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The class schedule is chaotic, exhausting me mentally. How should a teacher choose a career?

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The class schedule is chaotic, exhausting me mentally. How should a teacher choose a career? By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024

I'm so tired! It's been 5 years working, and I still get cried by students. During after-school service classes, I check their homework, and several students haven't done it, nor do they make up for it, just chatting and losing focus. They don't take you seriously at all, just calling names and asking questions. They don't know or understand, and then continue chatting, not writing when asked. You can't hit or scold, and they don't listen! It really wears me down! Every time I teach that class, I doubt my life! I want to quit! But everyone online says it's hard to find a job! I'm too scared to quit, feeling like teaching is my only skill. Although I have a wide range of interests, love learning, used to like English, traditional Chinese medicine, photography, documentaries, plants, psychology, writing, social sciences, etc., but they say it's hard to find a job, so I was forced to choose a science major, but I really don't like it and find it hard to force myself to learn additional and in-depth professional knowledge. I'm just the first generation of college students from the countryside, scared that after quitting, I might never find a secure job again, and since I haven't worked in other companies in society, I've been in school, feeling easy to be deceived! But the restless heart still wants to do the work I like and am interested in, but I haven't dared to take that step, but I am firmly determined to quit, waiting until I am strong enough or have enough autonomy! So life is really hard! Of course, I also work diligently and diligently in my current job, and I am average.

Aurora Kennedy Aurora Kennedy A total of 8526 people have been helped

Teaching is such hard work, isn't it?

My mom is a teacher, and it's really tough on her. She puts her heart and soul into her work, and it's so sad to see her struggling.

I can totally relate to your feelings! I think you're spot on about why it's tough to raise kids nowadays. First, students are disobedient, and teachers don't feel like they have a lot of authority.

It's so sad when students feel like there's no need to do their homework. They think they're just doing it for the teacher, without really learning anything. And it's so frustrating when parents don't take responsibility for their children's education. They ignore the teacher's advice and don't help their kids with their homework.

It's so hard for any responsible teacher who has to deal with students without the cooperation of their parents! It's really frustrating and disappointing when students disrespect their teachers, don't listen to them, and don't care about their grades.

You're doing a great job, teacher!

I think the teacher is tired because she doesn't feel supported and can't see an end to her work in such a class. I can relate!

My mom also had a class like that at the beginning. She said she only looked at the kids who were doing a little better. She would think to herself that it was hard to get the kids to discipline themselves, and that she really didn't have the energy to do it herself. So, she focused on the kids who were more promising.

I really think this is a good perspective. I hope I can tell you that going to the class to find some children you feel it is still necessary to spend time on, focusing on their positive performance, may give you a real, comforting sparkle in difficult times.

I can imagine you might feel like you're not getting the right amount of return on your time investment at work. It can be tough when you're teaching a class that's not quite meeting expectations. But don't set your sights too high! Why not aim for the school average?

You've made a great start! Just a little improvement from before you took the class is good enough!

It's totally okay to lower expectations! It's realistic and also allows you to feel a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, which gives you a reason to keep doing a great job. I really hope that teachers can feel happy and satisfied at work and have the chance to encourage themselves, whether it comes from parents, students, or other colleagues. They can feel the warmth and respect from those around them.

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Matthew Stephen Jackson Matthew Stephen Jackson A total of 3705 people have been helped

Hello! I hope you'll accept this gesture of support and encouragement from afar.

I am grateful for the opportunity to read your request for help and hope that I can provide you with some support and assistance. From your description, I can sense that you are experiencing a sense of overwhelm and frustration in your work.

From your description, it seems there may be an underlying assumption that this class is comprised of students who are struggling. It's possible that this perception may not be universally held by all teachers. Given your background in educational psychology, you likely have some understanding of the concept of a self-fulfilling prophecy.

It is worth noting that the teacher's expectations of students can have a significant impact on their performance in school. When we unconsciously label students in a particular class as "poor students," especially when we are not aware of the label we have given them, it can prevent us from seeing the other bright spots and advantages in these students. Instead, we may find ourselves focusing on their perceived deficiencies and inadequacies.

Even if you haven't explicitly discouraged your students, denied them, or done anything to hurt their self-esteem, your inner rejection of them might still be expressed through your non-verbal messages, which children can perceive. It's something you as a teacher might want to be aware of and work on.

From your description, I sense that you may be experiencing some dissatisfaction with yourself, dislike, and harsh criticism. When we are unaware of these feelings, they can manifest as a sense of depletion and emptiness at work. This is because we are not nourishing ourselves through our work and may not feel a sense of accomplishment. If we do not find ways to relieve this frustration outside of work, it can affect our interactions with students.

Teaching is a career that requires continuous learning and growth. This is because the children you face are learning and growing every day, and the knowledge they receive is increasing exponentially. The teaching profession also offers many opportunities for personal growth. You can choose to develop and improve yourself in whatever way you see fit. When your students perceive you as a teacher who is striving to grow, they will also show you more respect. Furthermore, while you are engaged in your own educational pursuits, you will also benefit from personal growth, especially in the areas that you are particularly interested in.

