I believe she'll feel more at ease. You could suggest ways to make her feel more comfortable, such as video chatting with her when you arrive at the train station, contacting her at any time, or video chatting with her when you arrive at the hotel. You could also video chat with her at your classmate's house. In short, the goal is to make your mother feel more at ease, give her the impression that you can take care of yourself, and let her know that she can ensure your safety. Once she's more relaxed, she might be open to your plans.

Please feel free to refer to this information as you see fit. Wishing you the best!

Dear Sir/Madam, From your description, I can appreciate the conflict and helplessness you are experiencing. Kind regards,

As a psychological counselor, I would like to offer my understanding from a psychological perspective.

The issue at hand is that you wish to engage in social activities with friends from other locations, a decision that has caused some concern on your mother's part. You are keen to pursue this course of action but are unsure of the best way to communicate your intentions to her. The decision rests on whether to proceed when your mother is occupied with her phone or when you are eating. You may also wish to consider inviting your mother to discuss this matter together, given the importance you attach to it.

It is important to understand that the reason your mother does not allow you to go out alone is due to her concern for your safety.

How can you assist her in recognizing her own ideas and demonstrating her daughter's growth, thereby enabling her to accomplish her desired objectives independently?

First, gain an understanding of your own character traits, upbringing, and relationship with your parents.

Have you ever completed your own studies independently and demonstrated the ability to accomplish your own goals?

Secondly, it is important to be aware of your own thoughts and feelings. When there is a discrepancy between your thoughts and those of your mother, how do you intend to resolve and communicate the conflict?

It is important to understand her way of thinking. Has she always protected you? Her worry is rooted in her anxiety. To provide her with a sense of security, you can: communicate with your classmates in Beijing, let your family purchase the train ticket, leave a message with your mother when you arrive at your destination, or let her know via video. By doing so, you will reduce her separation anxiety.

Third, develop the ability to express your own thoughts. When your thoughts are not accepted, you can continue to express your own train of thought and discuss them together after expressing each other's thoughts.

As an alternative to suppressing your emotions, you have the option of allowing yourself to become embroiled in conflict.

Ultimately, it is essential to be true to yourself. You are currently in the adolescent stage, a period of identity formation and self-discovery. You may experience success or setbacks, but this is a journey of growth that can only be navigated personally.

You may also wish to consider seeking assistance from other sources, such as your father or the parents of your classmates. By expressing yourself more, you can be heard, seen, understood, and given the chance to grow. Regardless of whether you are able to achieve this or have regrets, this is the process of growth.

The world and I love you. It is essential that you learn to love yourself. I encourage you to do so.

Good day. I extend my sincerest regards to you in the form of a 360-degree embrace.

From the description of the situation, it is evident that you are eager to visit your classmates in Beijing but your mother is concerned about your safety and is reluctant to let you travel from Hebei to Beijing unaccompanied. You are seeking guidance on how to persuade your mother to allow you to proceed with your planned trip to Beijing.

I reflected on the situation and considered how I would act if I were in the same position as a mother. It is likely that I would also choose not to let my child proceed.

In addition to concerns about their children's ability to cope, parents are also concerned about the potential for harm in the world. There is always a risk of encountering someone who may pose a threat. Our society is indeed much safer now, with cameras in public spaces. However, there is still some inherent evil in human nature, and it still exists and may even get worse.

I am of the opinion that people are fundamentally kind, however I am not complacent and am mindful of the need to be prepared for all eventualities. Children lack the experience to be able to deal with such situations effectively.

I believe your mother is concerned about your safety and well-being. She has made it clear that she is not comfortable with you being alone, whether you are traveling, staying in a hotel, or staying at a friend's house. She has even expressed concerns about your safety when taking public transportation.

From your description, you are a female, approximately 18 years of age. There is currently a great deal of discussion online about the eyes of college students, which are perceived as somewhat foolish and clear. In summary, college students are well protected and very innocent, which is beneficial, but this also presents certain challenges given that society is not innocent.

I recently viewed a video of a 1.9-meter-tall boy. From a distance, he appeared intimidating. The parent who created the video stated that, as long as he does not turn around, he is still safe.

It is perceived as safer not to turn around because it is associated with the image of a junior high school student, which is seen as gullible. This has led to parents feeling uneasy.

