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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
Hello, I'm glad I can answer your question. I hope my suggestions help.
I can see you don't understand or like this. Some people have very limited ideas.
If two boys are holding hands, it means they're gay and in a relationship.
If a man and a woman are holding hands, they're in a romantic relationship.
They can be friends, siblings, or parents and children.
Outsiders have one-sided opinions that can lead to mistakes.
When we encounter these kinds of remarks, we should sort them out and regulate our emotions.
Time to sort things out.
Can we sort out our feelings in this relationship? Do we both think we're just classmates?
Could the other person think the opposite of what we think?
We ride home together because we're classmates. The other person thinks I have a crush on him.
If it's a misunderstanding, we need to talk to our classmates. In the future, we need to be careful when we interact with each other.
If it's not a misunderstanding, we can be friends. If we live close by, we can walk home together.
Don't let emotions get in the way.
Boys and girls can be the subject of rumors.
If two people hold hands while crossing the street, they may be accused of something wrong.
Kindergarten kids used to hold hands when crossing the street 20 years ago. It's about safety and not leaving anyone behind.
These fixed ideas can make us feel very strongly. We need to calm down.
When we calm down, we can solve problems, clarify our relationship, protect our reputation, and avoid being slandered.
Adults often worry about students having early love affairs. They say it will affect grades, that the child is not mature enough, or that the child does not know enough about relationships.
Adults don't know how to talk to children about love.
We can look for the right moment to talk to the parents. We can explain our feelings and what we know at this age.
I hope you can understand each other better and find a way to deal with this situation that is suitable for you both.
I love you!
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It's really frustrating when people jump to conclusions about simple acts of kindness. Taking a taxi home with a classmate is just convenient and practical, especially when they're nice enough not to even ask for fare. There shouldn't be any shame in accepting help from someone you know.
People can be quick to judge without understanding the full picture. We were simply making our way home together, nothing more. It's disappointing that some might view this gesture as something inappropriate when it's really just two classmates being considerate towards each other.
Sometimes society puts too much weight on trivial things. Sharing a taxi with a male classmate is harmless and efficient. If others think it's indecent, that says more about their mindset than our actions. We should focus on the intent behind our actions, which was purely friendly and practical.