Neither resistance nor endurance is advisable. How should bullying be dealt with?

Bullying is a complex issue that requires a comprehensive approach. Follow these tips to take control:

Remain calm and in control of the situation.

When you encounter bullying, the most important thing is to remain calm and not be easily angered or intimidated by the words or actions of the bully.

Don't give the bully an inch. Don't give them any emotional responses. Stay in control. Avoid falling into their trap of emotional abuse.

Your safety is paramount.

If the bully attacks you physically, your first priority is to ensure your personal safety.

If you can, hide or escape and shout for help.

Get help.

Get help from parents, teachers, school administrators, or other trusted adults.

Tell them about the bullying you are experiencing and demand that they take the necessary measures to protect you.

Record evidence.

Record the time, place, and specific circumstances of the bullying incident if possible.

Save chat logs, text messages, or other evidence of bullying. You will need it later.

It is crucial to strengthen your self-protection skills.

Master self-defense techniques, including self-defense and escape maneuvers, to enhance your ability to confront and overcome bullying.

Make yourself more confident in facing bullies by strengthening your physical and mental qualities.

Build positive interpersonal relationships.

Maintain good relationships with friends and classmates. Form a network of mutual assistance and support.

You can face bullying with the support and help of friends.

Seek legal assistance.

If the situation is serious, you should seek legal assistance from your local police station or social service agency.

They will provide you with the professional help and protection you need to ensure that your rights are upheld.

A comprehensive approach is needed to deal with bullying. Remain calm, rational, and brave. Seek support and help from all sides to safeguard your rights and safety.

At the same time, you must be careful not to become a bully, respect others, and work together to create a harmonious and friendly social environment.

The questioner has posed a thought-provoking inquiry. I have previously addressed the topic of bullying in the classroom and during consultations with visitors, and I am grateful for the opportunity to share my perspectives here.

In my opinion, the best way to deal with bullying is to have a zero-tolerance policy and to react strongly and determinedly. Resisting is a way of showing that you do not accept bullying.

It is my belief that the stronger the resistance, the more determined the stance. This strength will be transmitted to the bully, causing the bully to assess the risk of bullying behavior, which may result in a reduction of bullying behavior and serve to protect oneself.

Secondly, a strong and determined response demonstrates one's resolve to safeguard oneself. At this juncture, the response has transcended the scope of mere defense, conveying to the other person that one is not to be taken lightly and that engaging in bullying behavior will have consequences. It has a discernible deterrent effect and serves to dissuade the bully from further actions that could potentially lead to bullying.

Bullying can be verbal or physical. When faced with verbal bullying, many people may feel unsure of how to react. One approach could be to ignore it, not pay attention to it, or respond with a nonverbal expression. By ignoring and not paying attention to what the other person says, it may be possible to avoid being affected by those words. In other words, "You can say what you like, I don't care, what can you do about it?" If what the other person says is offensive and you feel you can't bear to hear it anymore, you might consider learning from some of the characters in movies and TV shows, and walk up to the other person with a smile on your face, then without warning pick up a thick book and slam it hard across the other person's mouth, and say, "This is a warning to you."

This demonstrates that you are not willing to be bullied and are taking action to defend yourself. However, it is also important to consider the consequences of your actions. My visitor mentioned that she was willing to accept responsibility for her actions. She felt that taking responsibility once would prevent her from being verbally bullied in the future and was a valuable step.

Regarding bullying behavior, I believe my personal opinion has already been stated above, which is to firmly and powerfully resist and fight back. On the one hand, it is to use the resources around you to protect yourself from harm, which is defense. For example, you could consider quickly moving to the other side of the table and distance yourself from the other person, so that the other person cannot harm you. You might also think about using things like books, bags, stools, etc. to protect yourself from harm, and you can also use these to attack the other person when you are seriously threatened.

