Nearing 25, without a job, savings, or a partner, feeling confused?

Hello! I'm sending you a big, warm hug from afar!

I'm thrilled to see that you've asked for help! I'm excited to share my insights and support you in any way I can.

From your brief description, it's clear you have a bright future ahead of you! You occasionally experience an inexplicable sense of loneliness and long for companionship, support, and someone to listen to you. Loneliness is a normal part of life. When I feel lonely, it's actually the beginning of a connection and dialogue with my inner self.

Loneliness is the best gift that life gives to everyone! The reason we want to avoid experiencing our loneliness is largely because we don't accept our loneliness. In our eyes, loneliness means being excluded, rejected, and isolated. But it doesn't have to be that way! We can choose to embrace our loneliness and use it as a gift.

In fact, loneliness is a wonderful reminder that we should take care of our inner selves!

Embrace it! Don't avoid it or deny your feelings of loneliness. Instead, dive in and explore what your loneliness is trying to tell you. Feel the emotions behind your loneliness and see what needs you have hidden within. Then, respond to your inner loneliness in a way that suits you better!

For example, you can try to stay with your love by reading a book you like. You can record your emotions at that moment in time through words, or you can try to better experience and feel your loneliness through meditation.

I highly recommend you read "We Will Eventually Meet Love and Loneliness."

I'm Lily, the little ear of the Q&A Museum! The world and I love you!

Hi there! I'm Jia Jia, and I'm here for you when you need a shoulder to lean on, a listening ear, or just a friendly face to chat with.

First of all, 25 is still a very young age! These days, young people, especially in big cities, do face a lot of pressure, which is totally understandable.

It's great that you have a clear plan for your future! You're going to take the postgraduate entrance exam, get married, and get a job. I just want to suggest that at the age of 25, it's really important to have a clear understanding of your work and life. It's probably not a good idea to set or pursue too high of goals. For example, you can work while taking the postgraduate entrance exam, choose and understand the field you are good at, and integrate into society earlier.

It's not realistic to expect a postgraduate to escape the pressure of employment and social competition.

Secondly, being alone can feel lonely, but it's also a time to understand yourself better. You can look back on your emotional experiences, think about what kind of opposite sex is right for you, and identify areas you'd like to improve.

I really think you should try to expand your social circle of interests. I bet you'll find that you broaden the radius of your life, work, and love, and that you'll no longer be lonely. I'm sure you'll be very happy!

Third, saving up for a house and a car are material and external things. We all need them, but having them can also bring some challenges. The key is to understand and improve your inner self, establish intimate relationships, interact with family and society, and at the same time improve and enrich your inner self.

Come on, my friend! I'm looking forward to staying in touch.

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