Hello, classmate! I can see the confusion you are facing right now, but I'm here to help! Hugs to you!
You're going through some emotional challenges right now, but you've got this! I'm sending you a big, warm hug to help you through it.
Oh my goodness, yes! The nasty epidemic has kept you locked up in school for three weeks. You want to go home, but you can't.
I totally get it. It's been a while since you've been home, and I know you've been missing your folks. Let me give you another big hug across the screen!
Luckily, technology is so advanced these days! How old are your parents?
I bet they use WeChat too!
If you have WeChat, you can make a video call to them when you miss them. It's a great way to stay connected!
Oh, and one more thing! You'll definitely run into some interpersonal problems living in a dormitory, but that's totally normal.
I remember when I was studying in London, England, I lived in a school dormitory for a while. It was so much fun! Then some classmates guarded the bathroom with their books, and I later realized what they were up to.
It turned out that they were on a mission to find the least busy time to take a shower. They wanted to make sure they got to take a shower at the perfect moment!
As for what you said, I'm excited to tell you about a technique that can help you in this situation!
This is great! It means you can refuse to do things that are not your responsibility.
For example, if they ask you to take out the trash every day, you can say, "Sorry, that's not your job."
And the best part is, after you refuse them a few more times, they won't bother asking for your help anymore!
When I studied abroad, I used this method, and it really worked!
It's totally normal to be afraid of asking for help! The good news is that you can face it with an ordinary attitude, knowing that your classmates are only obliged to help you out of friendship.
I'm sure you'll find an effective solution to the problem you're facing soon!
I've got some great ideas for you!
I really hope my answers above are helpful and inspiring to you! I am the answer, and I study hard every day!
Here at Yixinli, we love you! Best wishes!


Comments
I totally get how you feel. It's tough preparing for such a big exam while dealing with all these daily stresses. The dorm life can be challenging, especially when you're missing home and feeling the pressure to socialize. But try to find small moments of comfort, like talking to your roommates about how you feel; they might understand more than you think. Also, remember it's okay to take breaks and do what you need to stay sane, even if it's just a short walk or a call to your parents.
The stress of the upcoming exam is really getting to me too. I know it's hard to focus on math when there's so much on your mind. Maybe setting small, manageable goals each day could help you feel more in control. And about the shower situation, don't worry too much about inconveniencing others; everyone has their own routine. Try to remind yourself that it's normal to need some personal time and space. It's not selfish to take care of yourself.
It sounds like you're carrying a lot right now. I can relate to feeling scared of social interactions and being overly sensitive to how others treat you. But remember, it's okay to reach out for support. Your roommates seem nice, so maybe you can confide in them. They might offer some unexpected kindness. As for studying, sometimes changing up your environment can make a difference. Maybe finding a quiet spot on campus or joining a study group could help you concentrate better.
Feeling listless and unmotivated is so common during this intense period. I admire your awareness of your feelings and your efforts to manage them. It's important to acknowledge that it's okay to feel this way. Perhaps you could set aside specific times for selfcare, like taking that leisurely bath you mentioned. Also, consider talking to a counselor or mentor; they might provide some strategies to cope with the anxiety and help you feel more at ease in your surroundings.