I respectfully disagree with the original poster's assertion that bullying will assimilate with this. While there are certainly similarities between the two, I believe there are also important distinctions. The motivation behind resisting and fighting back is to protect oneself from harm, whereas bullying is an act of aggression. Furthermore, the nature of the behavior is different. Violence used in the right place, such as self-defense, can be a positive act, whereas bullying is a harmful and vicious way to harm others.

I would like to clarify that I am referring to school bullying in my response. With regard to bullying outside of school, it is important to recognise that a flexible and varied approach is required, with each situation being dealt with on its own merits. I hope that these personal opinions will be of some use to the questioner in formulating their own views on the matter.

I can see you're feeling confused and anxious right now.

It's tough when you're in a bullying situation. It can feel helpless and confusing. But you're not alone. You have the right and ability to deal with it.

First of all, I want to tell you that your feelings are very important and that your emotions and experiences deserve respect and attention. Resisting or stoically accepting bullying isn't the best approach. It might make things worse.

But did you know there's a gentler, more elegant way to handle all this?

This approach is called "Nonviolent Communication." It's not about ignoring the bully's actions. It's about learning to express your feelings and needs in a more peaceful and rational way.

Next time the bully speaks to you, take a deep breath, stay calm, and say something like, "Your words make me feel very uncomfortable. I hope we can respect each other and avoid such language." This response lets the other person know how you feel without getting into a fight, which gives both of you a chance to calm down.

In addition to non-violent communication, I'd also like to give you some more specific and practical advice. First, you can try to record the time, place, course of events, and your feelings each time bullying occurs.

This will help you understand your situation better and give you evidence to show if you need help in the future. Secondly, you can find someone you trust to talk to about your concerns, such as a teacher, parent, or counselor.

They can also give you some professional advice and guidance.

You might also want to look for groups or organizations that can help. For example, your school might have an anti-bullying team, or there might be community mental health services you can turn to. These places can give you specific resources and help, such as teaching you how to deal with bullying and how to keep yourself safe.

Remember, you're not alone, and there are plenty of people who can help you out of tricky situations.

It's important to protect yourself. If you feel your personal safety is at risk, get help from teachers, parents, or the police right away.

You can also learn some self-defense skills, such as how to avoid being alone in isolated places, how to identify and deal with potential dangers, and so on.

Finally, I just want to say that no matter what approach you choose to deal with bullying, remember that you're not alone. You have a lot of people who can support you.

And remember, you can handle it. Bullying isn't your fault, so don't feel ashamed or blame yourself.

On the contrary, you should be proud of your courage and strength.

In short, when faced with bullying, we need to stay calm and think things through from different angles. At the same time, we need to believe in our ability to handle difficult situations and stand up for our rights and interests.

I hope you keep growing and improving, becoming a stronger and more confident person. I wish you the best and hope you can soon overcome this difficult situation and embrace a bright future.

Good morning,

It is indisputable that bullying occurs to varying degrees in a multitude of forms.

For this reason, I would like to share some thoughts with you for your reference.

It is essential to first define the fundamental characteristics and scope of bullying.

Given that bullying is most prevalent during the teenage years, it is also a period of significant personal growth and maturation, during which conflicts and disputes are particularly common.

It is important to note that some incidents that may appear to be bullying are, in fact, conflicts and disputes that are inherent to the growth process of children.

In this type of normal conflict, temporary friction and conflict between adolescents are usually incidental and short-lived. However, they typically do not involve malicious intent or the deliberate intention to harm the other party.

It is likely that such conflicts and disputes will be resolved or subside naturally within a short period of time.

However, in instances of true bullying, the perpetrator typically has a clear objective and malicious intent to cause harm to the victim.

This form of bullying is characterized by persistent and repeated behavior that causes long-term harm and fear in the victim.

It is therefore evident that bullying can cause significant physical and mental harm to the victim, which can have a serious impact on their health and quality of life.