For those of you in the teaching profession, reading some psychology books could be a beneficial way to gain a deeper understanding of the physical and mental development of your students. This could help you to better fulfill your role as a teacher and feel a greater sense of accomplishment in your teaching career.

My name is Lily, and I'm here to listen to your questions. I hope you'll find this event helpful, and I want to extend my love and appreciation to you all.

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Eliza Kennedy Eliza Kennedy A total of 5673 people have been helped

Hello! I just made an analogy with a student today. You're giving a serious lecture on stage, but some people at the back aren't listening and are talking, disturbing you and the other students.

It's like you're a chef who's dedicated to cooking well, but the diners don't pay. While you're cooking hard, they add all kinds of ingredients to the food, making it necessary to just throw it away. Those who want to eat the food don't get to eat it, and those who don't want to eat it don't care, but it's just a waste of time and energy. I heard a director say that discipline comes before teaching, and without discipline, teaching is difficult and can't be carried out in an orderly manner. I understand this.

Sometimes I feel like my child doesn't really understand the impact of studying or not studying on his future. He doesn't have a clear direction, can't see the future, doesn't want to think about it, and yet he obviously understands.

If you give away too much, they'll resent you for it. When you ask the question, you should separate it from your identity as a teacher and ask how you should choose a career for yourself.

What skills have you picked up from your years of teaching experience? Is there a job out there that would suit you?

If someone who's only been teaching for a year or so quits, they probably won't be looking for a job again. Who knows what the future holds?

You brought up "that class," which shows that discipline is still an option in other classes. I feel that qualities like patience, love, and treating everyone equally are a good fit for the teaching profession. However, a soft aura, not being strict enough, not getting angry, and finding it hard to speak loudly are not ideal.

In addition to teaching, there are various other things, and you have to find a balance and compromise. You have to judge for yourself based on your own situation. You can start by asking classmates or people you know who are doing work you are interested in, what the market is like.

In a few years, teachers will also have to deal with the issue of changing jobs, so good luck!

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Beckett Joseph Franklin Beckett Joseph Franklin A total of 4719 people have been helped

It's normal to feel uncertain about the challenges of teaching and your personal career development. Here are some tips to help you make decisions when considering career options:

1. **Career assessment**: First, you need to conduct an in-depth assessment of your interests, skills, and values. Find out what you really love and in which areas you can achieve your greatest potential.

2. Career exploration: Research the fields you are interested in to learn about career prospects, required skills, and educational background. This will help you determine which fields are right for you.

3. **Training and education**: Determine whether further education or training is necessary to achieve your career goals. This may entail taking relevant courses, workshops, or obtaining a certificate.

4. Internships and part-time jobs: Before making a major career change, find an internship or part-time job in an area that interests you. This will help you gain a better understanding of these fields and valuable experience.

5. Network with professionals in your field of interest. They can provide industry insights, advice, and potential job opportunities.

6. Financial planning: Before leaving your job, you must ensure you have sufficient savings to support yourself during your career transition. Furthermore, you must create a realistic financial plan to cope with potential changes in income.

7. Mental preparation: Accept the uncertainties and challenges that a career change may bring. Maintain a positive attitude and believe in your ability to adapt to a new environment.

8. Take action gradually. Don't rush into making big decisions all at once. Take the time to develop your interests in your spare time before considering a full-time commitment.

9. Get professional advice. If you are confused about your career planning, seek help from career consultants. They can provide you with professional advice and guidance.

10. Stay open. Keep an open mind when exploring new career paths. Unexpected opportunities will arise that lead you in a new career direction.

You must remember that career change is a process that requires time and effort. Before making a decision, you must ensure that you have fully considered all the factors and are prepared for your choice.

It is also crucial to prioritize your mental health and maintain a sense of balance and well-being as you pursue your career goals.

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Jennifer Miller A diligent spirit is like a strong wind, propelling you forward.

I hear you, teaching can be incredibly draining when students don't seem to value your efforts. It's tough to stay motivated when you're not getting the respect or cooperation you deserve. Maybe it's time to consider a change, even if it's scary. You have so many interests outside of teaching that could lead to fulfilling opportunities.

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Claire Miller Life is a balance beam, maintain your equilibrium.

It sounds like you're at a crossroads where staying might feel safer but isn't satisfying. Have you thought about how you can integrate your passions into your current role? Sometimes finding small ways to bring what you love into your work can reignite your passion and make the job more bearable.

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Urania Lynn Growth is learning to love yourself enough to know you deserve better.

I admire your dedication despite the challenges. It's clear you want to do something that aligns with your true interests. Perhaps you could start by exploring parttime or freelance opportunities in areas like English, photography, or writing. That way, you can build up experience and confidence before making a full switch.

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Chauncey Thomas The fairness of a teacher in evaluation is a cornerstone of students' trust in the learning process.

The struggle between doing what you love and ensuring job security is real. But it's important to remember that your worth isn't tied to just one path. With your diverse interests and willingness to learn, you're bound to find a career that brings you joy and stability. Taking small steps towards that goal might be less daunting and help you gain the courage to pursue your dreams.

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