I'm still worried that someone I don't want to see will find me. Why can't I get over it?
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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
Because someone you don't want to see will still come and leave a message on WeChat. It's find-someone-truly-capable-of-companionship-suddenly-find-it-hard-to-express-the-solitude-that-is-so-uncomfortable-10952.html" target="_blank">uncomfortable to see, and you can't block them. It used to be that if it seemed like they had my phone number again, I would feel very uneasy about whether they would find me through my phone number on the game. Even if I changed my parents' phone number, I would still feel a bit uneasy. So I simply logged in as a guest. After logging in as a guest, I had to go online to find out how friends were added (still worried about being found). The teacher asked me to think about the meaning of this whole thing. Why can't I forget this classmate who once brought me warmth and companionship, but also hurt me?
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Comments
I can totally relate to feeling uneasy when someone from the past tries to reach out. It's tough when you can't block them and their messages keep coming, stirring up all those old feelings again.
It's such a strange feeling, isn't it? To have this person who once made you feel so comfortable suddenly make you feel so uncomfortable. I guess it's hard to let go of people who've been part of your history, even if they hurt us.
That's a tricky situation to be in. Part of me wonders if holding onto that discomfort is maybe a way of holding onto the good times too. It's like we're afraid that letting go of the bad will also mean forgetting the warmth they once gave us.
Sometimes I think about how much energy we spend worrying about being found or contacted by people from our past. It's almost like we're punishing ourselves for not being able to move on completely.
The fact that you logged in as a guest shows how far you were willing to go to avoid confrontation. It's a shame that we sometimes feel like we need to hide just to protect our peace of mind.