It is imperative that victims of bullying receive support and intervention from society, family, and school in order to protect their rights and safety in a timely manner.

Based on the aforementioned analysis and understanding, I concur with your assessment that "if you bully me, I will bully you back. In the end, we will both become bullies." Furthermore, I agree with your advice to "don't give the bully emotional responses. When the bully abuses you, he is trying to emotionally abuse you." This is a prudent response that mitigates and resolves conflicts.

In the event that you are confronted with an incident involving physical harm at the hands of a bully, it is advisable to employ the following strategies:

First, communicate openly and honestly about any conflicts or situations where you feel bullied.

Should you experience physical harm, it is advisable to inform a teacher, parent, or other trusted individual promptly, so that they can provide additional support and understanding.

This prompt communication can effectively mitigate the distress and discomfort associated with bullying incidents.

Secondly, it would be beneficial to learn some skills to deal with bullying incidents.

For example, it would be beneficial to learn effective communication skills and ways to solve emergency problems independently in order to effectively navigate various challenges encountered in daily life.

In the course of daily work or study, it is advisable to avoid direct confrontation with others. Conflicts can be averted by taking appropriate action or seeking assistance from other adults in a timely manner.

In the event of an emergency, it is important to be aware of the location of a relatively safe space, such as a crowded place, a library, or a park.

It is important to reiterate the value of self-confidence and to recognize that you are not the source of the problem. It is a natural part of growth and development to encounter challenges.

It is recommended that you arrange to participate in additional social, school, or community interest classes or activities. This will provide an opportunity to distract yourself, cultivate your interests, and enhance your sense of self-awareness.

Additionally, you can expand your social network, develop your social skills, and enhance your awareness of self-protection.

Should you experience difficulty in regulating your emotions, you are encouraged to seek the assistance of a qualified counselor.

They will provide more professional and detailed guidance and advice to assist you in understanding and managing the psychological impact of bullying.

I hope this information is useful to you.

Hello! I really hope my answer can help you in some way.

When someone bullies you, if you fight back, it is not bullying the other person. It is a totally reasonable way to protect yourself! It is like self-defense in the law. As long as it is not excessive, it is an appropriate behavior in that moment. The reason why those who are bullied eventually become bullies is because they have suppressed too many emotions inside. That means they have "endured" the emotions when being bullied. They don't know how to release and express these emotions. But they can learn!

But there are so many better ways to deal with it! We can find our own support system when we are being bullied, find people who can help us, and at the same time, we also need to protect our own boundaries in the right way (the right sense of boundaries is to dare to resist when others infringe on us, and not to actively infringe on others' boundaries). After that, we also need to help ourselves vent our emotions, adjust our perceptions, and comfort and effectively support ourselves through various effective ways.

If you've been bullied before, I'm here to tell you that you can overcome it! It's time to find some reasonable ways to release your emotions and give yourself effective support. You need to understand that "it's not your fault, but the bully's way of feeling better about himself." Obviously, his way is not correct, but you can prove to him and to yourself that you're worthy of better!

The good news is that there are ways to release your emotions and realize your self-worth! In ancient times, humans fought to obtain resources and realize their value. In modern society, we still have the opportunity to channel our aggression in a way that is more in line with social norms. For example, we can devote ourselves to things that can realize our self-worth. If you're a student and don't feel like you're gaining a sense of worth from your studies, you can still find your sense of worth in the things you're good at! Try playing an instrument, painting, or playing sports.

It's time to sort out your support system! This is all about identifying who you can trust when you're scared or sad, who you can ask for help, and what ways you can support yourself.

It's a great idea to write down the names of people who can support and help you. These could be professionals, your sister, mother, uncle, teacher, classmates, or anyone else you think of. You can contact them when you're being bullied, or if you've already been bullied, you can talk to them to release emotions and gain support.

