My mom is under too much pressure, but why am I the outlet?

I extend to you a warm embrace from a distance.

One may experience a sense of injustice in the wake of an innocent tantrum prompted by one's mother's stress. It is commendable to strive to comprehend and empathize with one's mother to the greatest extent possible.

The mother's experience of criticism from the private leader has resulted in a profound sense of frustration and pressure, which has led to the realisation that her decision to leave the public sector was, in fact, irrational. She perceives her current role to be of a relatively low status and experiences feelings of resentment and confusion. However, she is unable to express these emotions in the presence of her superior, and therefore seeks solace and release from them in the company of her closest family members. She craves understanding, support, and acceptance from her parents.

It is evident that she has not received the support, understanding, and acceptance she desires from her father. However, her inner emotions and needs will not dissipate as a result. Consequently, she vents her emotions to you once more, longing to be seen, accepted, understood, and supported, as you are the most vulnerable member of the family. She vents all her negative emotions onto you, and your reaction will not cause her harm or threaten her. Due to the inner needs and uncomfortable emotional feelings that are desperate for fulfillment, she disregards the fact that you are still a child and that you are not mentally capable of providing the response and support she desires.

In the event of a subsequent emotional outburst from your mother, you may wish to consider expressing your own feelings in a forthright and honest manner, without passing judgment on her actions. Such an expression may encourage her to do the same, thereby facilitating a deeper understanding of each other's emotions and needs. One potential approach to this is to suggest that she keep a written record of her emotions, which could assist her in perceiving and understanding her feelings more clearly, identifying the underlying motivations behind them, and developing more effective responses and strategies for meeting her needs.

I am Lily, the youngest member of the Q&A Museum. I extend my love to the world and to you.

Hello, classmate. I can see the confusion you are facing right now, and I'm here to help.

You are experiencing some family problems. I'm here to help.

Mothers will take you as a punching bag because their father is often the person closest to them and they can't bear to hurt him.

As the saying goes, "Home is a place where love is spoken, not reason."

You know your mother is under a lot of pressure and shouldn't take it out on you. Find an opportunity to talk to her frankly.

If you don't speak up, your mother won't know that her behavior hurts you.

Teach your mother some ways to vent her emotions.

Buy a pillow and place it at home. When your mother is emotional, let her hit it.

Your mother should participate in more group activities, such as square dancing.

More and more middle-aged and elderly people are going to square dances (weather permitting). It's a great way to make friends and let off steam.

The next time your mother comes home and is upset about work again, she will have a way to vent her emotions.

The next time your mother vents her anger on you, take the opportunity to get some fresh air or hide in your room.

Run away whenever your mother tries to take out her anger on you.

Do this a few times and your mother will face her own negative emotions.

You will find an effective solution to the problem you are facing soon.

That's all I can think of.

I am confident that my above answers will be helpful and inspiring to you. I am the answer, and I study hard every day.

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