My child is 10 years old and attends an after-school class in a building situated in close proximity to ours. Initially, I accompanied her on two occasions, walking her just downstairs from our building and a few dozen meters to the other building.

On the first day of class, I informed her that I would not be picking her up. She would be returning by herself after class. I instructed her to ring the doorbell when it was time to leave, and I would open the door for her. However, when the designated time had passed and she had not returned, I became concerned and proceeded to pick her up. Upon arriving at the after-school class, I discovered that she was already packing her belongings.

I calculated that she would be home in three minutes if the class finished quickly, and five minutes if it took longer. If she was late, I would have cause for concern.

I subsequently collected her on a number of occasions. On one occasion, I encountered the after-school class teacher, who was walking her home. I enquired as to why she had allowed the teacher to walk her child home. My child stated that she had not wanted the teacher to walk her home, but that she had insisted.

The teacher is also uneasy about the student walking alone, even though the route is short and to and from the building. The student often walks alone to and from school, but adults cannot help but worry, whether it's me or the teacher.

I will no longer send her to class. She is capable of holding the key, going and coming back by herself, and opening the door with the key. She is also perplexed by my concerns, which seem unwarranted given the short distance involved.

While the distance is relatively short, I am still uneasy about the situation. She is not concerned about her ability to walk or her lack of knowledge about the route. Instead, she is worried about the people she might encounter along the way. As the saying goes, "You can't tell what someone is thinking just by looking at them." It is impossible to know what someone is thinking or what kind of behavior they will display.

It is a natural parental instinct to worry about their children, particularly when they are young.

Particularly for girls under the age of majority, mothers tend to exhibit heightened concern, rather than a reduction in anxiety. This is driven by the desire to ensure their daughters' safety and wellbeing.

The most critical issue is that you lack experience and are therefore unable to effectively handle emergency situations.

In this situation, regardless of the timing or circumstances of your disclosure to your mother, it will be challenging to persuade her to allow you to travel alone, even if you can demonstrate your ability to take the bus and stay at a hotel independently. This is because the decision involves not only your capability but also numerous unpredictable factors, particularly those beyond your control. Despite your assurances and preparations, she is unlikely to be convinced.

You wish to be on your own, to be in control, to prove your independence, and to demonstrate that your mother's concerns are unwarranted. There is nothing inherently wrong with this perspective. However, your mother's concerns are not without merit.

My recommendation is that you schedule a meeting with your mother to discuss her concerns. While you cannot guarantee a solution, you should explore other options to achieve your goal of spending time with your friends. Your mother may have suggestions, such as her accompanying you or another family member. Ultimately, your objective is to socialize with your friends, not to engage in a dispute with your mother.

Please consider alternative options to going alone.

As a counselor, I tend to be a pessimist by nature, but I do recognize the value in maintaining a positive outlook. I believe in the potential of the world and in the importance of embracing a constructive mindset.

Happy New Year! I'm June Lai Feng.

I understand your problem.

Mom is worried about you going to a friend's place alone. She's worried you may be in danger or unable to adapt. She's worried about your safety in a foreign place, including traffic, accommodation, and strangers.

Your mother may worry about you going to a place she doesn't know well. She may think you can't handle emergencies on your own.

This is a common parental mentality: they want their children to grow up safe and healthy.

We need to understand parents.

If you want to go out of town to visit friends, tell your mother about your plans and reassure her that you will be safe. Let her know that you have made adequate preparations. To effectively convey to your mother the fact that you can handle the trip independently, do the following:

Make a detailed travel plan and share it with your mother.

Next, explain what safety measures you will take.

Third, promise to call or text your mother regularly during your trip.

Show your mother you can handle anything by being mature and confident.

Then, listen to your mother and try to understand her concerns. Give her solutions or assurances.

If you need to, you can change your plans to make your mother feel better. For example, you can invite her to come with you or ask your friends to visit.

Most importantly, respect your mother and communicate with her. This will help you stay safe.

I hope this helps.