A support system also includes some amazing comfort items that can bring you incredible comfort. You feel totally at ease when you hold them, such as a hugging bear, a special notebook for you, etc. When you are angry and uncomfortable, what food can effectively help you relieve your emotions? For example, watermelon to lower your fire, silky chocolate, etc.

And there are so many other ways to release your emotions that can also bring you comfort! Try listening to music, dancing, painting, or even percussion release. You can even try sports like hiking, boxing, or running to help release your anger.

It's time to let go of those pent-up emotions! If you were too afraid to express your feelings in front of the bully, it's time to find a way to let those emotions out. You can find a safe space, throw pillows, swear, tear paper, or express your anger or grievances through the technique of an empty chair. Just imagine that the other person is sitting in a chair, and you can say anything you want to the chair. You can express your anger, grievances, anxiety, worries, and more!

Once you've dealt with these emotions, you'll be able to look at the issue more rationally and face a similar situation next time with confidence!

Absolutely! We can also work on our ability to respond. Let's start by rehearsing what to do in case... What do you do? You can rehearse for yourself how you can better handle the situation if it happens again.

If the other person wants to hit you next time, you have to stand up to them! You can't just let them hit you and put up with it. If you don't think you can beat them, you can run to a crowded place to call for help, or take out your phone and ask someone in your support system for help (they'll be scared, but they'll help you!). You can also express yourself verbally, for example, using the word "I." Training: Express your opinions promptly, accurately, and decisively. First, use "I" to express your feelings; second, use "you" to state the reason; and then use "I want you" to express what you want. For example, you can say: "I'm very angry now because you want to hit me. I want you to stop your behavior immediately, otherwise I will immediately notify my father to come here..."

If you don't want trouble, don't cause it! It's as simple as that. And remember, it's your responsibility to guard your own boundaries. You've got this!

I hope this is helpful for you! Best regards!

Questioner, you must deal with bullying behavior in a way that protects yourself and avoids escalating the conflict. Here are some suggestions:

Stay calm. When faced with bullying, the first thing you must do is stay calm. Don't let your emotions control your actions. An emotional response will only make the situation worse.

Ask for help. You are not alone in this. Ask for help from a trusted friend, family member, teacher, or school administrator.

They will provide support, advice, or help you report the bullying.

Do not engage in a conflict with a more aggressive approach. While you may feel angry or want to fight back, this will not solve the problem. It will only lead to further conflict and more serious consequences.

Record evidence. If possible, record the time, place, participants, and specific actions of the bullying. This evidence will be helpful in the future, especially when reporting bullying.

Seek professional help. If the bullying is severe enough to affect your physical and mental health or if you feel you cannot cope, get help from a psychologist or counselor. They can provide support, advice, and treatment.

If a bully attacks you physically, you must respond immediately to protect yourself. First, remain calm and look for an opportunity to escape.

If you cannot escape, protect your vital areas, such as your head and neck. Shout for help and seek help from people around you.

Don't give the bully any emotional feedback. They're looking for a reaction, so don't give it to them.

Stay calm and in control. Don't let their words or actions affect you emotionally.

Educate yourself. Understand the nature and harm of bullying and learn how to identify and respond to it. This will help you better protect yourself and avoid becoming a target of bullies.

Most importantly, don't let bullying affect your self-confidence and self-esteem. You deserve to be treated with respect and equality. Get help and support to deal with bullying.

Hello. From your words, I can see that you are reflecting on the bullying incident, and I can also sense your confusion, helplessness, and confusion. First of all, I want to offer you a hug and hope that my answer will be helpful to you.

I happened to watch the movie 20th Article yesterday, which depicts an incident of school bullying. A high school student saw a classmate being bullied and he helped by hitting the bully, injuring him. The bully's parents reported the incident, and both parents wanted justice. Just as the questioner is thinking, it seems that everyone has become a bully. In fact, from watching the movie yesterday to seeing this question you asked today, I have also been thinking about how ordinary people like us should deal with bullying. I believe that first, we must learn to protect ourselves, and second, we must call the police. We must not be afraid of calling the police because of coercion and threats. I don't know what situation the questioner is currently facing, so let's explore bullying from a psychological perspective.

