I was transferred to a different department, and my colleagues there were particularly rude to me. I felt depressed and miserable every day.
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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
My parents helped me apply for some time off from work. When I came back, I was transferred to a position without notice, and it was a position I didn't like. The people there were different from the people I knew before. Their worldviews were completely different, and they were particularly prickly and difficult to get along with. Moreover, the nature of the work was completely different. Before, it was a service position, but now it is clerical work, which I am not good at. I tried it for a while, but it was simply too difficult. The colleague who took me on had a particularly bad attitude and spoke in an excessively mannered way, giving people a sense of pressure. She also always made me fetch her meals, which gave people the impression that she was being particularly excessive. Every day I felt very oppressed, and the leader also favored her. I was not familiar with her, and her behavior made me feel very oppressed and miserable every day.
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Comments
I can't believe this is happening to me. After coming back from my leave, not only was I placed in a position I don't enjoy without any warning, but the whole environment feels completely alien. Everyone seems so different now, and their attitudes towards life are nothing like what I'm used to. It's like trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.
The transition from a service role to clerical work has been incredibly tough for me. I never thought I'd struggle with tasks that seem simple to others, but it's just not where my strengths lie. Trying to adapt felt like an uphill battle, and it became clear pretty quickly that this wasn't going to work out.
It's been hard adjusting to these new coworkers too. They're nothing like the people I worked with before. Their outlook on life and the way they interact make it difficult to connect or even want to try. One colleague especially stands out for all the wrong reasons. Her condescending tone and mannerisms have made me feel unwelcome and undervalued.
When I returned from my time off, everything changed. The shift to a clerical position caught me off guard, and it's such a poor match for my skills. I gave it a shot, hoping things would improve, but it was just too challenging. My new supervisor doesn't help either; her attitude makes the workplace feel hostile and tense every day.
The atmosphere at work has become unbearable since my return. The sudden change in roles threw me off completely, and the interpersonal dynamics have gone downhill. The colleague assigned to guide me has been anything but supportive, treating me more like an errand runner than a peer. It's disheartening when leadership turns a blind eye to such behavior.