Hello question asker

I want to go to Beijing to visit a friend for a day. My friend is repeating her senior year of high school and I can't see her until after the Chinese New Year. I can only wait until after her college entrance exams are over. My mother doesn't like the idea of me traveling without her. She's not confident about me staying in a hotel by myself. I could stay at my friend's house for a night, but she says I'm not earning any money and I'm not qualified to go out and have fun. I really want to go to Beijing to see my friend. It's not that far. I could take the train from Hebei. How can I convince my mother? I won't stay long. I'll leave on the 13th and come back on the 15th. Should I mention it when my mother is looking at her phone, or should I wait until dinner time and say,

Introduce yourself. I'm a teacher. When I read your story, I think of one of my students. He was a great monitor and my class was well-organized. His academic performance was good, which made me feel at ease.

One day, he came to ask for leave. He was embarrassed. Like you, the child wants to go out and play. But his mother has been watching him closely since he was little. She has strict parenting. He has never been out before. Our leave system is that parents must communicate with the teacher before the child can go out. His mother told him, even in front of me, "Oh, children, don't go out and play." But the child was determined. In the end, his mother let him go out and play.

Sometimes you have to show your mother your attitude because you're an adult now. She wants to influence you, so you might as well be independent. Talk to her about it. I just want to go and hope she'll support me. She's worried about you. She still hopes you can make friends and grow up.

Let's talk about feelings first. Mom, I know you're worried about me getting hurt. I won't get hurt. I want to see the world, make friends, and become stronger. Make requests after you've expressed your feelings. You can try it and see what kind of response you get from mom.

That's all for now. I love you.

Hello, question asker. I'm Xiao Junhai, the answerer.

I get that you really want to see your friends, but it might take some patience and strategy to convince your mother.

First, you can choose an appropriate time, such as when your mother is in a good mood, or bring it up in a relaxed atmosphere at the dinner table.

Next, you can try to convince your mother on the following points:

Safety is important, so let your mother know you'll be careful. Stick with friends when you're out and stay in well-known hotels or with friends.

⭐️ Financial issues: Even though you might not have a lot of money right now, you can offer to pay for your own travel expenses, including train tickets, hotels, and meals. This will show your mother that you're serious about the trip and can afford it.

⭐ Time schedule: Let your mother know when you're leaving and coming back. You can say you're leaving on the 13th and coming back on the 15th, so she knows you won't be gone too long. You can also mention that you'll take care of your studies and other things in advance. You won't be delayed in your studies because of the trip.

⭐Meaning of the trip: Focus on how the trip will benefit you, like helping you relax, broadening your horizons, and strengthening your connection with friends. These positive effects might make it easier for your mother to accept your request.

When you're talking to your mother, be patient and respectful, and really listen to what she has to say. Try to answer her questions with reasonable reasons. You can also suggest solutions, like asking her to plan the itinerary with you or checking in with her every day.

Ultimately, whether or not your mother gives you the green light, you should respect her decision and thank her for her concern and understanding. If she still doesn't agree, you can consider other ways to show your concern for your friends, such as writing letters or video calling.

Happy New Year! I hope you have a great trip.

When faced with parental concerns and objections, it is essential to understand their position. It is undeniable that there are certain safety risks involved in traveling alone, especially for young people.

These safety risks may include, but are not limited to: uncertainty in the face of an unfamiliar environment, the possibility of encountering undesirable characters, and the ability to handle emergencies. Parents' worries stem from an instinctive concern for their children's safety, a sentiment shared by every parent.

Furthermore, if your mother cites your lack of financial independence as a reason for not allowing you to go, it is likely because she cares about your overall growth and development, particularly in terms of responsibility. In a sense, this can also be seen as a way for her to express her concern for your safety and well-being in a more tactful manner.

Parents often hope that this approach will make their children more aware of their responsibilities and the importance of independent living. It is therefore crucial to understand and respect your mother's good intentions in this process.

When communicating with your mother, start by understanding and respecting her position. Tell her, "Mom, I know you're worried about my safety and whether I have enough financial resources to support this trip."

I understand your concerns and appreciate your constant care and protection. I am going to share with you the preparations and considerations I have made for this trip, and I am confident that they will alleviate some of your worries.

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In terms of safety risks, I have taken the following precautions: I have planned my trip in detail and chosen safe and reliable modes of transport and accommodation. I will also be moving around with friends to ensure that someone has an eye on each other.

"Furthermore, I will enable real-time location sharing so that you can always know my location and ensure my safety."