Our emotional response to bullying is often complex, and we may feel a range of intense emotions, including hurt, fear, anger, and even shame. These feelings are common human experiences that remind us that our boundaries have been violated and our dignity challenged.

It would be beneficial at this time to extend compassion and understanding to ourselves, while also seeking external support and resources.

First, when faced with bullying, people often react strongly because our fundamental needs for safety and a sense of belonging are challenged. In such situations, we may feel isolated, but that doesn't necessarily mean we are truly alone.

Many people have already faced or are currently facing similar challenges, and you are not alone.

Secondly, it is often the case that bullying behaviour arises from a sense of powerlessness and a desire for power on the part of the bully, rather than from any fault of the victim. It is also possible that bullies may be facing difficulties in their own lives, and that their behaviour may be a distorted expression of their dissatisfaction with themselves.

It is important to note that this does not imply that we should condone or accept their behavior. However, understanding this can help us find some emotional relief.

It may be helpful to consider ways of taking care of your physical and mental health. This could include eating well, getting enough sleep, exercising moderately, and taking enough time off.

It is important to take care of your physical and mental health. This may include eating well, getting enough sleep, exercising moderately, and taking enough time off.

It may be helpful to consider incorporating some basic self-care activities into our routines, as they can assist us in maintaining energy levels and better coping mechanisms in the face of everyday challenges.

It may be helpful to consider setting boundaries with the bully. This could involve clearly stating which behaviors are unacceptable, both to protect yourself and to convey that disrespectful behavior will not be tolerated.

It may be helpful to seek the support of friends, family, or trusted adults when dealing with difficult situations. They can provide emotional support and assist in developing coping strategies.

It may be helpful to consider seeking professional assistance if bullying is affecting your mental health. A counselor can provide strategies and tools to help manage emotions and find solutions to problems.

- Educate and raise awareness: Sometimes, by sharing information and fostering understanding among those around you, you can contribute to a shift in attitudes towards bullying and help create a more inclusive and supportive environment.

If the situation reaches a point where it poses a serious threat to your safety, you may wish to consider seeking legal assistance.

It is important to remember that we have the right to protect ourselves from harm, whether emotional or physical. In order to do so, it is crucial to maintain inner peace and clear judgment.

Your feelings are valuable, and it is important to speak up and be heard. Please stand up for yourself and demand justice and respect. Wishing you well,

I hope my answer has been helpful. I wish you all the best in the world!

Hello, thank you for your question. I am ZQ, a heart exploration coach on the Yixinli platform. School bullying is a very unfortunate and unacceptable behavior in our modern society. It is important to note that neither excessive resistance nor constant tolerance is advisable when it comes to bullying. However, it is possible to take measures of self-defense.

It may be helpful to report the situation to anyone who could be involved in managing it. This could include teachers, class teachers, principals, education bureaus, public security bureaus, news media, women and children's work committees, parents, and other relevant individuals or organizations.

It is understandable to defend oneself in certain situations. If someone does not engage in bullying behavior towards me, I will not engage in such behavior towards them.

If someone wrongs you, you may consider responding in a similar manner. Being a victim does not necessarily make you a bully. It may be helpful to protect yourself properly. Patience may not always be the best approach. It could potentially allow the other person to continue acting in a harmful manner. When we encounter this kind of bullying, it may be helpful to act promptly.

It would be advisable to avoid the situation and the individual in question, and to inform the relevant personnel of the incident. They will be best placed to resolve the issue. It is important to remember that this kind of behaviour should never be tolerated on campus, as it may continue if left unchecked.

