What is your perspective on the issue of a young man collapsing and jumping off a building for a girl?

Hello! I'm glad you asked for help. I hope my sharing helps.

I felt sad when I read this news. People have different feelings about this.

So, whatever you feel, think, or believe, you can accept it, especially if you haven't shared it publicly.

You feel sorry for the boy, but this is about one person wanting to do something while the other lets them. When a person is too nice to others and gets caught up in their pain, it's not a problem with that person, it's a problem with them.

How much and how we give to others is how adults protect themselves.

As adults, we should be kind to others because we can take care of ourselves, be good to ourselves, and love ourselves.

If someone doesn't know how to love themselves, they love others without restraint. This shows they grew up with too many deficits. They prove to themselves that they are valuable and needed through unchecked giving to others. What do you think?

We must first learn to love ourselves. Then, we can love others. If we love others by giving up ourselves, we may not be loving them. We may just be trying to control them.

What do you think?

Love is a choice. Love yourself and others with moderation.

I'm Lily, a Q&A Pavilion listener. I love the world and you.

Hello, question asker. I can see that you're feeling a bit confused right now. I'm here to support you.

In the case of Fat Cat, perhaps it would be best not to focus on who is right or wrong.

However, it does highlight one important fact.

It would be beneficial to pay more attention to children growing up in single-parent families.

It would seem that the parents of Fat Cat divorced when he was quite young, and he was subsequently raised by his grandparents.

It might be the case that he himself is relatively lacking in love.

It is possible that someone who has not received a great deal of love may be more likely to fall in love.

Perhaps, then, in the case of Fat Cat, we might consider the parents' perspective.

For instance, you might consider telling your child that although his parents have divorced, it is not his fault and that he can still talk to them if he needs to.

I believe it is important for us to teach our children well. For instance, we can instill in them a positive outlook on life and relationships from an early age. We can encourage them to recognize the value of their lives and to treat themselves with care.

It might be the case that when the cat is aware that he is still able to speak to his parents without their knowledge, he will feel less desperate and more hopeful about his situation.

I truly hope that the issue you're facing can be resolved in a timely and effective manner.

At this moment, my thoughts are drawn back to the above.

I hope my above answer is helpful and inspiring to you, the questioner. I am the answerer, and I study hard every day.

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I hope this finds you well. I just wanted to drop you a quick line to see how you're doing.