When it comes to financial capability, be open and honest about your efforts and plans. Let your mother know that you have been saving money by working part-time and that you will use it specifically for this trip. Also, explain how you have learned to manage your finances wisely to ensure you don't go over budget.

"I am going to learn more about independent living and financial management through this experience."

Finally, emphasize your understanding and respect for your mother's concerns, and express your confidence that you will grow from this experience: "I know no matter what I say, you will probably still be worried. But I am certain that through this opportunity, I can become more independent and mature.

I will always be safe and manage everything properly. I hope you will support me and give me this opportunity to grow.

"

You will gain your mother's understanding and support if you communicate with her in a thoughtful, understanding, and respectful manner. This shows your sincerity and determination. It also demonstrates your maturity and sense of responsibility. You are ready for the trip and for becoming more independent and responsible in life.

In addition to the strategies and preparations mentioned above for communicating with your mother, there are some key points that will help you express yourself more effectively and make your mother feel your growth and willingness to be independent.

Show your mother that you value safety. Demonstrate your awareness of potential risks by suggesting specific safety measures, such as learning self-defense and creating contingency plans.

This will alleviate your mother's concerns and demonstrate that you are a responsible individual who actively considers and plans for your own safety.

Second, you should also explain how you will enhance your financial independence through your own efforts in the future. You can do this by talking about your career plans and how you will improve your financial income and management skills through study and work.

Your mother will see that you are taking the future seriously if you can show her your long-term plans.

You must remain open and honest in the communication process. Encourage your mother to express her worries and concerns, and listen carefully.

When she raises questions or concerns, don't rush to defend yourself. Show her understanding and respect first, and then answer each one. This patient and respectful way of communicating will build a stronger foundation of trust and make your mother feel your maturity and confidence.

Finally, you should invite your mother to participate in your travel plans. Ask her to help you check the itinerary and choose the accommodation. This will give her greater peace of mind and involve her in your growth process.

This joint participation will strengthen your bond and understanding.

In short, communicating with your mother about going out of town to meet friends is a process that requires patience, understanding, and respect. You will persuade her and promote your own personal growth and the deepening of family relationships by demonstrating your maturity, independence, and responsibility, as well as your thoughtful consideration for safety and financial independence.

You will learn and grow from this, regardless of the outcome.

Hello! I'm Coach Yu from Xin Tan, and I'm thrilled to have this chance to discuss this fascinating topic with you.

Emotional perception is our amazing ability to recognize, control, and regulate our emotions. It's also a fantastic manifestation of emotional intelligence!

In "The Plastic Me," Chen Jiejun writes: Many people are unable to deal with things or emotions because they confuse feelings, emotions, and thoughts. But there's a solution!

Now, let's dive into the fascinating world of feelings! They are the amazing physiological and biological responses of a person to external stimuli.

For example, when someone stabs you with a needle, you feel pain, which is a feeling; when the north wind blows in winter, you feel cold, which is also a feeling. And it's so interesting that feelings not only include responses to stimuli in the environment, but also responses to internal stimuli!

As the questioner wrote, in the past few days I really wanted to go to Beijing for a day to visit a friend, but my mother didn't like the idea and didn't feel at ease about it. I would have loved to go!

Emotion is the incredible way people react to feelings!

For example, the surrounding environment is very hot, causing the palms of your hands to sweat and your heart rate to accelerate. Emotions are the irritability or excitement you feel when your body is very enthusiastic and your heartbeat is accelerating. Emotions and feelings generally respond through the peripheral nervous system of the nervous system.

As the questioner wrote, how can I show my mother that when she's looking at her phone, she's still eating?

What an amazing idea! It's how we understand and explain our feelings and emotions.

The amazing thing about thoughts is that they don't originate in the peripheral nervous system. They come from the central nervous system, which is really fascinating because it involves understanding and interpretation.

As the original poster wrote, I'm actually not going far by train in Hebei. I'm not staying long. I'll leave on the 13th and return on the 15th. How can I get my mother to agree?

Now for the fun part! We can re-examine this process to see if we can understand the changes in our emotions and thus manage and express our emotions to solve this emotional perception problem.

Let's dive in and ask ourselves: What is my mother's inner need when she says she doesn't like the idea of me going on a trip without her? What are my thoughts?