If the situation persists and you continue to experience harm, it is likely to have a significant impact on your quality of life and studies. In such cases, it may be helpful to involve the teacher or principal, who may be able to facilitate a resolution. If this is not successful, it might be beneficial to seek the guidance of parents or even the police.

In short, it would be beneficial to use all your strength to protect yourself better, so that the other person will fear you.

It is important to let others know that you are not someone to be messed with. Assertiveness is a quality that can help you survive in society, as many societies have elements of injustice and disharmony. Striving for harmony, civilization, and equality can help create a more just and peaceful society.

It is evident that the quality of each person varies. Even in a confined space like a train, we witness a multitude of behaviours. Some individuals conduct themselves with admirable politeness, while others may engage in less desirable actions such as smoking or occupying seats in an inconsiderate manner.

It is unfortunate that there are people in this world who do not have the best of qualities. There are also those who may cause harm to others. When our rights and interests are infringed upon, it is important to take action to defend ourselves in a way that is both effective and protective.

If you feel comfortable doing so, you may also wish to consider reporting this behavior to someone in authority. The news media is also very well developed nowadays, and we can expose this matter.

In this way, you may be able to use the power of the news media's language to protect yourself. If you feel that you have been affected by bullying, it might be helpful to consider some psychological counseling to improve your mentality.

I would gently suggest that you try not to let negative things affect you. You might also find it helpful to read "Modern People Seeking Soul," "Please Stop Apologizing," and "Why We Are Bullied." Wishing you well.

Could I ask you a question, ZQ?

I am pleased to have the opportunity to respond to your question.

From your question, I surmise that you may have experienced or previously experienced bullying.

I posit that only an individual who has personally experienced such a situation can fully comprehend the profound confusion that ensues.

It is inevitable that an individual who has been subjected to bullying will experience feelings of fear.

In such instances, the natural response is to avoid the perpetrator when the opportunity arises.

Nevertheless, it is inevitable that anger will ensue following a period of bullying.

When experiencing anger, the natural inclination is to confront the bully.

A Chinese idiom offers a description of the look of fear and hatred.

It is first necessary to address these two emotions within ourselves.

It is essential to acknowledge and accept the presence of fear and anger.

The act of resisting will not be carried out in the pursuit of vengeance.

This represents the initial challenging obstacle that must be surmounted.

If we can grasp the notion that killing is an excruciatingly painful act, it is likely that our hatred will dissipate.

Secondly, it must be acknowledged that patience is not a sign of weakness.

This represents the second significant challenge that must be overcome.

When we lack the requisite strength, we assert that moral persuasion is tantamount to self-deception.

It is therefore recommended that efforts be made to enhance physical fitness and cultivate resilience of character.

The objective is not to engage in intimidation or coercion on a future date.

However, when the ability to conquer by force is within our reach,

We are prepared to "persuade others through virtue."

It is uncertain whether this provides a response to the question posed.

Should you remain in this particular emotional state,

In addition, a supplementary line is provided.

"Evil people will be fought by evil people."

It is unwise to adopt the same tactics as one's opponent when attempting to overcome them.

Hello, I am Gu Daoxi Fengshou Slender Donkey, the Heart Exploration coach.

It could be said that one of the characteristics of bullying is the destruction of boundaries. It seems that the bully treats the non-bully as an object on which he can vent his anger at will without risk.

It is worth noting that not everyone is a target for bullies. They tend to pick on individuals who are unlikely to retaliate. By understanding the common characteristics of bullies' targets and concealing some of these characteristics, you may feel safer when facing bullies.

It is important to remember that bullying does not become uncontrollable after the first time. When a bully sends out the first bullying signal, they are actually testing the attitude and reaction of the person being bullied. If the person being bullied makes it clear from the start that they are not someone the bully can pick on, it is likely that the bully will stop.

As the old saying goes, "If you don't bully others, others won't bully you." It's important to distinguish between defense and active bullying, as they are not the same concept.

