Senior high school students, facing the pressure and depression of the upcoming college entrance examination, how to cope with it?

Hello!

You have a crush on your homeroom teacher. He pesters you, which is unethical. You lose concentration in your studies because you're influenced by him. I understand your feelings of annoyance.

If someone is always around you, you'll interact with them more. If they read your personal thoughts, it's like someone found your secret. You'll pay more attention to this person.

If you're attracted to someone, it's probably because they know your secrets or you think their actions are a sign of affection. It could also be that the teacher is concerned about the student, or it could just be your attention. When you pay attention to this person, you'll feel like everything they do is related to you.

Maybe the other person has also gone to someone else's place and gotten to know other students.

Your attention may have triggered a liking for someone, but they may not feel the same way. You can reduce your attention or compare them to you.

The college entrance exam is coming up, so you can put your relationship on hold for now. First, review your lessons. If you can't control yourself, keep an emotional diary and exercise to release negative emotions and adjust yourself positively.

I hope this helps. Best wishes!

Hello, host! I'm so honored to answer your question. It looks like you're a high school graduate.

I always thought my teacher was a little bit neurotic, always hanging around your seat. After the meeting, my parents left from their seats and sat right in your seat, writing words of encouragement to myself, and I wrote my idol on that note.

It was so awkward when the teacher directly hinted during class that she also liked her idol! Thinking about these things again made it impossible to concentrate.

Xiexin is really struggling with this. It's always on my mind.

You feel a little excited inside, but you know you can restrain yourself and won't let it get out of hand. It's not worth trying to make the teacher hate you. You want to concentrate on your studies and get into a good university.

It's a tough time for high school seniors. They're facing a lot of pressure from their studies and heavy course loads. This is a critical period for forming a unified sense of identity. It's important to remember that excessive stimulation can affect your mentality when preparing for exams.

After the parents' meeting, the teacher sat in your seat and saw the lovely words you had left for yourself and your idol. It was a bit of a surprise, as you had thought your secret was safe! You felt that the teacher's actions had offended you a little, and you were a little upset with the teacher.

It's totally normal to start seeing the teacher as a competitor when you keep hinting at your idol and it turns out the teacher also likes him very much! Adolescent girls are sensitive, suspicious, and full of thoughts, so it's no surprise you're feeling this way. It's possible the teacher has a different idea of what it means to like someone. In your opinion, the teacher's idea of "like" should be the kind of like between husband and wife.

There's a lot going on in your mind right now, and I totally get it. You're feeling a range of emotions, from affection to sensuality, and it's totally normal to feel a bit disgusted. What the teacher means by liking is more appreciation, not such a strong sense of possessiveness.

At the end of the day, a good character can be looked up to by anyone as a role model.

I can see that you're attracted to your teacher, but I'm sure you'll be able to resist the temptation and keep your moral standards intact. I admire your objective and rational approach to this situation.

It's totally normal to long to be with the outstanding opposite sex, or to hope to become as motivated and outstanding as your idol through your own efforts. This is also the reason why some teachers at the high school level become the secret crushes of their students.

This is the most ancient motivation from your genes. It motivates a large number of students to achieve their goals through their own efforts and get into their ideal universities.

You don't have to force yourself to hate your teacher. When you reach the same level of excellence as your teacher, you'll see that he's not as attractive to you. There'll be lots of other amazing people around you, and you'll have lots of great options!

I'm so happy to have an appointment! 1983. The world and I love you!