And now for the really fun part! What emotions and feelings does it bring up in you?

And we can also try to ask ourselves: what is my mother's inner need when she says she is not at ease with me staying alone in a hotel? What are my thoughts?

And now for the really fun part! What emotions and feelings does it bring up in you?

Let's dive in and explore! We can try to ask ourselves, what is the inner need of the mother when she says she is not at ease with staying at a friend's house for one night? What are your thoughts?

And now for the really fun part! What emotions and feelings does it bring up in you?

We can also try to ask ourselves: what is my mother's inner need when she says that I don't earn enough money and I'm not qualified to go out and play? What are my thoughts?

What emotions and feelings does it bring up in you?

We can also try to ask ourselves what our own needs are when choosing the time to communicate with our mother. What do the two scenes of our mother looking at her phone or eating remind us of?

What am I excited to work through? What am I eager to address?

So, feelings, emotions, and thoughts are actually the amazing coordination between the nervous system and the brain! When everything is working together smoothly, you feel calm and at peace.

It's so important to be aware of our emotions and to try to record what we're feeling in the moment. Your writing is just for you, so feel free to write about your feelings honestly and openly. This will help us understand the origins and effects of our emotions and also help us clarify the root of the problem.

We can have an honest conversation with our mother. First, we can apologize to her. We can tell her that our travel plans are still a work in progress. We have a lot to learn, and we're excited to do so! We can express our apologies and then move on to our needs. In the past few days, we've also been thinking about some of the safety points for our mother. We've come up with some great ideas! We can tell her what factors to consider when choosing a hotel, what strategies to make, what our own thoughts are if we're staying at a friend's house, and what we'll do in advance. We can even tell her what our budget is for travel expenses, how we'll control it, and more!

At the same time, I really hope that my mother will consider whether she can walk with me and go out for a walk together. Finally, I will also listen to my mother's voice again and hear what she expects from me. If we have any faults, we will correct them; if not, we will be even more diligent!

Communication is a powerful tool that can help you release pent-up emotions and gain a deeper understanding of your mother's thoughts. It can also strengthen the parent-child relationship! Of course, we need to be prepared for both outcomes. If your mother's mood has eased, we can gradually win her understanding through changes in our behavior and a sincere attitude.

If your mother cannot accept it at once, don't be discouraged! Our own plan was immature and a bit hasty, but we can create the right opportunity to apologize again. We can believe that, according to the loving mother written by the questioner, time and sincerity will get her understanding and support!

You've come to the right place! We can help you overcome this troubling matter. It won't be easy, but we'll get there together. First, find a relative or friend you trust and who has always given you positive support. Talk to them about your feelings. If you feel the need, you can also find a counselor. They can help you release your emotions and relieve the heaviness and blockage in your heart. You've got this!

Absolutely! We must keep exploring the path of self-improvement and self-awareness. Before we know it, we'll discover our own unique value and build a self-evaluation system. When you have a stable core, your maturity and self-confidence will be the greatest source of comfort for your mother.

I highly recommend the book "Know Thyself, Accept Thyself"!

Good day, questioner. I can see the confusion you are facing at this time, and I extend my support to you.

From your mother's perspective, you are still perceived as the child who has not yet reached adulthood.

This is why she is reluctant to allow you to go out and play.

I believe there is an opportunity to communicate with your mother.

For example, you could inform your mother that you wish to meet a friend of yours who is repeating her senior year of high school. You may not be able to see her after the New Year. You are aware that she is concerned about your relocation to a new city. However, you promise to keep in close contact with her throughout the day you are in the city.

Mom, you need to understand that I am now an adult, not the child I once was. I want to venture out and explore the world. After all, one day I will grow up and have a family of my own, and I will have to leave you too. I cannot stay by your side forever, so I hope you will trust me. I will be safe for this one day out.

"Please allow me to go out and play this one time, if that is agreeable to you."

It is recommended that, when communicating with your mother, you start with more "I" words than "you" words.

Additionally, the book Nonviolent Communication provides useful methods for addressing these issues.

I am optimistic that a solution to the issue you are currently facing will be reached in the near future.

At this time, I am only able to consider these matters.

I hope my above responses are helpful and inspiring to you. I am the solution, and I study hard every day.

Best regards, Yixinli

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