It is not always the case that anti-bullies become bullies themselves. Similarly, resistance is not necessarily the same as bullying. These may be different concepts, and distinguishing between them could help us feel more at ease and reduce our concerns when dealing with them.

Adler said, "All troubles stem from interpersonal relationships." When you don't care about the other person's evaluation and attitude, the other person's emotional bullying will be ineffective. I also experienced emotional bullying in elementary school. A classmate called on the whole class to isolate me. At that time, my best friend couldn't stand the pressure from the crowd and told me that he couldn't play with me anymore. I said it was okay because I didn't need strong interpersonal relationships, so it didn't have a big impact. It wasn't until a semester later that the classmate who bullied me found someone to reconcile with me and wanted to make up with me.

In the case of bullying methods such as hitting, it might be more effective to respond in a similar manner. If you make it clear that such behavior is unacceptable, it is likely that the other person will refrain from it in the future. This is similar to how we might react if we were angry and hit our pillow with our hand, but would be unlikely to do so with our hand against a wall because it would cause damage.

Some people posit that the bully may be more vulnerable than the bullied. Attempting to demonstrate their sense of power in some way and trying to understand the reasons for their behavior may help to better weaken their violent factors and make them bully less.

"Nonviolent Communication" suggests that there are four elements to consider when communicating: 1. observation, 2. feelings, 3. needs, and 4. requests. It may be helpful to listen to the emotions and needs behind every word of the bully in order to connect with the other person better.

If communication is ineffective, you may wish to consider seeking help in a more appropriate way, such as talking to your parents or teachers. This will help the other person to understand your feelings and your desire to avoid conflict. It will also make you more confident and reduce the risk of being bullied.

You might find it helpful to read "Between You and Me" and "Nonviolent Communication."

I hope this finds you well.

Hello!

Dear, I know it can be really scary when a bully hits you. It's so important to resist, protect yourself, call for help from the teachers and classmates around you, tell your parents, and protect the evidence at the scene. And don't forget to call the police as soon as you can!

It's so important to learn how to protect yourself with the weapons of the law. I know it can be really tough, but you've got to have the confidence to keep going and stick up for yourself.

Stand up to the bully, but don't agree with them. Defy their bullying and hit back if you have to.

But there is always a limit. We will never bully others again, including those who have bullied us. We will continue to treat them with respect and equality, because everyone deserves to be treated with kindness.

It's likely that bullying and being bullied are two sides of the same coin. It's even possible for someone to go from being bullied to becoming a bully themselves.

So let's try to be moderate and abide by moderation. Hitting back is not the same as bullying others.

We must stand up to anyone who bullies us, no matter what.

If you take the abuse and hit back, the bully will only get worse. We really don't want that to happen to you!

It doesn't matter if he wants to emotionally abuse you or physically abuse you, you must resist. Being a "soft target" is the easiest way to be bullied, and the easiest way to become a target for bullying.

It's okay to stand up to it and fight back. You can stand up to your bully and fight back. Just remember, fighting back doesn't mean bullying weaker classmates or picking on others.

The so-called "fight back and curse back" is all about protecting your physical and mental rights and interests, and looking after yourself like a warrior. Make sure you're protecting your rights and interests from bullying, and don't let anyone bully you!

Of course, there are lots of other ways you can protect yourself, other than fighting back or cursing. For example, you can ask your parents to stand up for you and speak up for you.

If you're feeling scared or upset, it's always a good idea to go to your teacher for help and support. You're not alone! There are lots of other students who have been through similar things and you can join a group to help you stand up for yourself.

We should definitely call the police for protection and help. This will help to put a stop to the bully's bravado and eliminate his arrogance in bullying his classmates.

We treat our classmates with kindness and respect. Unfortunately, there are some people who want to bully others. We mustn't allow this to happen.

Even if they are verbally abused, we must resist, argue back, and protect ourselves. We can't let them get to us! We need to protect ourselves so we can escape the spell of bullying.