Schizophrenia, suppressed anxiety and irritability, is there no way to get married in this life?

It's tough to pinpoint exactly what kind of psychological disorder you're dealing with. The diagnosis you come up with based on your different states is bound to be biased, as are the methods and scales used in the diagnosis process.

It's important to understand your own situation and the diagnostic criteria for various psychological disorders, such as DSM-5.

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You might want to think about this: if you don't have any special needs, what's the point of knowing what kind of psychological disorder you have? It doesn't actually help people solve their own problems.

Instead of getting caught up in identifying the specific psychological disorder, focus on yourself, living in the present, and making the most of the present.

From what you've said, it's clear that you feel powerless, helpless, and even lonely. Your emotional changes are closely related to your experiences, and emotional breakdowns are often caused not by major events but by minor details.

The reason this happens is that you've built up too many emotions inside. Just because they don't come out doesn't mean they're not there.

After an emotional outburst, you'll probably feel depressed and low again. When you're at that point, you'll likely have another emotional outburst.

You need to find your own value in your daily life and your most important goals. Second, you should let yourself go and plan your limited energy, time, and space reasonably.

It's okay to vent and adjust as needed. If you're unsure about anything, feel free to explore further.

Best,

Hello,

The hospital's diagnosis has made you anxious and worried.

Your marriage and future will be affected by these symptoms.

I don't know how old you are. When did you first go to the hospital for a diagnosis, and how long has it been?

Different diagnoses can make you more confused and anxious.

I appreciate that you tell every woman you date about your medical condition.

This shows your kindness and good sense.

A hospital diagnosis gives a result based on data and different doctors.

They will also give their opinion based on what they know.

Different doctors will give different diagnoses.

Your text is precise, clear, logical, and has a certain quality.

It's not enough to say you're a schizophrenic patient. Most schizophrenic patients have hallucinations.

Delusions, lack of self-awareness, and confusion in speech and logic.

If you feel low, lose interest, and think about suicide, you may be depressed.

If you have mood swings, it's possible you have bipolar disorder.

If you worry about your health and seek treatment, you may have hypochondria.

You feel your anxiety is worse because you're older and married.

Is it about anxiety?

To deal with anxiety, you need to know what causes it.

There are three situations:

Realistic anxiety is something everyone faces, such as work pressure and marital pressure.

Moral anxiety is when you doubt and deny yourself because of something you've done.

You were in a relationship with the woman. You had serious inner conflicts and were anxious about telling her about your illness.

The third kind of anxiety is neurotic anxiety. It is related to personality and early growth experiences. It is a kind of nihilistic anxiety.

Finding the cause of anxiety takes time.

Fourth type: This is when your body is out of balance due to hormones.

How to stop the cycle?

I recommend combining medication with psychoanalysis or dynamic therapy. If money is an issue,

Join a personal growth group to help you grow.

You can also learn some relaxation techniques, like breathing and muscle relaxation.

Meditation, mindfulness, and zazen can help with anxiety.

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I'm counselor Yao. I'm here to support you!